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MrXxotic

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About MrXxotic

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  • Birthday 08/14/1968

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  • Relationship Status
    male half of xxoticangel
  • Location
    Atlanta
  • Occupation
    hard work
  • Swinging Experience
    7 years

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  1. Have a Happy Birthday and have fun

  2. We've bumped into co-workers, supervisors, exes, and acquaintances at at swing clubs. We've also found their profiles on sites. Its really no big deal. They are there for the same reasons we are.
  3. Over the years we've had friends that became playmates and playmates that became friends. We are neither friends nor playmates with any of them. Sex and friendship doesn't seem to work for us long term. In an ideal world we would have one or two couples and one or two single men that we like well enough to spend quality vanilla time with. Someone to share a beach condo, mountain cabin, or weekend ride with. They wouldn't have to be friends just someone that shares a common interest in addition to sex. We also like the freedom of hooking up with people we find attractive and having NSA sex.
  4. We've taken several breaks from swinging over the years. The first was due to burn out after we let swinging start to take over our lives. The others have just been fade outs due to other priorities. Our latest hiatus has been for three years. Nothing was done or said, there was no bad expierence that made us stop. Without discussing it we just stopped checking our profile and there were always other things on the agenda that prevented us going to a club. Eventually the topic didn't come up. This summer we were vacationing in FL and met an attractive couple from MI. The four of us hung out during the day and went to dinner a couple of times but nothing happened. On the drive home we talked about it and found that the girls had talked about but Angel was not sure how I would react and didn't broach the subject. We also decided that we were in a position to "fade" back into swinging. Through social networking sites we have made contact with some single men that have possibilities. We're not rushing. If it happens great. If it doesn't that's great too.
  5. I know of two groups that were having key parties in the 80's when I was in the military. Both groups were air squadrons and involved both enlisted and officers. To the best of my memory one couple would be designated "child care" and the other military members would put their house key in a hat. After passing the hat you spent the weekend with whoever you drew.
  6. Like you we are very into fitness. I have been a competitive bodybuilder and powerlifter and my wife is a former cheerleader and coach that still stays in shape. We went through a similar situation with SLS a couple of years ago. We tried to hook up with a few SMs for a while and the ones that bothered to show up for a meet were not what they said they were. After a few bad experiences we started going to a club that allows SMs on Friday nights. There she was able to "shop" for someone that caught her eye and approach them. We could chat and if everything clicked retire to a private room for a quickie or to a hotel for a more intimate evening. If everything worked out we would trade numbers/emails and set up other play dates.
  7. I don't know of anyone that has found a SBiF in the lifestyle. We have had FMFs but they were always in a MFFM. We have met couples that had great success at FMFs. One couple in particular stands out. They had more success at FMF than any other swinging combination. The wife was very bi and very outgoing. They hooked up with all (as far as I know) of their FMF partners in vanilla settings. Strippers/waitresses were their favorite targets. The wife would flirt and do most of the chatting up and before you know it they were meeting on an off day or after work for playtime. When we first started we had success meeting women/couples for girl/girl only play. The guys would join in but only with their partner. We found a lot of couples that were comfortable with this system. The girls have their fun and the guys get to watch and/or play too. Everyone goes home happy.
  8. We have been in this position for about 2 years. Too many more important things in our life at this time. If the opportunity presented itself we would but we haven't put any effort into it.
  9. We prefer MFM. There are several reasons but the most obvious one is we have a larger pool of potential partners to chose from. Its far easier for us to find a single male that Angel is attracted to than a couple where everyone is attracted to each other.
  10. Who pays? It depends. If we are staying in the room after the party we pay. If its just a place to play and everyone is going home after we split it or someone picks up dinner and the other gets the room. If the other guy is traveling we'll offer to split the room the first time and pay for the room the second time. By the third time we're comfortable enough to have him in our home so it doesn't matter.
  11. We ride also. I have a Harley FXDX and she rides a Yamaha 650. We have met two lifestyle couples that also ride and have used it as a way to get together. Something more fun than the average meet and greet. I don't know of any biker/swinger groups in Atlanta but I'm sure they exist and would love to find one.
  12. Maybe. It would depend on the circumstances. We have always been a same room couple but I have left her alone with a trusted single friend to play while I was our for a few hours. She has also hooked up with women for solo girl/girl play.
  13. I agree with Tybee. Most of our swinging is MFM and it is always left up to Angel to set the pace and move things along. When she is ready she either strips or begins to manually stimulate the other guy. Once the bridge is crossed everything just seems to fall into place.
  14. Likeminds, It isn't a security issue at all. There have been times I have left Angel alone with a guy/couple while I went for ice, return an important phone call, check in with the sitter, etc. She has surprised a single male while he was in the shower and I was watching TV. We want to be able to see each other and join in if we want to. We actually prefer the group thing with everyone in the same bed but realize that this is not always possible. We definately do not seperate and play behind closed doors. Neither one want to be excluded from the others play.
  15. We are always same room but are ok if we are out of touch/sight. We don't stop playing if one of us gets up to go to the bathroom or refill the ice bucket. Many times the girls have continued playing or taken a shower together while the guys "recharged" or went out for drinks. What we won't do is "You two go in there and fuck while we go in here and fuck".
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