we have been looking into the LS for 8+ years but didn't have our first real experience about 1 year and a half ago, She would flirt(she always flirts) with this guy at work and the swinger subject came up. We set it up Where she would go get a massage ( his part time job) from him, Well the morning of she chickened out. She was just too nervous about my reaction. You know it's one thing in the bedroom but once it's done it's done. that was 3 years ago