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mrs good times

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About mrs good times

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    Lifestyle Mentor
  • Birthday 03/05/1963

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  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Reno, NV
  • Interests
    flying, parrots and shooting
  • Occupation
    Professional

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  • SLS Name
    randp

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  1. Whoaa! I don't think so, I like it just the way it is and my opinion comes first.
  2. We consider the sexual potential when buying furniture. We were recently looking at purchasing a new recliner and decided a wide style would make it much more comfortable for me to ride the Mr. in. We were just discussing this morning a new bedroom set and I made sure to include the height of the bed as of major importance for edge of the bed sex. We will have to take the proper measurements before shopping because, trying it out in the store may cause a scene.
  3. My husband's favorite winter outfit I have, is a see through white sweater that is ultra tight. Match it with a skirt or jeans and boots. I get to stay warm and show off assets at the same time.
  4. I wonder what we could get if Teresa and I tag teamed him. Matching Stagger Wings, G models even.
  5. Hell yes, and if I used the money to buy Mr. GT a Staggerwing Beach with the money, he wouldn't even mind if I did it without asking first.
  6. Chicup, I think Pepper has done a fantastic job, but I will add one thing - SOFT. I love to touch a man in a silk shirt. Avoid the 100% (stiff as hell) cotton, or the scratchy raised prints.
  7. I was a baaaad girl! I was 15 and a freshman the first time. My mother actually caught me in the act, because it was my bedroom at home. Not very smart, but it was fun.
  8. We have the same problem you do Julie because we don't have kids either. Even being in our 40's most of the couples we meet still have kids at home and I think it has a lot to do with couples working on their careers first and starting families so much later now. Like you meeting at clubs works best for us because we can be spontaneous and most couples cannot. We decide we are going to the club about an hour before we head out the door. Trying to work around schedules and babysitters is not worth the effort to us because we don't have too. Meeting at the clubs, all of those problems have been taken care of, at least for the night.
  9. Movies, mutual with my husband or alone with my imagination Woman I prefer European porn because the men are much better looking than in American porn. I like toys. As long as it takes and I prefer it when my SO joins in. Yes
  10. After reading this statement I wanted to clarify what Mr. GT was referring to. New swingers are a totally different issue than the, "I just like the atmosphere crowd." We were all new to swinging once and we understand that everyone needs to go at their own pace. We are fine with that as long as we know up front. Just last weekend we spent the evening with a new couple just playing pool and talking about swinging. We had a great time. The problem we have here are the couples that come to the club knowing that they have no intention of ever swinging, they just like the atmosphere or they just like to watch. The number of these types of couples as been increasing and has become a source of frustration for those of us that go to a swingers party to meet actual swingers. As Western Swing said, they just move on to find the actual swingers, as do we, but sometimes even that is a problem. Some of these non-swingers have become friends over time and they do not understand that while we enjoy going out to dinner or doing vanilla things with them we do not plan on sitting with them the entire night at a swing club. We are there to meet swingers! To give you an idea of how bad this problem is in our area we've been keeping track. On the last three occasions that we have been to one of our local clubs less than 20% of the people there were couples looking for couples full swap. Granted, we do not live in an area with clubs that have 200 attendees a night but when you have 30 couples at a party and only 6 are full swap couples it can be rather annoying. So, I think you should continue to go to the club and in time you will know if this is your cup of tea or not.
  11. There is nothing sexier than a person that is comfortable in there own skin. I can imagine myself taking a second look to see if what I saw was true but by no means would I find it offensive. I tend to be more of the curious type and would more than likely approach you and say something along the lines of "you rock" or send you a thumbs up across the room. Having met you doesn't taint my answer either. In our many years at clubs we have seen many things like wheel chairs and leg braces. These things don't bother me because they are a part who the person is. Like someone else said a woman showing off a bad boob job or a poorly performed tummy tuck is a different story.
  12. Crystal, Baby wipes would be great but I think the biggest reason people are looking for towels is for those ladies that squirt. I can understand why you don't want to hassle with them but perhaps a blurb on your website suggesting those that need towels bring them would help.
  13. Swapping partners for the day happens to be a fantasy of mine but it is not the norm in swinging. This is something that would only work and be fun if all the parties involved were on the same page and and just as excited about the prospect. It doesn't sound like your friends are even on the same page with each other let alone with you so I would avoid this situation. We are the type of swingers that are willing try most anything once. We have changed partners for the evening (sleeping in separate rooms, same house, for the night). It was okay and there wasn't any issue of trust, but it just isn't for us. We tried it, didn't care for it, so we won't do it again. We have run into this on occasion but it's always been with newbies. I think that new people in the lifestyle tend to attach themselves to play partners like a toy that they don't want to share. They are afraid you may find someone else that you think is more fun and then they will be cast aside. Again, I think this is a newbie problem. They want you to be available for them when they want you. If you know they are playing with others then they have to expect that you are doing the same and they may not want that. They fear that you may turn them down some evening because you have a night out planned with someone else. In the end it boils down to you, as a couple, doing what is fun and comfortable for you. If it's not fun to be out with them because of all these issues then it's time to move on or confront them and work it out.
  14. I know we would have left immediately upon seeing the kids so we would have missed out on the rest of the reasons you gave to leave. Drugs aren't something we see often in the lifestyle but there are a few people we avoid because of this also. The herpes breakout on the lip is the one that reminded me of a party we were at once and a girl there had the same thing. I noticed it and avoided contact with her but when I saw her giving a guy a blow job on the living room couch I became grossed out and we left. It's amazing to me how uninformed most swingers really are.
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