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  1. This is for older couples primarily, but could apply to any group.The question boils down to, as you get older does sex become a little less fun or does sex with the same loving person, become a little less exciting? Does life become simply routine or is the sex drive simply not demanding as much attention? Or do couples simply get bored with each other? Guess i'm wondering how to raise the heat level in an otherwise great relationship
  2. about 12 years ago my first swing experience was at a hotel bar. I was alone and a pair of couples came in. I was practicing at the pool table and one of the guys came over and challenged me to a game. Afterwards I was simply looking through the karaoke book and one of the wives came over hitting on me. Sure I was nervous, and I didn't like being outnumbered by that many but it turned out to be a fun night. Let him know after you get around to the sex talk, that you are swingers and this is something you simply do for fun when you have a free evening to relax. no pressure and if he wants to check it out, ask him to dance
  3. Fun mormon, glad to have you on board. My wife and I are from christian backgrounds. currently we may not be attending church, but that has more to do with our lifestyle than it has to losing or rejecting religion, as some may feel for themselves. WE choose not to attend more along the lines of not wanting to embarrass the church as a whole. Since Christianity has the sometimes self imposed stereotype of being against sex, and people simply don't understand. Simply put, , looking at the old testament saints, DAvid, Abraham, Solomon for starters, It would be tough to describe them as being monogamous in any sense of the word. Arguments could be made scripture requires it, but just on these three examples that are held up as examples of Men who sought after God, He did not cast them into damnation for their Lapses, as many modern day theologians might require. I could go on, but you get the point. In the end, it really isn't what I think, the preacher thinks or the atheist thinks that matters. When our lives are done, He who knows the hearts of all men will clear up the misunderstandings. Country people, horses, getting out of town and away from prying neighbors, Its a great life. Too bad we have to live near NYC. Enjoy it with your loving wife and make the most of it. Choose your swing friends wisely.
  4. interesting situation with the weekend husband and weekday husband. Not sure as I see a yellow flag or two with this simply as a matter of how will this change down the road. Has it simply developed into a polyamorous relationship or are you unknowingly developing a relationship where the 4 of you actually develop into full time spouses of the weekend mates vacationing seperately and moving in alternatively. I am aware of at least one couple for which this happened, it worked out good in their opinion. Not a judgment thing on my part, just curious as to how this will turn out.
  5. Sexy can be business as long as you look your best in what you are wearing. Being western clothing oriented, WE find blue jeans and a sweater or tight fitting tee can be very inviting. Friends first; for some people its the best way. You get to know a couple well enough to like them as a person or couple. Doesn't mean you are tied in emotionally but you can expect them to be discrete and respectful, rather than unsure of what this couple you just met is going to share with others. How close the friendship becomes is an issue you take one step at a time. If it is close enough to become uncomfortable, it is time to back off and possibly move on. Other people simply prefer the club scene, so that you become club friends or acquaintances with benefits.
  6. our first step into swinging was to visit a club a couple hours from home, just to see what swingers were like, and hopefully not run into anyone we knew. the club we visited was an off premises club meaning it was primarily set up to meet people, dance and have a good time but if you find a cple to play with, you would go elsewhere or get a hotel room to play and you only do what you are ready for. The club we visited did everything possible to ensure you had a safe and fun evening whether you play or not. If you can contact the club owners ahead of time they will let you know pretty much what you can expect and what rules they have. What we discovered, most swingers are pretty normal couples with no crazy attitudes. There are a few very wild cples out there but most are pretty easy going and willing to work with what you are okay with.
  7. Could it be a sudden guilt reaction? Or did she have a bad experience with one of the new lovers she doesn't want to discuss? I guess what I mean is did a new lover begin to try to talk her out of your relationship, or frighten her in some way, putting her in an uncomfortable situation by doing so? From that thought, her decision may be more about preserving your marriage on her part. She has spent time exploring her sexuality and maybe she decided staying married to you is more important. Step back from swinging, and work on building your relationship. If swinging is in your future, it could come back, but it won't likely be next weekend.
  8. alura, keep in mind mother earth created foxglove, aka digitalis. It can kill you if you dont have a heart problem and save you if you do.
  9. Seems the real truth here is you really don't want advice from swingers. Swingers are in this together with whatever rules they both agree too. If you wish to have sex w/o her knowledge then you choose to cheat. it isn't religion or fire and brimstone, it is simply defining yourself and your choices. If you wish to have sex with them you will probably have fun, but chances are you will also pay the price for your choices.
  10. biting versus raking, really for me the question boils down to how much pressure is being applied to my dick, neck, nipples or thigh. If it hurts it is too much. If it bleeds,, it wasn't getting carried away, it was abuse. A little grip with the points of the teeth can feel really good, but the thought of somebody biting and causing an infection especially in such a delicate location is out of the question.
  11. current poll answers need more options. I would add Some college Associates degree One partner with college degree and one working on it
  12. some of the groups here on the east coast plan camping outings. If you want to indicate swingers on your camper maybe put 4 sets of feet decals implying 2 couples having sex
  13. This answer goes back to when I was single several years ago. 1) A lot of single guys are interested in doing a threesome but aren't really sure they trust the couple, Hey two of them / one of me, odds may not be in my favor. 2) First time threesome gets into their head and they simply aren't letting their dick talk for them, they need to relax and put fears and thinking aside. 3) Maybe he is more interested in the thought fantasy than he is your wife and or actually participating, kind of liking to watch more than actually participate. Taking the time to find out what they are really ready for may pay dividends in the long run. 4) Simply nerves getting in the way. 5 ) The rush to get fucked rather than things simply progressing
  14. first time stress, fear factor, mentally (anything that occupies the mind that isnt run by his dick), drugs, alcohol Let your dick do the thinking and it all cums together
  15. Lick awhile, bang awhile, taking turns providing and receiving pleasure. Done right, at the end of play time, neither of you will be wanting more for at least a couple of hours.
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