4Beauty2C

Bear and Babe, I think the female that talked to you could have been a tad jealous. I am sure you had a nice rack and it is obvious that was the first thing she commented on was your chest. It is fair game I think when you are at a club unless it is stated on a board.

Since some swing sites have a "rating" scale on how a couples and single people are etc. they need to have one of how many times they stood people up and the reason for it. That will then show me if this is an ongoing for these people, and to decide if it is okay to swing with them or not.

This woman has been causing a lot of drama. Get rid of her.

We would rather have a few couples who are long term to us that we can go back to every now and again. Earlier in the years of swinging though we always had times where we flat out stated to the variety of couples we were to meet randomly if we did not hear from them by a certain time we moved on. Open communication and trust among other things lol. That is what we like in our couples.

Hmmm, When hub was in the Navy on an older submarine, I was going down to meet him for lunch among over hundred men around. We snuck in this tiny laundry room with the key and noticed that the washer was about to go on spin cycle and had a good ol' time makin noises. lol

I would have shut my mouth and enjoyed the night. It is not like you are obligated to see her again anyway.

We would not get relatives involved too risky.

We have come across some couples that had skin flaws etc. but it did not affect us one bit. We were there to have a good time.

We had "drama" one time when we were at a swing club. We met a couple and little did we know that she enjoyed the Mrs. more and everytime her boyfriend would touch the Mrs. this woman would flip out and make a scene. She wanted the Mrs. all to herself. We finally told the couple that we did not want to cause anymore issues so we left.

Certificates are just a judgemental opinion a person/couple upholds on you.

Sometimes I can tell if a man is big enough for me. I go by the width of my hand. If you does not go at least 3-4 inches past the with of a 4" hand then he is not right for me.

7-8" in length and girth at least up to 3" . Cannot have any smaller.

Hub and my comfort level is high. We want what makes us happy when we are with our couples. As long as we are both happy that is what counts. If not, time to talk things out for what we could do better the next time.

I think I would to a double take to my husband if he wanted me to use a strap on with him. I thinks that would be so erotic to see and of course do. But of course he has is boundries when it comes to what he wants stimulating him. I have been using my fingers in his anal area. But is it strange, with the other spouse/hub that I have been with , they would have loved to have a small vibrator. How can you convince your own hub on how stimulating it is for me to watch him get pleasure in any way..? Does anyone have any ideas?

Hub and I have never come across anyone who cheats as of yet. Our opinion on this is divided. We though think that it is none of our business who they come in with and the other side of it is we have to put ourself into the hands of the person who is being cheatted on.