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talltxlady

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About talltxlady

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  • Birthday January 15

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    M. Female
  • Location
    Houston
  • Interests
    reading, computer games, sewing, water sports (swimming, kayaking, sailing, hottubbing)
  • Occupation
    jr. programmer
  1. HELP My question is, can this be spread at the time of just knowing one is on the way, when it is forming, or before the blister pops? I sometimes get fever blisters (courtesy of my EX-hubby) . I am extremely careful to not kiss anybody once I start feeling a blister begin. Other question is, should I inform potential playmates that I get cold sores from time to time? Obviously I would never consider playing orally or kissing while I had one. But am I safe to play when I'm blister free? Here's hoping I have lost the swinging opportunity before I could get started.
  2. How do we contact a bondage instructor??? Sounds like tons of fun ?
  3. I know this is a week after the original update, but wanted to put my 2 cents worth in. This is amazingly like the problem we've been having with the "friends" we were going to try to swing with, only it was my hubby, the other guy and myself chatting, only when he was at work. My hubby and the other guy are friends from way back, I've known the other guy for about 6 years, and only his fiance is the newest, having known her for about 2 years. We'd set a few "lunch" dates and met together a few times, but something always came up that prevented us from even getting in a kiss or 2. Like having to leave early on a day my hubby took a vacation day so we could have some time to "do things". We've finally decided they weren't worth the hassle since it was becoming "all talk and no play". That's when we found this board and starting getting serious about "real swinging" instead of just talking about it. talltxlady
  4. Thank you couplefromma. It sounds like you have what my hubby and I are searching for. While definitely looking to expand our horizons, we've been trying to learn our way. One of these days (hopefully soon), we'll start finding couples that think like we do and find one that is a "good fit" so to speak. Who knows where our fun will take us. I am SOOOOOO glad we found this website for an open, honest place to find some answers and advice.
  5. This is a definitely interesting thread. My hubby and I haven't started swinging yet, just very interested. Our original plan was for monogamous swinging with a couple that we trusted. Does this kind of thing NOT happen as the norm? As total newbies, and just trying to get into the lifestyle, I'm just wondering. Does swinging mean trying new partners / couples all the time, or about developing relationships with another couple, swinging, being friends, and then staying friends if moving on to swinging with someone else? Or is swinging what you want it to be? If you are looking for the great friendship with wonderful extras , that's what you seek. And if you are wanting to just party hardy with a different set each party you attend, you go for that??? Still trying to figure this out.
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