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L&R

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  1. R here: For the record, L is coercing me to reply to this. She read it, while I squirmed squeamishly. I have long held the opinion that women are biologically oriented neutral and have the capacity to go either way. Whereas, we males are almost definitely either oriented streight or gay. It just seems unmanly to be indecisive. No I can't be changed. L says she'll try it. Ok, I may have had my dick sucked in the Groping room n Negril...but it was dark and my hands were busy....and I didn't RECIPROCATE!!!!
  2. Liar and Fake......Maybe he lies about his SIZE and she has fake.....Stuff???
  3. L here: Well, We got our costumes yesterday. We don't know 'Where' or 'If' we will be able to locate a club, or if we can just "walk in". R says holidays are special, many clubs are only open to regular members by invitation on these nights. R doesn't know where in the U.S. we'll be-but we are prepared. I'm just wondering if he's going to get us in trouble? He's going as a Roman Catholic Father and I as a Nun.
  4. This is terrible; Since When: (1) did the rules..state you have no say in "who/what/when/where" you partner has sexual relations with? (2) A TRIAD or threesome couple isn't swinging? (3) Many people here (agreed) have their noses way too high in the air, but most don't really know you ...so why let them bother you..all this stuff about "red flags' and "we wouldn't swing with you" is all just ACADEMIC. In a real "face to face" they would be more interested in (a) appearance (b) how fast are you willing to "get down" and out of your clothes. The one's that ask your Handle and are you 'ON' the Swingersboard first probably would rather spend 6 months of your time getting to know you (which IMO would only lead to reasons NOT to swing with you. (4) Since When is Polyamour not O.K., Yes it does "freek" out some, make other's nervous the Polyamour might "fall in love" with them. But that's silly. I've always thought of the Polyamour as being "just across the street" with Utopian Swingers standing on this side (on the curb). (5) Watch Your Post count....if it gets too high...some people are threatened. (6) Please Don't leave......it's not a party without you!!! Besides...I'm falling N love!
  5. yep....when I first got together with Deb(2nd wife) my (now) step-son was 2years old...he was peeking thru the key hole and yelled...Russ! You get off my mommy! Later, when he was 5 he used to follow me around the house, one time he thought I was Nailing something to the bed-room wall.....turned out it was his Mother...he nearly ripped his poor little ears off backing his head out of the doorway while closing it.
  6. R here; For me it was a flight between Seattle & St. Louis. Nicole told me she wanted me to help 'initiate' a new F.A. into the "mile high" club, I watched her and this newbie enter the "facilities" together to "warm up"...meanwhile another passanger engaged me in conversation that I couldn't get free from immediately. When I got up and finally made my way back there, I was rock hard and eager to please. Opened the door (with Nicole's Key) and found a totally shocked old lady setting on the pooper!
  7. L& I totally respect that....Kissing is intimate! For many it is "off the menu" reserved for just the S.O. Other couples find 'eye contact' too intimate. To each their own, the only thing that bothers me here with your post is the part about your husband kissing another and you turning away and not looking, if it bothers you....maybe he shouldn't be doing it. As a guy, kissing maybe isn't that important either to me...but then again "dirty talk" and a beautiful body doesn't do enough to get me started. Once started...most couples can avoid the kissing and just have wild animal sex!
  8. Well natural is 'N' in Europe, but seems to have gone out of vogue after the 1970's.
  9. {L} I'm going to agree, not that we have played yet...but I'm going to need kissing or a lot of "dirty talk" from a confident man to get me aroused. R needs kissing or oral to get him "ready". LOL...I don't think his heart rate ever increases until 8 minutes into it.
  10. R here: I've gone as a Dictator: Take a Idaho Spud hollow it out, insert manhood, and strap it between your legs. Usually though: A monk, or Druid with nothing under the robe, some rope sandals...dildo in a old box (as a sacred relic) The Toga (Roman) or Greek is kinda too well used.
  11. You know 123couples.com is supposed to be free and ran by real swingers, but I've read and heard the couples you date from their site....can score you after the date. And other rumors are that some sites offer a "feedback" type feature..like you just completed a transaction on e-bay. A review of your date! "Well Bob and Nancy were 15 minutes late to dinner, Bob put his elbows on the table, and talked with his mouth full..they didn't spring for a good bottle of wine, we just had a pitcher of Bud. The most troubling thing though is Bob and Nancy don't care about the SPOTTED OWL. We just don't think we would be compatible enough with these folks." No wonder these couples act like they got a bug up their butt when they meet you, they're scared to death they are gonna get a negative review. Sorry I just needed to rant.
  12. {L here} R just voted no, hell no, and hell hell no. I want to vote Yes. R didn't even like releasing his grip on his I.D. when they asked for it to varify his signature on the club membership. He's just not into this new internet. He doesn't want our private information "out there". He thinks the profile companies are evil, and the whole Scoring, Reviewing, who's been swinging with whom has really taken the lifestyle from being a fun recreational adventure to a competive sport. R here: she says "get with the program" I say that when you start looking at people's photographs first, then deciding who you will meet first...you can't help but become more shallow...and shallow...those 5's get shuffled to the bottom of the deck. Yes it was always a pain n the ass to go out to meet a couple and get stood up or disappointed, But wasn't it more exciting to meet a couple completely "cold"??? instead of piecemeal. Soon I wouldn't doubt if there comes a E-Harmony.com for swingers. Answer 500 questions and let the computer match you to your perfect "swinger soulmate" we've almost came full circle to the old days where some stanger would throw you together with another couple in a room..for 30 minutes.
  13. LOL....yeah it's called INTIMIDATION the "single guys" are like playing around in a MINEFIELD and they know it! Usually it's the married guys that "roam" around the private parts of the club...if security catches them , it's usually-" I'm looking for my wife, I know she's around here--somewhere." About the best a single guy could say, is my couple walked me in here and split after we played and didn't "walk" me out "(to the social area). He could try--"I'm looking for the restroom."
  14. { L here } Sorry to post twice on this, is that Ok? When R and I first read this, it scared the hell out of me, and R went into (combat mode ) he really takes his "job" as protector very serious, and well his post wasn't ment to hurt your husband's feelings...it was a bit harsh. We haven't started swinging together yet, but R tried to reassure me it would never happen on "his watch", but then I reminded him of something he told me about him and his ex-, how there was the one particular single male that would sometimes "sleep over". R loves to cook and he told me he would sometimes get up and start breakfast for all. I told him 'see' what happens if while you're in the kitchen..this guy tries something with me. R just got a blank look, and said...We would never invite a "stranger" into our home. That's what really got both of us very scared about your situation........THIS PIG KNOWS WHERE YOU LIVE! HE VIOLATED YOU IN YOUR OWN DAMN HOME! R says a lot of couples feel safer more comfortable in their own homes, but has swinging changed that much......what happened to only meeting new partners at a club or motel....and waiting until they "earn" the trust before bringing them into your home. R says that used to be a pivotal moment in a couple/single male's relationship....when Hubby hands him the Address and invites him over for a barbecue to meet other "playmates". We are really sorry this happened to you, and hope there's no hard feelings for R 's remarks. The pressure not to have spilled this jerk-off's blood on your carpet and cause a big public scene is really amazing your hubby controlled himself as well as he did. I'm going to try to link a song here ...dedicated to the two of you. Love L.
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