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naughtygirl27

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  1. "Granted...no one is expected to meet and play everytime. The posers are the ones who rarely, if ever, get sexual with anyone. One club up here is total posers, yet states they are a swinger club. You just don't know til you go and see what goes on at a club.....or doesn't" I am using the above quote from a post from yawanna. This isnt directed at her though, just using it to start my post. I have a big problem with the term posers. Here is why. When my husband & I got into the lifestyle a few years ago we made it very clear to everyone that showed interest in us that we are newbies, not sure how far we were going to go or how far we wanted to go. Many of the newbies we have met did the same thing. Since then we have never advertised who we sleep with,never posted on a message board saying "thanks to XX &XX for last night, we have always been pretty discreet. Now a few years later I have heard people refer to my husband & myself as "POSERS". When asked why we are labelled that they reply because we dont sleep with people, we dont swing. I am not sure how to express this so please bare with me as I try to get my point across. HOW DO THEY KNOW WE HAVENT SLEPT WITH PEOPLE???? head bang For those people who call others posers please explain how you feel you have the right to do that. Just because these people have not slept with you does not make them a poser. Since when has being discreet with play partners make a person a poser? WHEW ok done my rant for today. Thanks for listening. LOL Have a good day everyone!! naughtygirl27
  2. This is a short and sweet post. Stretch marks?!?! Hell I earned those suckers and are damn proud of them!!! I say I'd like to see a guy push a bowling ball through the tip of his dick and not be proud of the results
  3. I would just like to say THANK YOU to all who responded to this!!! I have large inner lips and a fair sized clit. I have been so shy about it, to the point where I would warn people so they wouldnt freak out. I thought I was a freak with them being so big. After playing with other females I have found I am not so wierd at all. And it is nice to know men don't care. WHEW I enjoy having my lips sucked on. It bothers me when the person I am playing with uses their fingers to pull them aside and just work on the clit.
  4. Brit_Pair If the couple are close & could hear us...one of us says "hmm hope the kids are ok..we should call" then explain to the couple thats its a new sitter. We excuse ourselves to call & if there is NO way in hell we are playing with them..well wouldnt ya know we have to go cuz there are problems. We also have signs that if one of us is talking or getting friendly with someone say across the room from us and we arent comfortable with it, I will play with my hair(twist it around my finger). Hubby blows me a kiss. And we stop whatever we were doing until we get a chance to talk. I use to think we were the only ones who did stuff like that. Now we find it amusing to watch others to see if we can figure out thier signs. naughtygirl27
  5. I like men wearing boxers...hubby wears boxers I like to wear thongs.
  6. My hubby & I have talked alot about MMF. Something we both wanted. He kept telling me to just pick the guy..which is easier said then done. I got some nerve up one night & said ok "this guy" who is a single friend of his. Hubby agreed 100% that it was a good pick as this guys knows about the lifestyle (not in it though) and hubby trusts him very much. Hubby talked to his friend about it & we made plans to go out for a few drinks. Anyways...we get back to his place & I start to kiss him etc. He said " I cant do this" and I backed off, told him no problem, all is good. After watching some porn & chatting we started kissing and touching again (he started it). Clothes came off & oral play happened. At one point I said " I want you to F*ck me now". Well he said he just wasnt comfortable doing that & lost his erection. So hubby & I played while he watched. After we sat around & chatted. I made sure I let him know that although we didnt have sex I had an amazing time and honestly hope to do it again. We are hoping with some time & more conversation we can try the MMF with him again. But if he isnt ok with it...he is still a great friend and my hubby & I MIGHT look for another male..unilt then 4somes & more somes. naughtygirl27:D
  7. I am kind of a clean freak...I ALWAYS shower before play and I really like it when others do too. Now if during a break I use the washroom I always use fem wipes...Massengill. I keep them in my bathrooms and in my purse for those away play dates. I have a question. You are playing with a female...go down to perform oral...AND oh my she smells REALLY BAD. How do you handle it? Plug your nose & dive in coming up for air when you need to? Or do you say something discretely? Or for those really forward people...do you say something loud enough for all to hear? This has happened to me a few times (not being smelly but having to deal with a smelly) and I am too shy to say anything. I cover up my feelings by doing a quick job and conveniently getting distracted by the other people. I know, not very mature, but I wouldn't want to hurt someone's feelings.
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