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valley

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About valley

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  • Birthday 06/08/1960

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  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    australia
  • Interests
    I collect glass,he plays golf
  • Occupation
    home/architect
  • Swinging Experience
    8 months,doing well and loving it

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  • SLS Name
    valley195

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  1. It is hard to say what is best for me. Each situation is different, ends differently. I know that I have no problem having them both in me at the same time. I can feel both equally in my vagina and my mouth. The only time it gets a bit confusing and hard to concentrate is if it appears they may be both going to cum together. It's great being in this state though because if they are, I'm way up there with them. Thinking of them coming together gets my vote for best orgasm, but best sex I think... We have had numerous MFM encounters. It is all we enjoy doing yet. We have taken time to meet some really nice guys, form a relationship, as in trust and discretion and sexuality. It would seem to most that there is bi-sexuality involved, but to be honest, it is not an issue with any of us. There is male contact in a sexual activity. So,here goes....my favorite sex activity: In an armchair, our friend sits. Naked and aroused from foreplay (or just anticipation), I lower myself onto him, taking him into me. He leans back, I put my legs over the arms, my husband (the voyeur) sees exactly what he likes. He moves closer, on his knees between our friend's feet, leans over and with his very experienced tongue finds my clitoris. From then on I'm sure you can use your own imaginations. There is a lot of things to add to it, but that particular form of MFM sex is unceasingly satisfying.
  2. JnCC, why waste your breath....no one believes it. All I want to know is which club she goes to...so I can avoid them.
  3. Well spoken Darter...when are you heading our way? I appreciate how you feel and that's how many guys are. But when the guys realize that for me, us, that your pleasure is as important as ours, that's when you can become attuned and get about exploring the many and varied pleasures to be had. Many guys think if they don't get their jollies quick they may miss out. For some that has been the case, according what we have heard. It seems that if the husband pops his cork too soon, then loses interest in everything, bingo...party over. That is so totally unfair. If my husband happens to get overstimulated and we didn't stop him in time, he just politely backs off while I continue what was going on. But Darter I assure you that my partner's pleasure is as much part of my pleasure as the sex itself. It's a huge subject, MFM, it and has nothing to do with bi sex, DP, or anal sex, at least not for us. There is so much to enjoy, that when we meet a guy who is interested in it, we like to find out why he is. Then we can tell whether he would suit us. So just because he thinks that my pleasure is the only thing, does not make him my perfect choice for MFM, but goes a long way. Can you see my mindset? It's a filthy mind eh?
  4. Aural voyeurism.....and we all know how delicious that can be.Let's hope they find their delight. Usually, after we have had fun with someone,when we are alone,we chat about it all.Its fun,stimulating,interesting.Then if we discuss it next day,which is normal too,we usually find that it turns us on.....remembering,talking points the other may not have been aware of,missed or forgotten.It never fails to stimulate us.So we can understand very well,anyone wanting this "auditory delight".........forming mental images from the recital. Works for us all,eh.
  5. Angelrose,is that a gang bang or simply serial sex? As nice as that would be,and I sure would'nt mind,I would still have to have my hubby with me at all times. Maybe he could be the one to call "next".....lol
  6. Further to my earlier post,I would point out that it's my decision with whom we have sex,and that I desire swinging as much as he,my husband, does.It seems tho' that too many people seem to complicate things....to 'overthink' the situation.To advise anyone to 'keep it simple',makes sense to me. Swinging is about sex.....isn't it? Well, that's all it is to us.Sex and fun.To be honest,we get hot even talking about it,but we don't bother analysing it.It is just there,it exists for our pleasure.We are mature and wise enough to know what we are doing.Our male partners would know too.....that we were there only for the fun,thats all.Take it or leave it. So if you want to swing,find the way you want to and get about doing it that suits you both,and give your mind a rest from the 'possibles and probables'.
  7. Our swinging interest is MFM,on a mutual basis.He has no interest in another woman.His primary interest is watching me have sex.Thats it.He watches,he enjoys.He does join in .Not every time.Sometimes its for a long time .Sometimes its only briefly.At all times I am mindful to make sure he can see all the action.At all times I will respond to his desires to see me do something.....to change from one position to another,to move from oral sex to vaginal,from position to position. It sounds like he is being dominant ,but he isnt really.It's his request,and he would not ask if it was going to spoil a moment.Often he will not say a word.Because we are so close and blend so well together,and the fact that we choose carefully and lay down the ground rules equally carefully,we have had only one less than satisfying encounter in 12 months. As for another woman for him,he has no interest.I have offered many times.No...he is not interested...even seeing one with me...which doesnt interest me anyway,I have suggested him watch another couple.Sure, that would be nice ,but whats the point if I am there ....it's me he would rather see in action. As to finding suitable male partners,believe me,that is easy. There is no shortage of men only too keen to screw another man's wife.Certainly, there those a bit reluctant to do so in front of the husband,but if he's broadminded and happy to discuss it,its easy to lay the ground rules ,to let an understanding develop. Single men work for us,give us that incredible boost of sheer lust,that works time and time again,anytime, anywhere.For us ,there is so much to enjoy about it,unless you have done it you would find it hard to believe.It's hard to describe the feelings I have,watching my husband the watcher.Looking at him I see why I am enjoying the sex.Damn....does that make sense?
  8. MrsVan.....theres a few really nice ones down my way.Ive got several of them well trained .Maybe I could lend you one for a day or two. We'll discuss commission later.
  9. Are there ladies out there that think this form of sex is erotic? I'm not sure I'd like to be big enough to be able to take two! And what can two in you do that one can't?
  10. I endorse these comments wholeheartedly. The very act of agreeing to doing something as erotic as share each others fantasy....no not fantasy...each others sexual desire,is a very intimate togetherness.With us it is something bigger than the sum of its parts. I can still see how others can want to hold something for themselves tho'. We just dont differentiate.
  11. When I get a man in my mouth,I can assure you,he's there for a good time and he soon finds out how seriously I like it.So theres little chance of him getting out until he's come.Thus,if I liked him enough to have him there in the first place,he knows ,without a doubt,I intend swallowing him. facelick facelick facelick facelick However,it is a very personal choice issue.There is no right or wrong.
  12. My immediate thought was...who with any sense would reply to this post... ...damn I just wasted 2 minutes.
  13. If you want to have fun with another woman,your partner is allowed the same choice....To have another man. It doesnt mean she will. You are sensible enough to know that she has the same rights as you.Are'nt you?
  14. Two comments; 1.There used to be re-usable condoms. Rather thicker than normal condoms, and they even had their own drying cage. You washed them out and drew them down over this plastic coated wire device. 2. I was told that you used condoms on every conceivable occasion.
  15. To clarify our situation and to answer your original question,we do not take a guy to our bed with the intention of limiting him to ....rephrasing your 'soft swap'...foreplay. In addition,oral play can be classified as foreplay ,but if I take a mans penis in my mouth ,that is called oral intercourse.However I guess its how you interpret foreplay as against sex. All I know is that if I get a guy into bed with me and my husband,he isnt there to just gaze up at the stars......at least not for a little while
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