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I think if you don't expect too much, too fast in terms of a LTF/LTR you'll know when you've got the right man with the right fit (no pun intended). I've been with 2 couples long term and after the initial meeting and getting to know each other we could just sense that we had good chemistry and went from there. Good luck!

As a single, over excited or over aggressive husband's are usually a BIG red flag. If the wife and I get along but she seems like she's only doing it for him then I hesitate. I've also run into couples with an overly aggressive wife that can be a flag too. I tend to depend on my sense of people...if their personable, fun, casual that's a good start...for me anyway! Like singles for couples, good couples are hard to find! JMHO...LOLOL!