Between my legs i shave bare. Up top i shave my bikini line and the little bit that i leave is trimmed very short. Sometimes i get carried away with the shaving and i have nothing.
I would vote for the hair being trimmed, just so there's just not so much of it. Shaving all the time is a pain in the rear, I wouldn't make my Man do it, just a nice trim would be great.
I agree, ya'll should stick together, it's both or nothing. And trust me, there are bisexual women out there who would love to play with both you and your wife. It's just a matter of don't quit lookin, they are out there.