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    Idaho
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  1. I agree that dropping hints is the way to start - but even that can backfire on you so you need to decide before you do if you can handle it if they cannot take it, and if you are willing to risk the friendship. I have heard of this working and I believe it can, but the friends we chose to drop hints too couldn't take it. We had two sets of very close friends that we thought could handle it and might also benefit. Our intention was not to pressure them or hook up with them, but to be able to actually talk about the fun we have. It was to the point where they thought we just stayed at home and did nothing all of the time because we couldn't tell them the truth, and it made our times together less fun because we were keeping a huge secret. One couple I had been friends with since highschool and the other couple were friends that we had spent every special occassion with and vacationed together for over 10 years. We never got the chance to elaborate on any of our hints with either couple. The female of the highschool couple completely freaked out, told other friends what she "thought" we were into, told us we were no longer welcome to play dice with the group we'd been playing with for about 6 years, and I have not spoken to her since. This was a few years ago. The other couple changed the subject every time we dropped a hint - so we took the clue and haven't tried to even hint again. We still see them occasionally, but not as often and we don't have much to talk about when we do. They do know that we have a group of friends that we go to a lot of parties with - because we no longer party with them on New Years, etc. If they ever ask, we will tell them - but we don't bring it up anymore because we don't want to lose them like we did the other friends. It's a tough call - I hope it works out for you better than it did for us! - Roni
  2. Nicely said - I totally agree. Also, some women cannot cum without clitoral stimulation, so even if you could go all night if you don't stimulate her with your tongue or finger she may never come. Ask her and talk to her. Communication is a wonderful thing!
  3. I know that for some incest is a hot fantasy. I can read stories about incest and think they are hot, but this is one area for me where fantasy and reality must remain completely separate. As soon as it becomes personal - anything hot about it totally disappears and the eeeewwww factor kicks in. I've told my hubby many times - family is totally off limits!! He totally gets it too, because as hot as he thinks some of my family members are when I turn it around to "his" family (which I only do for illustrative purposes) then he get's the eeewwww factor too! I even extend this to some friends. I have a single friend who works with one of our swinger friends (she knows he is a swinger but doesn't know I am and doesn't know I know him). She has been a friend for so long that she is more like family to me - and therefore she is also off limits! Maybe I still have some hang ups - but I'm sticking with the no family rule!!!
  4. Before we started swinging, I used to be completely turned off by girl on girl action. I even used to make hubby ff through the girl on girl action if we were watching a porno. When we first started swinging, I was definately straight and not interested in women. After actually meeting some real women who were bi and totally comfortable with being by (and not pushy), I was no longer turned off and eventually started to get turned on by it. Once I got over my hangups, I was able to realize how absolutely beautiful, wonderful, sensual, sexy, soft, etc. a woman could be. I am now happy to say I have some very good girlfriends that I enjoy very much, and I've gone from straight to bi curious to bi. I personally think all women are bi if they can get past the social hang ups that are out there. I'm not saying every woman should try to get past them - you have to feel it for yourself or it just isn't right. I still love men though - and if I had to pick only one it would be men. Fortunately I don't have to pick and I get to have fun with all of our friends!!!
  5. We've been married for 18 years and lived together for 4 before that. We've been swinging for about 3 years and our relationship has never been stronger!
  6. Yeah - what lindyswing said! I've only had one instance in my entire life (and I've had the pleasure of many men) where size was an issue. I was much younger and single and the guy had a very nice car, but that was all! As a matter of fact, I'm still not sure we technically had sex because I couldn't feel it! But I'm talking about maybe 2 inches - heck maybe it just never got hard and I couldn't tell (I wasn't nearly as experienced back then ) I love average sized cocks - they are so much easier to swallow! Roni
  7. We love entertaining at our house. We have an awesome hot tub and the bar is always fully stocked. When you add in the darts and the karaoke, we have a total party house. I just wish it was bigger so we could host group parties! We have one daughter and we only entertain here when she is gone for the night. She's not old enough to drive yet, so we don't have to worry about her coming home unexpectedly. She's a very smart kid, and we are very open with her so by the time she is old enough to drive, she'll be old enough to understand why we need our private adult time. We do have a very nosy neighbor, but we are not ashamed of what we do so if she's going to nose around hard enough she'll just get what she deserves! I used to stress about the deep cleaning before people came over, but I got over that and if people don't like to come to my house because of the dust or the pets, I'm not offended at all. We did go to one couples house once and were very surprised that her kids were there when we got there. However, she was fine with it and they went off to bed on the other side of the house and her sister was there to make sure they didn't interrupt us. I felt kind of strange leaving and saying goodbye to the sister - knowing that she knew what we'd been doing, but it was still a fun night.
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