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jen

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About jen

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    Lifestyle Mentor

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    un dolce uno
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    above a rainbow
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    life
  1. It's funny the way people seem to view single females who happen to be interested in swinging. Sort of like she is this shiny piece of golden magic. I can't speak for every single female, but... Lemme tell ya, I'm not. I'm just a girl. I have interests and curiosities including but not limited to swinging. Don't you have other interests? There isn't enough time in your day, trunk, to spend it searching for a girl who wants to swing. Why? Because, swinging, as fun as it must be, is only an itty bitty part of any life. What you should be doing is living. Just wake up every morning and spend everyday treating people the way you want to be treated. I'd guess that you'd like to be treated with kindness and fairness. I know I appreciate that sort of care. In doing that, I'd bet, sooner or later you'll find someone who has bunches in common with you. Maybe even an interest in swinging. Lemme give you an example: Not too many days ago I met this guy. Not at a club, bar, or any of that. Nope, I met him because of this very board. He wasn't a member of this board at that time. But BradAndJanet and some others around here, are and were. It's cause of BradAndJanet's livejournal that I decided to start one of my own. Cause of that journal, I ran across a guy who had a picture of an adorable dog in his lj. Dogs interest me. I like dogs, I'm not a cat person in any way. Now, I've met this guy and we've had bunches of fun together lately. Not caus he was looking for a girl who swings. Not cause I was looking for a guy to 'help me swing.' Just cause both of us happened to be in the same place at the same time and we both like dogs. Imagine that, two people just happen to run into each other during some of every day life's routines. No magic. Just life.
  2. Exactly, maybe I have been in your head..?? Cept, I only scored 495, this of course is due to all the "No, but am open to it" type choices. Without those, I'd most likely have scored in the two digit range. Pout
  3. There are just too many tourists to tell. Along with the fact that many people if not most people living here are from somewhere else. As for me personally, I call it Sprite, Sierra Mist, 7-up, or whatever decaf is available. Then again, I noticed someone else has come along from this town, maybe they know a better answer...
  4. They said sweet jen, I love when they say sweet jen! Thanks BnJ you rock. The- bizarre - of it would be in me wanting to be part of a true relationship, actually. Seems like I always think I want that, until it knocks at my door. Then, somehow, I become certain it isn't anything near what I want. Or something. Look, I learned how to spell bizarre. See, I can be taught.
  5. If something bizarre happened and I found myself suddenly part of a couple...I'd be interested in swinging. I'm sure of it.
  6. Having just looked up the word proselytize on dictionary.com, it seems that many things can be taught & learned here. Swinging, while being the main topic is just that - the main ingredient. The first thing that brought us all here. Each from a different place to this place. Each coming here with ideas worth exploring, information worth sharing, and hearts worth befriending. Each of us is trying, learning and has something to teach the rest. Certainly, I can't comment on the actual act of swinging from any first hand experience. I have none & don't know that I ever will. At the same time, I can comment on my ponderings of the idea, while gaining the knowledge and friendships of others here. I have already found plenty of useful information allowing for increased awareness of the lifestyle. I think that if you are here - you found your way from something inside you that told you to look...because of that - you belong here. For yourself and everyone, you should stay. Who knows when a topic may come up that you and only you have the key which opens the door for it's poster. That door might or might not be one of swinging, still, it will be a door needing the key you are holding. Everyone has something to contribute, and more will be gained with all types included. Yes, it is possible to understand within yourself, if you’re looking objectively and honestly. No one can do that for you. It can’t be all or nothing for me. There are plenty of things that work for so many people and not for me. I can’t base my life and the choices within my life on my neighbor. What I can do, is gain as much knowledge as I can about any given subject, then think and think some more till I decide for myself. If boards like this one limited themselves to only actual swingers, how would non or nearly swingers gain any knowledge at all? To make a “lifestyle” decision, isn’t it best to talk with and learn from those who are already part of that world? I have not found this to be true within this board. As a current non-swinger, there have been only two occasions where I have felt less then welcome within the postings of this board. Neither of those were based on swinging or not swinging. If someone is here who believes that swinging is wrong, & tries to convince others, they most likely aren’t going to be around here very long. Plus, who that swings is going to agree? So, if they want to come along and post, let them. They may just find a way to cope, then, live and let live. If not, wish them well as they head for the door, still live and let live. Swingers, ex-swingers, non swingers, singles, couples, sneetches with stars on their belly’s good grief! Wanted; A place where people can go and be accepted for the content of their character. Always.
  7. I'm not sure - I think I read that the tallest "little person is or was 4 feet 8 inches tall. That's one whole inch shorter then me! gulp
  8. Sexy wizards or warlocks might be popular since the rings and potter movies are around. Maybe a fun lovin' female football player ready for a tackle. Maybe a tried and true Cleopatra or goddess. Or a sexy fisherwoman - just sort of fishin' around for ohh, I dunno what... hip boots, one of those vest thingies they wear with hooks attached to condoms...maybe. A movie director...hmmm I dunno.
  9. I prefer little sports cars that go fast. Then again I wouldn't mind driving a Hummer. Wait, disregard, my bad...
  10. It's like this: I don't know why I did it, I don't know why I enjoyed it, and I don't know why I'll do it again. --- Bart Simpson/M&B Cept take away all the n’t’s so that all each don’t says do! Yes please. :evil:
  11. If something can be done. Someone is willing to sell it and someone else is willing to buy it. To each his/her own. Or something.
  12. I'm sitting here with my head tilted to one side, my mouth open just a little, and my eyes have that glazyness - gulp To each his/her own. I can't even get a flu shot. The part about pressure to stop the bleeding - wow, just wow
  13. I dunno if you did or you didn't, I only know that your thoughts caused me more thoughts and the re - thoughts caused my head to tilt to one side and my mouth.. oh you remember. The whole thing is confusing cause do you have sex with someone you have zero attraction to? Could you? Is that the question itself? If I am being asked -- could I have sex with someone that I had no attraction of any kind to...then no just no no no. If I am being asked...does the attraction have to be from physical appearance...then no just no no no. Attractions for me very rarely are from appearance. Maybe a smile or a certain way I was looked at or spoken to. Maybe the way he interacts with others around him. Maybe a kindness he expressed to a stranger that I was lucky enough to witness -- Or maybe any combination of a zillion different things has sparked my initial interest. There has to be some sort of interest or attraction. If I'm being asked would I be ok with someone just having sex with me even though they have no attraction to me of any sort.....then no just no no no. I dunno or something. EBF, your post gave me good thoughts as always! The gulps and helps were from the mix of thoughts. I think I'm better now, my bad.
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