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SweetTXCouple

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About SweetTXCouple

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    Just Getting Started

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Texas
  • Swinging Experience
    In our minds, for months, in reality, not yet!
  1. This is our ad on SLS, recently redone. Cant figure out why we only see our default pic from this link, but there are several more we uploaded to the ad. We would like feedback from other lifestylers... westtexascouple1991 at swinglifestyle.com Thanks K&S
  2. When we first approached this idea last winter of swinging and all it involves, we discussed in advance certain rules that we pretty much figured out we would follow to the T. Well that all got blown away pretty darn quick. I should have noticed quicker that my husband and the other woman seemed to be the ones doing all the talking, IM'ing several times a day, and some of this involved alot of flirting. Now don't get me wrong, I am open to the thrill of flirting and the chase and all that implies, but when the balance is definately weighing on one side of the four-some than the other than things aren't fair. I never really had a chance to talk to the other guy much, his schedule never allowed much time, and I am the shy and reserved type and don't flirt well on IM. We became friends with this couple and would even go to their house for the weekend (with the kids) as friends. In the beginning my husband and I had discussed one of our rules with this other couple, no activity alone, only with the four of us present. Everyone seemed to say that they agreed that if that was a rule, then rules should be respected. I tried to also imput the no kissing rule (I just didnt want to do it, I have my opinions and I wanted to be respected for that). Well getting back to the husband and the other woman hitting it off better than myself and the other guy.........well this happened big time. My husband and her were always finding time to be in another part of the house, or it so happened that they would desire a smoke outside at the same time (how convenient). Meanwhile I was stuck inside, not talking to the other guy because he was busy doing something else, and watching our 3 kids while come to find out (this would come to light a few months later) my husband and the other woman were outside and they were kissing basically behind my back. Of course he now says he is sorry and he regrets his feelings getting the best of him. And we have also stopped being friends with this couple. See.....my short leash I had on my husband was apparently getting in the way of the other womans desires and since she and her husband had a much more open and lenient swinging lifestyle than we did and she could tell I was getting pissed, she called the friendship off and told my husband that I was not the friend that she thought I was. So, in hindsight, we can see that the four-some was obviously NOT even and was not fair to all involved (ME!) and we have not had another swinging experience since, I am a bit trepid and nervous of jumping into this again considering the first experience. I feel like I definately got the raw end of the deal on this one and my answer would be yes I would be concerned. Unfortunately this first and only experience might just be enough to make me rethink my desire to do this.
  3. I personally dont think size matters to be totally honest. I was blessed with being well endowed in both length and girth, but I have personally seen my wife recieve quite a bit of satisfaction from a partner smaller than me. In fact, my length has been a hinderance at times as deep thrusting causes her to wince with pain, this in turn sets up a momentary pause during our lovemaking so that I can allow her a chance to recouperate from the pain...this bothers me as I can never really tell when Im about to strike a nerve inside her. She can accomodate my entire length provided she takes me in very slowly. Now this is something I personally love, to be completely engulfed by her vagina and the senstations that brings with it. There are times we simply stay connected withoutout moving and just enjoy a few pelvic thrusts here and there...its quite a thrill...good for a night of movie watching etc, etc.. In a nutshell, I have to be careful how I use my erections so both my self AND my partner can enjoy the act... ANDE
  4. This very same thing happened between myself and the other woman, and I can definately tell you that it put a serious strain on my marriage when my wife found out, as to be expected. In hindsight, while it was strangly reassuring to know that I could be both a friend and a lover to another woman, the ramifications led to us taking a break from the lifestyle to let things cool off. We were very good friends with this other couple, however they had a very open marriage that allowed such activity, where mine does not. Our differences clashed in the long run, creating hostility between my wife and the other woman; this was hard to deal with as they had become the best of friends during our time we spent together outside the bedroom. I dont think it was the intamacy that led to such feelings between the both of us as much as it was the physical attraction and the fact that we were simply very compatible and loved each others company. I do regret letting my emotions take over with her, but at the same time miss the time we shared together. And I should note that this has been very hard to deal with, leaving me somewhat confused as I have never in my life had to deal with a situation like this. I love my wife dearly and would never want anything to come between us, but what do I do if the other woman wants a little quality time with me? We dont really keep in touch with them anymore, although I have chatted with the other woman a few times simply because my wife was devastated when she lost her best friend, she is still forgiving and wishes to rekindle that friendship. We shared much more than just our spouses and would often stay at their place on weekends doing whatever we felt like doing, be it a barbeque, a day in the pool, hot-tub, or even a night out on the town at a local bar when they would come to visit us. I have learned a valuable lesson when it comes to emotional attachment, I try to keep my feelings at bay from now on... K&S Abilene Texas
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