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Mr. Truelove

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Mr. Truelove last won the day on December 4 2009

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  • Birthday 06/23/1977

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    Married Male
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    Fort Wayne
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    9 years

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    Thetrueloves

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  1. So after reading all this for the first time I have to ask, what do you take from this experience? Is poly something you look forward to trying again sometime? Something you'll be seeking or avoiding?
  2. Wow has this thread ever been more relevant. First we were at the club about 2 weeks ago and I ran into a regular customer at work. I just said hello and went with the flow. I kind of had a feel for the guy that he'd be discreet. (as good a feel as you ever could) Turned out to be a fun time shooting the breeze and having some drinks. Saw him again at work this week and we both had great poker faces. Haha. Then, I'm browsing on one of the sites that let you see who has viewed you, and a pretty close friend of mine (Not best friend, but close) and his wife had a face pic staring back at me. I was shocked! I couldn't keep that one secret and texted him the next morning asking if he had/wanted a naked picture of his wife. Told him they were being naughty... really making him sweat it. For a good 40 minutes I had him freaking out. Then I went ahead and told him how long we've been in the lifestyle. We've been texting all week, apparently they had liked us and almost approached us about having some group fun(without knowing we were swingers) but didn't know how to bring something like that up. Well... Dinner on Friday..we'll see how it goes.
  3. One of our first group experiences Mrs. Truelove had a really sore neck afterwards and most certainly from oral in an unusual position. A terrible "kink". It persisted for a couple weeks even with regular visits to the chiropractor. It was obvious to people around us that she had a kink in her neck and people kept asking how she did it. Which I found extremely funny. "Yeah hon, how did you do that to your neck?" hahaha.
  4. We can usually try to claim that we met our current group of friend through so and so we went to high school with. The nice part about it, is that it's pretty much true. We just leave the whole swinging aspect out, and tell the truth otherwise.
  5. All of the above. lol. If you are posting this, you are eager enough to make it work.
  6. To the original poster: What'd you end up doing and how did it turn out?
  7. Also, I have noticed that if one half the couple is really getting along and the other isn't getting much guy attention. Often the focus will shift to what hubby is doing. So plenty of attention may help her keep from feeling "outside" of the situation.
  8. If you do go farther I would certainly put the ball in her court to slow down. By this I mean that I wouldn't necessarily hold way back. I'd bring on the flirt. I'd still be cautious for red flags, but I'd try to be assertive about play. I've run into it in the past where my timidness with a play partner that was "warming up" to it was a turn off. She wanted a guy to be more dominant. The minute I turned up the heat, it made her want it more, and then it turned into a much more enjoyable experience for the both of us. She's a grown up and can signal you to back off if she wants. Just watch for the signals and I think you will be fine. Then, if she's still not into it, it's time to call it what it is.
  9. From a man's point of view... I rate women by how excited they are to be with me! Body type is of little importance. If I find them attractive, fun, and sexy. Away we go. I imagine a woman's point of view might be more sympathetic though. And I can understand you feeling more comfortable not being next to someone way thinner. (5'4" and 150 isn't that big a deal) But it's the #1 thing I hear. Even many of the model looking types have some sort of self esteem issue. I've heard a 26 year old that looks amazing say she needs a breast lift. I'd say worry more about playing the play partner and less about how you look doing it.
  10. This shows such a lack of respect it's crazy. I'm thinking you two need to spend some time together and working on the basics of marriage.
  11. I'd be honest to a point. I've always been the type to tell someone that we're just not feeling the chemistry or attraction. Even if it was there for a while to begin with. Things change. I've had to tell that to two couples and each one took it very well, in fact, we're still in contact with them and they are very friendly regardless and don't ever push to play. You don't need to go into the details of why it's become a no-go. That's kind of on them to figure out. It could cause excess grief to go into details. I wouldn't play anymore. Even solo. I'm with Lee. Keep it simple.
  12. I find it distracting the more other people are involved and often have a difficulty cumming because of it even if I am hard. I would think I would be much more comfortable with separate room, but we have never done that. It might end up being a whatever I'm in the mood for though if we do. Sometimes I would want Mrs. there and other times not, because sometimes just watching her really gets me off. Most the time though I'd just want to focus on what I am doing.
  13. I recently had a situation where someone asked to see our pics. We are on a break and had it posted on our profile that we were. For some reason though when they asked I clicked on theirs and they had none public. It kind of irked me because whenever I asked someone I already had mine open. I guess I just figure that's the way it should be. So when they asked I simply asked to see theirs and didn't open mine. Figuring that they wouldn't. Well, they did. And not only were we on a break, we weren't going to have any interest in them. So then I felt bad because there was no reason to open ours at that point unless it was going to be for a "well we saw yours so it's only fair" kind of reason. Ultimately I didn't open ours. Felt kinda bad, but I always do when we decline someone.
  14. We haven't played in well over a month. And we haven't even been with each other for a couple weeks. (ugh) One more week to go. We're hoping everything is healed up from biopsies and infections. She also has unimaginably high blood pressure right now. (was 210/130) (actually lower now with medication) Which we are in the process of getting looked at and treated. But I doubt that is linked. The biopsy was because of an abnormal pap and that came back benign. I doubt this is us passing it back and forth. We're just not having the frequency of sex that we usually do, and we've never had that as an issue before. (been together for 16 years) We don't have sex while she has an infection. I could understand maybe passing it back and forth a couple times on accident, but this many times seems... unlikely. I suppose it's possible though.
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