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dodgechevy last won the day on March 25 2012

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About dodgechevy

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    As Seen on TV
  • Birthday 06/07/1985

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    California
  • Swinging Experience
    6+ years

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  • SLS Name
    dodgechevy
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Club FA

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  1. We had a no kissing rule early in our swinging career. When we finally did do it, we wondered why we took so long!
  2. I've never been a jealous guy. When we first started talking about swinging I had no problem imagining her with another guy. When we actually came to swapping I realized that I was neither jealous, nor did it turn me on. Plus I really do like paying full attention when we swap, so i'm 100% focused on the other wife anyway.
  3. How old were you when you started swinging? I was 20, she was 21. Why do you think you started at that age? We started dating in HS :-). She was my first everything (gf, kiss, sex, etc). So naturally I was curious about other women. I forget how it came up, but we started talking about threesomes with another girl. We decided to hit up the strip club to see how she would feel seeing me so close to other women. Turns out that turned her own, then she got her own lap dances which was even hotter for her. After looking online to see how to get a threesome started, I came across both SLS and swingersboard. That's when we decided to give swinging a try. Do you wish you'd started younger/older? We often talk about how hot it would have been to do some crazy stuff back in HS. Especially with some of her really hot friends. I don't think we actually wish we did, but if we had I don't think it would have changed much. Do you think you would have been ready to start at a younger age? If not, why not? Don't quite honestly know. I guess we could have. No particular reason jumps out why or why not.
  4. We're both definitely in the "regret for what you did" camp. It's actually how we jumped into full swap so fast when we first started swinging. In her exact words: "I just said f*** it and went for it. Only way to know if we were gonna enjoy this or not." Granted you can go into more detail about whether certain things are worth the risk, money, etc. But we're just referring to things that we may enjoy but are a bit indecisive.
  5. Was about to make the points that everyone else said. Even though you guys plan on not playing with others. You might want to check out wickedgarden. We lived out in NC for awhile and while it is national, it mostly had NC people on there.
  6. Wow, I'm completely surprised no one has mentioned Google Voice yet. Especially since people seem to actually be paying for an extra "burn" phone. It is literally a free phone number you can get from Google. All you have to do is sign up for a Gmail account. You can have it set up so it directly calls any other phone you want to use. You can text someone else directly from it. I love that feature as I hate texting from a phone. You can even call from your phone using your Voice number. We basically just hand out that number whenever we need to chat with someone. No one's abused it yet. But if they did, a simple click blocks their number, or you can set it up so it doesn't go directly to your main number every time.
  7. Luckily the android market would probably allow such an app. However I doubt it would see any wide spread use. Plus I really doubt someone who wouldn't be willing to give one of the sites a try, would be willing to use an app. As for now we just simply use our phone browsers to log on to each respective site.
  8. Holy wow. You haven't spent too much time on really any swingers board/site. A running theme you'll constantly hear about is the distaste people have for cheating married men. For the most part single men are at the bottom of the "contact for play time list," cheating married men are near the bottom of that list. Seeing as how you're new around here. First lesson, just because we swing doesn't mean we have sex with everyone and everything.
  9. As a side note, we have noticed a rather LARGE amount of civil servants in the lifestyle. Lots of cops, nurses, teachers, military, emergency etc. My theory has been that for the most part, these are professions of "for the community!" In other words, people who are very into sharing. :-D
  10. Just a helpful tip. If you already have a certain people that could join you, then I'm assuming they're friends, coworkers, at least acquaintances. Most people find that to be tricky as it can cause issues. Maybe you two should look into meeting people online, clubs, you know the usual fare.
  11. Thanks to everyone for your great advice and opinions. Going bareback is definitely a controversial matter, and something we're still deciding whether or not to do. Like Sabrinaswings, we actually will probably make it a rule not to let the men finish inside. Mostly because we just plain don't like to do it even with ourselves. Just too messy. Although it would be hard to trust someone else to pull out in time. From the looks of things, and from other places we've read, it seems the mostly the "older" generation tends to go bareback. Being the younger swingers (most of the time being the youngest couple in the crowd), we grew up being told by school, adults, and like Galanga said the media, that condoms were the only way to do it. And that's what we did. Not really the reason that MrsPandMe stated, but I could certainly see some couples that might feel that way. In fact since we started swinging 6 some odd years ago, we've only ever been asked once if we wanted to play sans condoms (and only half way through due to some technical issues with them). However something we have noticed is that we are the ones that have to continuously offer the condoms. Looking back on it, there probably would have been no discussion of condom usage in at least half of the couples we played with in the last year had we not brought them into play. As for the Mrs enjoying going condomless, of course she would. She hated them when we first started having sex more than I did. She quickly got on the pill because of it. For now we probably will bring up the subject with some close friends, and go from there.
  12. Personally, we don't really know as we've always at least done soft swap. However, we've seen it every so often at clubs though. Best bet would be to set up a profile at a site, and spell out exactly what you're looking for.
  13. We've been swinging for a good while now. Recently passed 6 years in the lifestyle and going on 7. The entire time without exception we have always used protection. Now, obviously we agree that sex is better without but it's something we decided not to try with our partners. A few weeks ago we ended up playing with a couple. Like always we used protection. She got started with the other husband, but apparently the Mrs didn't realize I had put my condom on when I started having sex with the other wife. What surprised both her and I was how turned on she got by thinking I was going bareback. So just to clarify I was using a condom, as was the other hubby, like always. But this has lead to a chain of conversations on perhaps not using condoms, at least not always. We're thinking of maybe starting out with asking a few close friends that we play with often about not using them. Basically we're asking for advice. For those that do go bareback, how do you bring it up with potential couples? Do you ask if they recently have been tested? How much are union dues? Basically anything that we might want to think about or look for if we decide to go for it. At this point we're still in the thinking phase. We're still not sure if we will even try it out. We know all about the risks so we don't really need any STD/Pregnancy lectures, after 6 years we got the pamphlets too.
  14. I find it INCREDIBLY annoying when people say swinging "isn't their lifestyle, they don't need to do it." I don't care whether or not you treat it as a hobby or as a job, are you available this Friday or not? :-D
  15. We have lots of pics in our public gallery. The private ones are more "risqué". We also never talk until we can see face pics ourselves. It's always awkward to say no thanks after you've already started chatting. Never quite understood why someone wouldn't want at least 1 cert as proof of being a real couple.
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