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    Fort Worth, Texas
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    14 years
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  1. Let me add a few more comments about us. No one has a perfect body. Some people are bigger others are smaller. A mixture of body types. We are within 10 years in age. We know 80%. With so few of people, about 10 couples, no group activity is usually seen. This group has the best chances for us to play. The club we go to never really lends itself to play. 95% their don’t ever play. We just want to be attractive more to the others. We don’t mind pursuing, but want some success. Hygiene definitely is not our problem. It’s meticulous. We’re not thin people but neither are some of the others. I feel it could be a confidence issue. I’ve been working on this but find it the most challenging. I see some guys never even try and the women seem to come to them. It’s hard for me to say about my wife why the guys don’t go for her.
  2. We are a 50’s couple that struggles to get from the socializing stage of meeting people to the actual playtime. We have been to 5 parties this year that has resulted in no play for us this year yet. I don’t feel we are unattractive. What we have seem to witness is the other people are always a step ahead of us. An example of this would be say my wife asks a guy to play but he states he already made a promise to another lady. Or I start flirting with a lady but her focus gets drawn away by another guy. But later I ask her to play and she states I’m too tired for anyone else that evening. There are other scenarios as well. Such as being couple blocked by another couple we were interested in. These are house parties that it’s known everyone will play. They are small. 10 couples typically. So my question is how do you deal with this? Another question I have is how as a guy, can I keep from being cock blocked so much?
  3. Yay! Love squirters. But will take either way for sure!
  4. We are on the flip side. We are in our 50’s-60’s and swing way less than we used to. All the clubs are filled with 30’s-40’s and they are not interested in us. We get a few house party invites and they sometimes result in play. We live in Fort Worth and feel demographics has a lot to do with it.
  5. I’d like to offer an opinion on the subject. First, wish we had a singles night at our club. They don’t offer one. My wife and I love threesomes. Guys are charged a premium price. Almost double a couple. So this limits our choice. We’ve never played with a single guy at a club. The ones that are their, we have witnessed the same. They sit around. They don’t engage. Guess I can’t blame them. It’s tough. Even as the male of a couple, I’ve had some difficulty with other wives. Maybe I do it wrong. But I think this is a problem with guys in the couple too. I struggle with things to say. Even when I do compliment a lady, I’ve had them say something smart ass back. Example. I told a lady her outfit was the sexiest I ever saw. And her response was take a good look cause that’s all you get. Now, I’m sorry, it’s hard to be confident with ladies doing that. I can definitely see a single guy struggling with this. Some ideas on learning this confidence would be helpful. QUOTE=agreatguy;592236]I can see what you are saying to a certain extent but they should know the score if they are at a club on single guy night. Most, if not all, of the couples are there for the same thing. That in itself should give them some them confidence and not intimidate them. Actually, I've been there as a single guy although it's been quite a few years. I looked for cues and if there wasn't anything obvious I mingled. In this particular case we did walk around a bit and spoke to one guy who seemed shell shocked. He actually came and talked to us later but we had already had our fun for the night and were waiting on another couple to finish their evening so we could tell them goodbye. The guy she finally grabbed got many clues from her that he seemed to ignore including multiple glances and flirty smiles. I tracked him down and opened the door for him and he again seemed shell shocked. I don't know why. It's what he's there for. She finally grabbed his arm as he walked by and got him talking then he couldn't take his eyes off of her. My wife has all the freedom she needs but I think she feels like she wants me there with her so I'll be there with her until she doesn't want that. What she really wants is to be pursued a little not always have to do the pursuing. Fortunately the guys she has pursued have all turned out to be decent guys and charming enough once WE broke the ice. I don't think it's too much to expect a single guy to approach us and start a conversation. I understand the fear of being rejected but that's going to happen, you move on to the next couple. My experience in the past and with my wife is that confidence is going to overcome a lot of other shortcomings a guy may have as long as he doesn't come off as arrogant. Any one of four of the five guys there that night could have had a great night if they had just approached us. As far as I could tell the only guy that got laid was the one my wife finally made a move on and he certainly left happy. I guess that was the reason for my post other than it just being a rant. Just wanted to let guys know that confidence and charm will open the doors more than sitting by themselves waiting on the couples to make the first move.
  6. One more thing to add. On the subject of splitting up or sticking together, it really wouldn’t have mattered. The home was very small so we technically was together or could’ve split up. We just was not approached in any way by anyone.
  7. Let’s back up before we get on the wrong tangent. Neither me nor my wife, got to play. We was the lame duck couple. Their was 3 couples we had met before at the same house party and a few new couples. I guess an eye for an eye their could have been an odd number of couples and we became the only couple to not have someone. I thought we for sure would have clicked with someone. It was a depressing situation as our ability to go to parties is stretched thin. Our last party we attended was 2nd weekend of January.
  8. Flirting with a particular couple would never have happened. Everyone split up so no one couple stayed together. The wives did their own thing as did the husbands.
  9. Tonight we went to a house party. It was very small. Maybe 12 couples. Everyone played but me and my wife. Was kinda disappointed when we left but understandable that things don’t always work out. We're kinda down as to what we might have done wrong or didn’t do right? It seemed everyone was focused on everyone else but did socialize some with us. Everyone is pretty much on the same level for looks and weight so that definitely wasn’t it. Just not sure what we should have done different.
  10. We have gone to alcohol free swinging activities. I never realized how important it was. We had a couple two weeks ago at the club I’ve had bad experiences at and definitely had success with zero alcohol. I was worried the whole time walking back with the lady. But I got hard and the confidence went way up. I’ve been on cloud 9 since. I don’t need liquid courage anymore. To socialize, without alcohol, is something you have to learn, but, it’s definitely worth the learning experience.
  11. Yes we have tried going separate ways and it hasn’t worked well for us. It’s like you said but more of a 20-1 ratio. It was actually recommended on this board for us to stop that and stick together. We did and it helped but with results I haven’t been happy with. My wife gets to feeling guilty that I don’t get that great experience. One lady tasted so bad it took a week for me to get that taste out of my mouth. And she was a beautician and a beautiful lady. I didn’t stay with her more than 5 mins. But do other guys just find the other women unappealing and prefer to just share their wife only? I enjoy this but feel I’m missing out too.
  12. Not everyone was bad. But out of the last three years, I only enjoyed one lady. I really love my wife deeply and am overwhelmed with sex with her. It’s fantastic. Maybe that’s the problem. My wife says the husbands were all good! Sometimes I didn’t know the lady was bad till I was playing with her. Some couples we didn’t play with because the lady wasn’t attractive to me visually. Sometimes the guy wasn’t appealing to my wife. I agree we are getting bad choices.
  13. Would like some thoughts on what I am experiencing. We’ve been swingers for the twenty years we have been together. I’ve had numerous women over this time, i constantly am kinda let down over the other wives I get. I don’t compare them to my own but am constantly seeing hygiene, are mega overweight, are missing teeth, have mental problems, etc. it’s come to the point that I enjoy watching my wife with other guys more than us doing a swap. I am curious if other guys experience this as well? I feel anxiety in some ways that I don’t get to enjoy myself with other women, but, have also accepted this is the way it’s gonna be. For your info, we are a 50’s aged couple. Thanks for your thoughts.
  14. We have been to both clubs. Both are nice, but we prefer Players. We became members. It’s bigger, and laid out better. We have a blast every time we go.
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