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TomF_22033

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About TomF_22033

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    Swingers Board Addict
  • Birthday 05/13/1966

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Single Male
  • Location
    Christiansburg, VA
  • Interests
    Couples and groups
  • Occupation
    Engineer
  • Swinging Experience
    Mostly MMFs with my ex
  1. Like many things in alternative lifestyles it really depends on who you ask and how strictly they interpret things. I guess if you wanted to pick nits you could say FFM might would have interaction between the females and FMF wouldn't but I think you'd be setting yourself up for confusion. My own rule is when in doubt ask what someone means, as not everyone uses the terms the same.
  2. Not currently attached, I don't see either happening now as much as I'd love to try both (but maybe one day). Like a lot of other guys here, I if I had to chose between the two as much as it would be great to be the center of attention, I'd have to say I'd take a MFM as I love pleasing women and think that it would be more fun to see a woman being the center of attention.
  3. Anal play can be fun if done carefully. But if not, can be harmful. I don't know what it is, but there's something about a woman with a strap-on that is so hot. I guess it's part submission, part role reversal, and part just plain fun.
  4. I recently met someone who hasn't shaved in awhile. Before being intimate for the first time we discussed shaving, and this is how I became aware of her not doing it in awhile. One cool thing she did was ask if I'd like her to shave before we were to get together. After thinking about this discussion, I suggested that she leave things as is, as it would be fun to see what it was like to be with someone hairy as it's been years since I've done so, and we could shave her after the first time. Well, this experience absolutely 100% confirmed that I HATE PUBIC HAIR. While the feel of the hair was kind of fun for the first few minutes, I really couldn't get into going down on her with all of the hair (and it's one of my favorite things to do). Anyway, I guess my point is that it was nice to have the choice, and the experience, but my view of shaving (and/or waxing) is even more solidified. Smooth is nice!!!
  5. Yes, I started shaving before it was popular and wouldn't if it wasn't.
  6. Gangbangs aren't signs of homosexuality, but professing your hetrosexuality more than once is!!! (j/k) Seriously, since I've never been involved in one, I can't say, but my guess is that like everything else in life that it would depend on the people. Just as some people are straight, others are bi, and still others are gay so depending on how far on the Kinsey scale they fall, I'm sure there could be many factors. In my case, I agree with SpoonMonkey and you. Tom
  7. I enjoy receiving but don't like giving. I've tried, but just can't get into it.
  8. My SO used to do it quite a bit, but I'm not sure why she doesn't do it much now. It's probably the one thing that I can just relax and not worry about receiving as I normally like to please me partner. Now as far as me giving one. Tried it once, not my thing.
  9. I agree with SpoonMonkey. There are plenty of limits. I won't do needles, blood, scat, children, animals, to just name a few. As for the taste of fluids. Again, everyone is different. Remember the brain is the largest sex organ, so if you have a hang up about the smell, taste, etc., then you won't be turned on period. To each his/her own.
  10. I've done golden showers once. Nothing that turned me on, and not on my list of things to do again. But, if I had a partner or partners that wanted to be pissed on, I'd gladly do it. If they wanted to do it to me, I'd also do it, but again it's not my thing. Oh yea, as far as hard limits, I wouldn't drink it, and draw the line at being forced to. That would be a deal breaker. As for those who are curious but don't want to post. The feeling is pretty much just a warm feeling. Think of water from a warm watergu.
  11. I don't like slutty women. Now sexy is a whole different thing. The difference is huge to me. I guess to me the hooker look, and the attitude of I'll screw anything just doesn't work for me. Now, a woman who has class, while being wild will win my heart any day. I guess the difference to me is like the difference between being confident and being hung up on yourself.
  12. One thought, that was briefly mentioned. Not only are single women swingers looked down on by the outside world, but so are most alternate lifestyles. BDSM, gay, punk rockers, bikers, etc, etc. Any group that isn't "normal" will be treated with suspicion and as weird, or worse. The point I'm trying to make is that if you follow the advice that folks gave, and be respectful, and true to yourself, you'll be special in the lifestyle. This goes not only for swinging but for most things in life. But with this said, I would (and do) be very careful who I let know about my alternate lifestyles, as some folks are very accepting and others aren't. Sadly, even in 2006 we do get discriminated against because of this.
  13. You should definitely try it. Your post reminded me of my first time at a nudist club. I got there early, did the tour, etc. enjoyed myself and had a great time. That afternoon, or maybe early evening, I ran into a guy who wasn't nude (the club was clothing optional) and we started talking. During the conversation, he mentioned that he didn't know if he could get nude and that he would feel weird. He also asked me how long I'd been coming to nudist clubs, when I told him it was my first time, and then asked him if he felt weird being the only person with clothes on, he had a real strange look. Very embarrassed! The point is that if you go and relax, before you know it you'll be so comfortable that things will feel normal. And you'll have a great time. For the person who mentioned being allergic to the sun. I'm very fair myself, and am under Dr.'s orders not to get sunburned. I work around it by using A LOT of sun screen, and staying in the shade. When I go in the pool I keep it short. In other words I deal with my limitations.
  14. Count me in as a guy who is smooth. The only thing is that I got sick of shaving so I now get waxed ever 6 weeks or so. I hate it when it grows out, but it lasts so long and it's so much smoother than shaving. No rash, no stubble, and the SO loves it.
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