MrandMrsT

My fantasies? Well, my first fantasy is that my husband would come home with a male 'friend', and order me to have sex with him, while giving him head (or watch him masturbate) facelick He would talk about holding me down while the other man would have sex with me! Another fantasy that my husband would have, that I got into for him, was that a group of males would "take their turn" while he watched. It would get more in detail while we were talking about it during having sex, but that is the short story of our fantasies. We talk about alot of different things, that make us a little uncomfortable afterward! Another one is with a female..... I have always wanted to be able to do something like that, but I dont know that I would be able to watch my husband pleasure another woman!!!! Is that normal to feel bad at first, when you have fantasies? Is that something that will go away when you get comfortable with it? Or is it something that will carry on if we decided to live out our fantasy? And about getting your wife to talk about her fantasy....... We started by talking about it during sex. You could always say something, and ask her if she likes it! But if she doesnt......... Leave it alone in that way, and maybe talk to her about it AFTER!!! But make the fantasy about her.. and how you would want it to please her!!! Dont make it about you (at first) she might be more likely to turn it down!!!

Hello everyone. My husband and I are new to this, and just "checking it out." We are very open and honest about our fantasies, and talk about them alot during sex!! It is GREAT when we are doing it, but when it is over......... That is a different story! I feel bad most of the time, that maybe something that I said may have hurt his feelings. (He says they dont, most of the time, but you know men!?) And he is always asking me if I meant what I said while we were talking about it. "Did you really want to do that?" Or "Do you really think about that stuff?" We are thinking about getting into swinging, but I am worried about it! Is it a good thing to explore, if you worry about what your 'fantasy' has done to your partner? Just curious because we are best friends, and dont want to ruin that because of our curiousity! Any advice would help... Thanks so much!