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AdventurousTxM

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    Southeast Texas
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    Great conversation, staying fit, exploring erotic thoughts and feelings, and making close friends
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    Real estate professional
  1. Irrespective of whether the parents choose to see a therapist, I think they should, together, speak to their daughter and reassure her about their relationship and their love for her. To say nothing could lead to bigger issues down the road. I think everyone who has posted (including her parents) are genuinely concerned for the well being of their daughter. Hopefully, everything will work out for everyone concerned.
  2. Of course your daughter isn't going to mention it anymore. Who would confront their mother about the possibility of her being a lesbian. By not saying anything more to your daughter, you are avoiding the issue and not helping her. Don't think she has forgotten about it. She hasn't, but a 12 year old isn't going to approach you about something so sensitive. It may be more comfortable for you, but as has been said, it will only make her imagine things that may not be true. Also, if you don't discuss it with her, she is more likely to confide in a girl friend, who may then tell her mother. Once that happens, the gossip can be devastating. When you try to hide something that has been discovered (pictures don't lie), you also risk that your daughter will eventually act out her insecurities over this which can lead to more problems. Although everyone on this board is very well intentioned, I'd go talk to a therapist to get some advice from a professional who can guide you on how to approach your daughter and what to say. Remember, you can change this from a difficult experience for both of you to one in which your daughter regains trust in you and feels that she can talk to you about anything. Tell her that you and her Dad are very much in love, that your family is secure and that what she saw will never change the fact that you both love her very, very much. And best of luck.
  3. Two observations. First, I don't think that this is the end of it. Waterboy will go home, probably not tell his wife, and have many intense sexual fantasies (while he masturbates, or during sex with wifey) about what he would like to do alone with the very hot and very naughty Mrs. Naughty who for the last nine months has provided him with lots of sexy poses and plenty of eye candy (we've read about how she has dressed) while she has been "Seducing the Waterboy." Remember, he said to Mrs. Naughty that "I may be, but my wife never would" when responding to her statement that Mr. Naughty is into this, "but not with the WB." I think that later on, he will bring the subject up again, and tell Mrs. Naughty that after much reflection, he would be very interested in joining her alone without Mr. Naughty and without his wife. We know from many other threads that Mrs. Naughty will tell him no thanks, but it will be interesting to see what happens. Second, he may have intentionally removed his wedding ring whenever he planned to visit her house, so that she would think he's available. But when she said that she and hubby are adventurous, he thought she was inviting both himself and his wife to swing, when in fact she was wanting a one on one with him. So that's why he admitted to being married, since he doesn't think that his wife would agree. I may be wrong, but I really do think he will pursue Mrs. Naughty in the future.
  4. I have used Viagra and Cialis. I have a more intense, rigid erection with Viagra, but the effect is gone in 4 to 6 hours. I use 50 mg, and I might see the effect last longer with 100 mg. With Cialis, the erection is not quite as intense, but it is still very good and lasts for 36 hours or so. Both make recovering from an orgasm quicker than without it. To me, that is the biggest benefit. I would use Viagra for one night of play, and Cialis for a weekend of play. I don't think you should mix the two. Also, it's easier to take one Cialis for extended play, and I've read you should only take Viagra once a day.
  5. Believe it or not, there is a book on the subject of fisting. I don't know if it is still in print, but it is EXCELLENT! The title is "A Hand in the Bush - The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting." The author is Deborah Addington, and it was published in 1997 by Greenery Press in San Francisco. I bought it at a fetish store several years ago. She discusses the physiology of a woman, why she can be fisted, safety concerns, what to do and not to do, and why it is so incredibly erotic. Basically, she says that a woman's vagina is loaded with nerve endings. The more contact that there is with the lining of a woman's vagina, the more intense the sensation, including her orgasm. So, since a fist contacts much more of a woman's vaginal lining than even the largest cock, fisting is more intense and exciting than regular sex...at least for her and her friends who have experienced it. She has self fisted herself, and has fisted another woman while she's being fisted in return. She says that is the ultimate fisting experience. Lot's of lube, and lots of time, are keys to fisting. The book is the definitive guide. Fisting is not some freak show, but is an incredibly erotic way to help a woman achieve a mind blowing orgasm, if she wants that experience. If you don't believe me, read the book, and I think you'll agree.
  6. I have gone down on women during their period, and find it a real turn on. Some of the women I've been with love it, because in their mind, it's soooo nasty. But a couple of others didn't like it because they feel so unclean when they're having their period. And if I kiss them afterwards, they don't like the taste. My rule....if it will make them hot, I'll do it without question.
  7. I think this poll is very accurate. I've seen porn flicks where the guys are always eight inches or larger. Therefore, I always thought that I am average in size, and I'm a true seven inches. But I recently read from a fairly authoritative survey that the average erect penis is actually just shy of six inches. That explains why, when I have been sexual with someone new, they usually express surprise at my size. Sure, it would be nice to have another inch or two, but given the fact that I usually hit bottom when having sex with someone, I have become very satisfied with how I am endowed. One more thing. I've heard people say that guys who are tall with big hands and feet are always very well hung. Some may be. But over the years, at various health clubs that I've been a member of, without exception, the longest and thickest flaccid penises have been attached to men who were slightly built and less than 5'8". The tall guys have only been average in size, at best. That's just from observing...not from touching!!
  8. I introduced a former lover to watersports when, during a love making session, I told her to sit in the tub and spread her legs wide. I had intentionally had lots of liquids to drink earlier. I directed a stream of pee at her erect clit, and continued that until I was "drained." She almost came from the sensation of the stream of warm pee focused on her clit, and then she masturbated to an orgasm while she sat there and thought of what we had just done. We didn't do that often, but she would ask me to do that to her at other times. I found it very exciting to watch her get so aroused and then to almost cum from the sensation.
  9. I have loved anal stimulation since my first girlfriend (who is now a minister!) pressed her finger against, and then into, my anus when we were in the middle of a heavy petting session. When I discovered how incredibly arousing that was, I had her penetrate my anus with a finger, while she used her other hand to stroke me to an orgasm. I thought I was going to pass out, it was so intense. The anus is loaded with sexual nerve endings, and many women (and for all I know, some men) can achieve an orgasm just with anal penetration. What I have discovered in recent years in how incredibly sensitive my anus is to the flicking of a woman's tongue. I recently kneeled over my partner, and masturbated while she performed analingus on my anus. I came and came and came. I love it when she tells me she wants to lick my anus, because the intensity of it makes me soooo hot. Analingus is the most exciting anal play she does to me, followed by inserting her finger, or a small dildo/butt plug. I don't enjoy having really thick objects inserted in my anus, but she sure does!
  10. Having no hair is visually exciting because the pussy lips are so exposed. But, my preference is a woman who trims the hair short around her pussy lips, trims any pubic hair that is on her upper thighs, and then shaves around her anus. That allows most of the pubic hair to remain. I know women who have shaved all of their pubic hair, then fail to keep it shaved, and complain that it itches like crazy when it is growing back. Remember, you are trying to create a sexy and attractive visual for your partner. If you can't shave, then at least keep it neatly trimmed, especially around your pussy lips. Hope this helps.
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