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destin-ez

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About destin-ez

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Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Very Happily Married
  • Location
    Wisconsin
  • Interests
    Ridin' the Harley, enjoying each other, cooking and remodeling, woodworking, aviation and life in general. And, oh yeah this website!!
  • Swinging Experience
    5 years

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    destinez
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Secrets
  1. Hi all.....It's been a long time since I've posted. Awesome report Mrs. Hidalgo, so glad it went so well. I hope you come back and answer mainly, how your husband found these guys? It would seem to me that they were somebody he knew previously and trusted completely? And yes, I do have a very good reason for asking Thanks again!! Mr. D
  2. Geez, is it my imagination or what? Seems like some of the regulars are getting so F'n uptight these days?!?!? Maybe it's the weather or something? Well, just our experiences so far......we've done a spur of the moment MFM, well thought out MFM's and ongoing MFM's with my best buddy. All have worked out OK, but nothing spectacular. That being said, we're now working towards 4 sums with other couples. The 4 sums so far, have been more difficult only because we've just started I guess and it's more difficult to get 4 people on the same page as it is with only 3. My biggest concern is the single male becoming predatory or developing feelings towards the Mrs. and the 4 sums situations seem to safer in this way? However, we'll continue working on both, simply because they are btoh appealing to us right now. Good luck, hope this helps. Now, I'm going to propose a truce between Vegas and JNCC...... Surrender
  3. Wow, good thread, I must have missed this one back in December. I agree with Mr. Spoo, but as usual, I couldn't have put it so eloquently. I'm going to show this one to the wife when she gets home. We had a similar issue this past weekend at our 1st on-premise party. We've talked it out, things are even better than they were before facelick I will add that this has to be the biggest problem to overcome in the swinging world, isn't it? Mr. D
  4. Hello, Mr. D is very modest, so I will have to answer this one for him. He is actuallty a variety of the guys listed. Variety is the spice of life, that is why he is my life partner. He is a gladiator. He was actually a volenteer firefighter for 21 years. He loves rescueing people in need. Surrender As far as Metrosexual, he is very attentive and sensual to my needs. That's why we have been married for 30 years. He is defineatly the biker dude. Leather chaps, fingerless gloves and a dew rag....HOT!!! Add the "potato, potato, potato" of the Harley and WOW!! (There is nothing like Mr. D and a Harley between your legs. ) The boy next door is a definite. He is an Emeril junkie. Food network watch out. facelick Over all, he is the man for me no matter who he resmbles. Mrs. D (the luckiest woman)
  5. Nice post Tojo! Thanks for letting us know how you prepared for this and what the outcum was. I especially liked the blindfold idea. DP's aren't easy at all, let alone dealing with all of the other 1st jitters. Have (more) fun!
  6. Sweet Candy, nice post......We're very new to this scene, we just posted an ad on SLS and "WE" decided to list her as (thanks to reading this website) "Above the waist Bi-curious". What this means to us is, she/we will not seek out Bi fun, but....... It's a long story sort of, but early in her life she found out that FF play did not turn her off, nor does she seek it out, but thanks to a certain lady at a certain stripper's club, we know anything can happen. Now, after all these years as a married couple and finding out that we are compatible with the swinging lifestyle, we know this is an OPTION. That's all. If it happens, it happens Neither myself nor her would initiate FF play, however, as it has been said many times here before, when you separate love from sex and are enjoying a 3 or 4 or more some, well......who knows By the way, if your're ever in Wisconsin.... Mr. and Mrs. D
  7. 1st off, we're not racists. One of our playtimes was a spur of the moment meeting with a black male. We unexpectedly met him in a bar/restaurant in Florida. His personality made him very approachable and easy to warm up to. And yes, of course, we used condoms, lots of them Seeing NO BLACKS in an add OR in a conversation will definitely not get a response from us. Shit, there's goes some of our "biker trash" image Uomo, I do have to tell you, you are a very eloquant writer and I'm jealous. But, now that you are a prestigious lawyer, you should be I suppose. You're (I think) 1st post caught our attention. How you "burst" onto this website with your seemingly egotistical, demeaning ego was very impressive. Then it appeared you smoothed things over with everybody here who really gives a shit, with a "hey, I'm only being honest, that's what this is all about, right?". If you want to draw attention to yourself, you've definitely done that. Maybe not in the way you'd hoped. But then again, maybe it IS the way you'd hoped. Regardless, at this point in time, don't call us, we'll call you. Frankly, if we ALL could be as witty and charming as Spoo, well, we would all be better for it, get my drift? Spoo, when do the classes start? Sign me up
  8. Frankly, we would not reply to an ad looking for "professionals". I haven't read all the previous posts, But, eliminating a complete group of people from your play "family" because they ride motorcycles seems odd to me. Because we don't like to contaminate threads, we're going to start a new thread on a similar subject to see what we can stir up.
  9. Hiya the 2 of us...... The Ms. called your thread to my attention, good question we thought. We have never been to a club (yet), so we have similar questions as well. IF, we can find such a club in the Milwaukee area, we'd like to attend. Any suggestions anyone? Anyway, we appreciate your question as it reflects similar interests for us. However, we hope we don't have to wear signs or placards labeling us as "newbies" when we first visit such an establishment and, maybe, look for a single bi-female . The real purpose of our post is to say, Welcome to the board. Most of us are here to totally support exeperienced, and yes, even us "newbies", regardless of the questions/dilemmas we have. Good luck..... facelick
  10. Read the top of the screen....There is a place titled "SWINGERS STORIES". That's where this thread should have been posted. For enjoyment/excitement for others to partake. NOT the discussion forum!!!! I agree, it's a hot story, but when you post it here it's "Katie bar the doors"!!!!
  11. Mrs here, previously posted by Chicup.... "First, if you want to just post your story, there is a stories section. This was in a discussion forum and unless discussion only means high-fives for everyone, then it was open for discussion and that includes things that people may not agree with." This says it all. There is a place for these "stories" and it is in the story section. IF the Naughty's did not want opinions then they should have posted else where!!!
  12. My experience only.....We weren't "smart" enough to set up rules that were all that in depth. The 1st swing experience we had was spur of the moment, so to speak. When she kissed him it stung pretty good for about 10 seconds. Their kissing really got things heated up and the night was amazing. To this day, I enjoy seeing her/him kissing, that lets me know she's ready, hot and set for a good time. Kissing between them has NEVER changed my "partership" feelings toward her. NOW, as for the cuddling and hand holding.....I hadn't thought of those issues, but hey, that's why we're here on the Swingers Board, right? Mr. D
  13. Hiya Daddy'sGirl...... (Sorry, that name makes me shudder) I/We don't have enough experience to give any advice here, only thoughts I guess...This all seems too weird. You are married right? This is your life's partner, right? So, okay, you're a sub. How does that allow him to "socialize" with someone while he's on the west coast any you're in Boston while he's arranging to have himself and this "woman" seduce you? I don't get it. You were set up by your hubby. Here are a few thoughts...(okay, this is advice, you caught me) Talk, talk and more talk Get rid of the alcohol Set rules you can both live with (yes, they will change as you progress) Talk, talk and more talk Have fun?
  14. Another good thread all.... As the wife and I discussed swinging in detail during the itinitial stages of all of this, it quickly became apparent that DP was one of her most powerful fantasies. Little did we know the different variations of DP. Once we began to dig deeper into this (without knowing about this website mind you), at that time, this was our ultimate goal. Since then (about 4 years ago) we have learned that DP takes a lot of thought/preparation. Let's just say, when you read or hear of someone getting fucked in the ass, there may be consequences that happen that you weren't expecting, okay? Nuff said? Surrender Also, the guy(s) have to be very patient!! On a side note, in the beginning of our swinging talks, one of our rules were, "her ass is mine" and not to be taken by another male. Once we gave this some thought, I thought "No, I'd love to see the look on your face as his cock enters your ass with me in your pussy". And so it went. Finally, this did happen during a MFM play date and it was awesome.!! facelick We have never tried the 2 cocks in her pussy thing, but, after reading this thread, we are both intrigued and apprehensive. We'll definitely study this in more detail. Hey, who knows? My comments here are, You have to find a comfortable position. This ain't an easy thing to do Just know, for a fun DP you have to prepare beforehand for reasons that should be self-expanatory Any questions? Let me/us know.....
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