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Hitch

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  • Birthday 11/17/1966

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  • Relationship Status
    M Female
  • Location
    Colorado
  • Anniversary
    01/07/1994

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  • SLS Name
    Hitchy

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  1. Mr Hitch had a lot of fun, keeps talking about it, checking in with me to make sure I'm not having regrets. We keep talking about and it's still amazing. I expected to be nervous, to have to think about things as it went, to feel like it might be wrong...but none of that happened. I wasn't nervous. I didn't think about any of it. I just went with it and loved every moment. I know Mr Hitch was a bit nervous, he wasn't as hard as I know he could be. He also wasn't into the amount of touching the other guys were. I think it's a difference between being bi (and attracted to same sex) and being curious. Mr is all about giving pleasure, he is a giver and loves that role. We did say our boundaries for him was No Mouth Kissing, and both men loved to just touch and kiss his body. He went with it and said he wouldn't have changed it, but doesn't need it. He didn't cum when we were there and our friend was kind of disappointed that he couldn't make Mr H cum. But we both agree that the next time he will be less nervous. When we got home he was harder than I've ever seen and whispered in my ear about 'next time' and all the things he wanted to do. Fantastic! Just this morning, on our walk, we were talking about it and he asked if I was still up for adding a woman or couple. Asking if this caused me to rethink things. And nope. This experience put me firmly in the 'Sex for Pleasure, not Love' column. I'd love to see another women pleased by him the way I always am. He's well endowed and has a Gene Simmons-like tongue that he knows how to use, well. He needs to share that. I've already been on SLS today, looking for a couple. I know that finding a single woman is difficult, at best. Now, I understand...
  2. OMG OH MY GOD Last night was probably the most fun I've ever had. We met a guy on SLS, we had drinks with him and one of his friends about a week ago and he was nice, young (like by 20 years!) and we all got along well. I even went to one of his softball games... We got together last night with no expectations of anything happening. We watched some sports at a brewery bar (all of them it seemed, I just drank and listening to three men argue about football and baseball) and then we went dancing. I danced my face off! I danced with Mr Hitch, both guys and various men and women on the dance floor. Best workout I've ever had (paying for it now, knee hurts) and it was so much fun! Friend said 'lets go to my place' so we walked there. He lives downtown, enjoying being 30 and single and getting laid most every night. Other friend and I were talking on the balcony and he asked if he could take Mr Hitch into the bedroom. I said he would have to ask him and I watched as he took him by the hand and disappeared. I followed to find him with both guys, still dressed, all hands and shirts coming off. I put myself into the middle and kissed him. Then it was suddenly all hand and lips and tongues and two people helped me get naked. And then it was 4 people on the bed. I watched my husband find his bi side and I was kinda distracted but not for long...for the first time in 22 years, I had sex with another man, two actually. wow.....no issues for him at all, he said he loved hearing me climax over and over, watching me on top of another guy and doing thing himself that he'd only dreamed of. Apparently he gives a good blow job. And watching that was the hottest thing I've ever seen. There was a time for each of us that the other three concentrated on one. On the way down in the elevator, Mr Hitch said 'let's do that again.' Yes, let's so totally do that again....
  3. As I was logging in today on SLS, the picture on the right was my sister in Cleveland. We don't talk much, she's a step sister and we weren't really close (though I did teach her how to kiss). I showed Mr Hitch the photo and we both were surprised...but not shocked. I won't reach out, it was just kinda funny.
  4. Mr Hitch and I have discussed the LS at length and it's amazingly freeing.... About safe sex... Mr Hitch is 'fixed' (his words) and we are STD free (getting checked at the next appt so I can have something that proves it, just in case) so I thought he should be able to play bare, if it's okay with the other person/couple. Due to a blood clot after knee surgery, I'm not allowed to be on birth control (going off was the best thing that ever happened to me) and I think I'm still fertile-ish. I'm 48 so Aunt Flo isn't always a visitor, but I don't want to find out the very bad way that going bare was a bad idea. My question, is it fair to the other him of the couple that Mr Hitch gets to go condom free? I'm fine with him doing so, but will the other couple have a problem with it? I know you all are not every couple, but I'd love your thoughts... Thanks!
  5. So far, our only boundaries are condoms for me (Mr. Hitch is V-safe) and don't do anything new with a different partner. Oh, and 4 way chemistry...
  6. Ok...the situation is this... Mr. Hitch and I are dancing and we get approached by a couple. Chemistry is there, we all decide we want to play together. How do people discuss boundaries? Anyone want to write a short script or tell me how you personally discuss your boundaries with a new couple? Thanks! BTW, this site is amazing. I've spent the last week researching the past topics and reading the manual. Discussion with Mr Hitch has been open, honest, and thrilling really. You all rock.
  7. Last night, Mr Hitch and I talked about which to try first, the MMF or FMF and he gave me the choice. I think he's still afraid that I'm going to change my mind or that he is somehow going to mess this all up. Anyway, I was describing, in great detail, how things might go with another women. I talked about him kissing her and showing her what his tongue can do (picture Gene Simmons) and when I said it, out loud, and pictured it, it became less of an issue. I had to sit and picture this and get through it. In the end, she isn't going to steal him by a kiss, and it would be hot to watch, so I'm okay with kissing after really thinking hard about it and visualizing it. Maybe this will help with your husband?
  8. What are the dead give-aways that show the entire room that you are new? What should we avoid doing, saying, etc that will make it obvious that it's our first time at the club, or the party... Thanks!
  9. OKAY! Strange thing just happened to me....I am fine (in my mind so far) with everything I can picture my husband doing with another woman. I never even thought about kissing until I read the title of this thread. Then my blood pressure rose and I had a fight or flight moment. I need to think about this more....why does the thought of my husband kissing another woman bother me so much? I think a kiss is a love thing, not a sex thing.
  10. What about Jessica Rabbit? Or Columbia from Rocky Horror Picture show? I have short red hair and I was Columbia for 2 years, every Friday and Saturday night. I still have my gold sequined hat.
  11. That's what I want to know!! What kinds of costumes are worn? For both sexes. I'm not even sure how well this will go for me. For 20 years, I've not looked at other people to gauge their 'fuckability' to me. Turns out, I've only seen a few men out there that I find attractive. I can count on one hand the number of men I've found sexually attractive in the last week. I've been looking...and most of those I've found attractive are not going to find me attractive. I'm not even sure if we go to this party, if anyone will want to be with me.
  12. There is a Horny Halloween party at a hotel in our area. It's a costume party... What can one expect at one of these? The event says 38 members are on the guest list so far. Is this a good turn out? A poor one? Should we get a room just in case? Stay even if we don't connect with anyone? ANY advice would be appreciated.
  13. So far, so good! I downloaded Julie's book and though I have not started reading, I have been reading around here and I'm getting some amazing information, thank you! Mr. Hitch and I spoke several times and he is all for it. Not overly enthusiastic, not telling me to hurry and find a couple, but is looking forward to trying. Allowing me to take the lead, starting to set rules and boundaries, he's waiting for me to change my mind and doesn't want to get caught in crosshairs should things change. I actually can't wait to see him surrounded by women. He never even knows when females are flirting, doesn't seem to see it. He's smart and handsome and we're in decent shape. I think he will be well received. And I can't wait to watch.
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