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Vespertine

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  1. Our first MFM was very weird-- all three of us were newbies. The three of us discussed it, defined our rules, limits and turn-on's... We were all excited... planned the night, well in advance... when it came down to it we had a hard time actually initiating anything. Nobody wanted to make the first move. We three were chickenshit. I had to get the ball rolling with the guys. I had to walk them through the first several minutes (and do all the work) until they were comfortable around eachother. Then- nature took over.
  2. Dito Be proud of who you are and your hard work! Scars wouldn't be a turn-off for most people.
  3. Our first experience was with a single bi-female. She found us.
  4. btw.. When I gave my opinion that sometimes women can be too slutty I didn't mean -you- were being slutty in the above scenerio. I was responding to your question, in general, and not your situation. Just so you know, I wasn't calling you a slut. Isn't it common for women to dance topless at a swinger's club? I would think that would come with the territory. Like sftspkn said, I think "sluty" is definitely a relative word.
  5. Dito Mr. V and I feel the same way. Don't get me wrong, we like to see everyone having a good time, but if a woman (or man) tosses herself around a room like she's today's lunch special... we get turned off fast. Too me, it screams out insecurity- and that is something that I find most unbecoming.
  6. Dito There's nothing wrong, at all, with having a monogamous relationship. It doesn't make your relationship less trusting, or less secure. It's just what you two prefer. As Intuition said, the fact that you two talked about possibly exploring your sexual boundaries is a hell of a lot more than some couples have. Enjoy eachother and whatever makes you two happy.
  7. Exactly, Mrs. GT. Sometimes putting the shoe on the other foot is the best thing to do.
  8. This other woman isn't married? That, in itself, might be reason enough not to play with them. She doesn't have anything to lose. Also, how did the other couple interact with eachother? Do they have a long history together, is swinging new to them? Did they act like a couple? Could her "boyfriend" just be a ticket?
  9. Big Dito I wouldn't be as understanding as the OP seems to be...
  10. Dito Three days without talking.....over that??? I seriously don't think this is a lifestyle for you.
  11. I'm sorry to hear that, Cat. Best of luck to you both... and good for you two for being mature about it.
  12. Go BTampa! That would be the perfect thing to do. I would never think to say something like that... I'd probably either cry or bitchslap her ....A retort like yours would make even an Ice Queen take pause and check herself.
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