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tweedle

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    Divorced Male
  • Location
    Near Folsom California
  • Interests
    coed naked volleyball at a resort
  • Occupation
    educator
  • Swinging Experience
    Dabbled during first marriage.

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  1. I'm not the expert, but in my experience ~ having her clit sucked/licked/teased whilst being thoroughly penetrated (either orifice) tends to set the relaxed lady off into exceptional pleasures - hands down. As many have stated, it IS about the ladies' pleasures. And, as others have stated, in the hyper-charged air of shared encounters, eventually most ANY touch becomes welcome... NOT THAT THERE'S ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT (Seinfeld)... Not to confuse my two cents with my two scents (or nonsense, for that matter)
  2. I can relate to what you're saying, toby... It never ceases to amaze me when folks out of the mainstream get judgemental... It's like gays bashing transvestites, in my book... Or maybe nudists criticizing those who wear fig leaves... Most folks hope for non-judgemental acceptance. It's disappointing when communities, like this, seem clickish and non-open. I feel your pain. ~ tweedle ~ Bearer of the truth, in some instances !!!
  3. Very nice to read the initial posting. I grew up near Philadelphia, and (believe it or not) had similar pre-teen experiences... Liked all of what you had to said. Have also noted HUGE number of bi-guys on internet, also claiming to suffer from near-to-totally sexless marriages. It's an epidemic, and if you read this week's Newsweek, there's an article about women in today's world that delves into the general "uselessness" that many women feel towards their men. Not to get overly controversial !!! I only wish that I'd met a woman who could openly share everything !!!
  4. Just have to stick my two-pence worth in... I often wrestled with this question... Having enjoyed the heightened excitement stage in which nearly anything goes anywhere... Bottom line. I have zero desire to kiss a guy. Period. Isn't if funny that one could actually enjoy sucking another penis, yet find smooching somewhat repugnant !!! Now, there's no end to the oral contact I enjoy with women (from head to toe)... So, it's situational. I guess. At least in my case. That's kind of how I figured I'm not what one might call "gay".
  5. For clarification ~ the first time I was under a lady (licking away) whilst her husband was fucking her "doggie-style", I noticed a gush of warm and slightly salty "flow". I thought she was having a quiet but wet orgasm ~ not fully realizing her husband had "cum" (quite silently) and I had "consumed" all the outflow before figuring-out what must have occurred. Not long thereafter, both of our wives decided they'd like to see us suck each other in a "69". We obliged them, but for some reason I've long forgotten, we didn't take it to completion (probably because we stopped to appreciate the female 69 that ensued ~ and the rest is his/herstory)... Personally, I've guessed that the "penetration" thing might have gymnastic potential IF (for instance) the one being penetrated was simultaneously penetrating his wife or whomever... Interesting !!! Even being sucked upon might be delightful (I suppose, since I have not "been there - done that") !!!
  6. Between marriages, I had a live-together that went on for 2+ years... She decided to sign onto a research study. This was about 1989 or so. It was a test of different female condoms. My general reaction was that they ALL bothered the crap outta my penis !!! As for her wearing an inverted glad-bag while I ate her... BULLSHIT !!! What a total crock. Reason took a sebatical somewhere along the highway... All of life involves risk ~ ain't none of us gettin' out of it alive !!! If it comes down to enjoying a tasty pussy versus pretending it's more fun than tongueing a hunk of calve's liver - guess what I'm gonna pick (and it isn't my nose !!!) I can't imagine the "barrier" or "dental dam" is all that great for the clit being poorly tongued, either !!! NOW, in a swinging circle, "trust" is paramount (whether mounting is involved, or not) !!!
  7. Great Inquiry !!! Back in those days when I did the gamut with my first wife, there was similar ORAL contact as to what you mentioned. The penetrating idea of "getting fucked" or fucking the other guy never came up or got explored. I'm very curious too, as to what sort of feedback you'll get !!!
  8. Back about the time of cave drawings first becoming pornographic... My first wife and I had a swinging/open relationship (all same room stuff). We went into that lifestyle with all the hang-ups we'd been raised with. The demise of our marriage was no more a result of the swinging than swinging was a result of our insecurities. We were both horn-dogs, plain and simple. At least we were honest about our fantasies and drives. These many years later, she's expressed many times that she wishes now she could have "matured" in or before our marriage so that she could have enjoyed the fruits of its potential. IF people enter a swinging lifestyle to "fix" a set of problems it's gotta be more like dousing a fire with kerosene. They're two distinct sets of issues. I not only participated - but my friends in the nudist lifestyle have allowed me to be VERY aware of how things have gone these last couple of decades. I am in appreciative awe of those whose passions can be openly experienced in a healthy and accepting relationship. It can be great. My own experiences were about a third utterly fantastic ~ another third "so-so" ~ and a final third roughly a waste of time and not nearly what was desired. As for Dr. Phil ~ it must hit a little close to his inner "home", or he probably wouldn't have such strong "beliefs" against it. Just my opinion, which (like anal opennings) we all have and too often cast a less than pleasant "air".
  9. Just an obtuse thought (please pardon my feeble attempt at analytic thinking)... Wouldn't it seem somewhat safer to "play" with a married male. At least in theory, he would be most concerned about getting or spreading any infectious nasties - and discretion would seemingly be absolute. Just wondering.
  10. Back when my first wife and I swung... 1) Absolute veto power without question either way (like Home Depot's no-haggle policy)... 2) Same room only (leaves no areas for speculative jealousy)... We did OK. Uncle Sam separated us long-term, which led to marital demise.
  11. Then again... As/like with the nudist camp issue... I am affliliated with schools in a professional manner... I once encountered a student at the "camp"... NO PROBLEM... If they are participating in "whatever" behavior, then who are they to rat you out to the rest of "society"... That's my view of it.
  12. I had to acknowledge your dilemma. As a "nudist", it is not uncommon to have come across folks in restaurants and such, where we think we know them (but can't match the face)... Turns out that when all you can see IS the face, recognition and placement can be a problem... Even if you KNOW the setting of the recognition, then like YOU said, possible social embarrassment ensues, since both parties are fearful of "blowing" it in public... I would suggest a VERY private whisper to acknowledge and defuse the situation ~ just stating that you think you recognize them from a meeting - let THEM acknowledge that ~ and then just state in effect that you're cool if they are (with just keeping that info under your respective hats)... We're assuming here that they have in fact placed where they know you from (let's face it, in extreme cases ~ ankles-only glimpses pointed at the rafters might NOT yield pertinent facial recognition data)... ~ Tweedle
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