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twistedpretzels last won the day on January 13 2013

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About twistedpretzels

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    Swingers Board Addict
  • Birthday 03/16/1955

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    Cpl. She posts. He's busy :)
  • Location
    in each other's hearts
  • Interests
    Life
  • Occupation
    Education and Science
  • Swinging Experience
    Limited and leisurely
  • Anniversary
    august

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    beansalamode
  • Favorite Club(s)
    HardKnocks

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  1. I occasionally felt that word when my guy was with another woman
  2. They are poly with their rules. You and your hubby swing. It doesn't really mesh although some poly folks are more relaxed about their polyness-- they are not. I respect them for being so careful about transmittable issues, but you get tested on a regular basis too. Without discussing all the intricate rules I would say overall it is not a great match for the obvious reasons your brought up. Again, take this with a grain or two of salt. Best wishes.
  3. We had two different single females contact us in the past few years before going to a house party and a club asking us to escort them in so they felt 'more like the group' and had a few friendly faces to retreat to in case they 'needed it'. There were no sexual expectations as we were just being supportive 'new contacts'. One fem we eventually did spend some time with but that was after we had known her awhile. If you let your hosts know you are new and maybe a bit nervous most people will go out of their way to introduce you to some couples or singles who are more than happy to hang out with you throughout the evening. Have fun!
  4. P and I met a cpl we talked to for a bit and when we met for dinner she seemed kind of cold despite sexy IM's and phone calls. The next time we met them was at a club and she was pretty drunk and then she was all about fn... it was sloppy, drunk words sex for her and a turn off for Pete. We are a non drinking cpl also and if you have to get drunk to 'have a good time' well that isn't sexy. We figured out she was a bit lit when we talked to her on the phone previously. So yes, drunk, is a peeve.
  5. 1) we agree about the 'size' thing also-- just have fun using it and we're happy. 2) 'must be shaved'-- a bath before meeting is just fine. hair is natural- bumps and stubble are not. he doesn't like getting beard burn from HER. trimmed cool. 3) cheating on spouses couples 4) cheating marrieds acting as singles 5) poor oral and body hygiene 6) having to meet a certain 'age' range. people either look or act younger, older, or about their age. you might be surprised. just meet people and decide. don't say 'you're two years over our limit. we have met some very old, stuffy, backwards thinking 35 year olds 7) spouses who put down their spouse 8) poor communication- just be open-- it will all work out 9)DRUNKS
  6. Swallow. What's the big deal? It's in my mouth and to me it's always been more fun (and easier) to swallow. I find that it's easy to re-excite a man orally also-- cannot see swinging as any fun if there was no oral (either way)--
  7. I do not think people have rules about what you do or have to do-- I know folks who go to hang out and merely meet people and even to hang out and have a drink or two. It's the perfect atmosphere and a nice beginning into swinging- to have public sex. You may still never want to swing, or maybe you may!!!, in the least you have a forum to perform at and enjoy yourself. Have a great time!
  8. You are precious and a precious commodity! You will find even a better match and being a solo female you have so many hot choices. Enjoy and let us know how you are doing
  9. And plenty of men lie about their age too. It's not just a woman thing.
  10. I think the age thing is stupid. Everyone either looks their age, looks younger than their age, or looks older than their age. I put down my real age and my bf likes to fib. Go figure.
  11. Congrats and thanks for the 'ideas'.. i'm glad you two had such a great time.
  12. So many great suggestions and support here-- I'm sure you will find your way IN TIME. Our journey has had its issues but Pete and I are finally on the same page. (see my old posts if you like) Currently I am the one who generally (not all the time) finds us partners. This has resulted in more action for Pete (lol). Our situation was complicated since we lived 2.5 hours apart (committed couple) and with the time we did have I was more interested in having sex with Pete than random guys (moving to his town on Friday--woot! woot!). And at this point Pete is more interested in having sex with others than I-- We have gone to parties where I hung out and socialized and he HUNG out and SOCIALIZED (lol). All of this was not easy and took a lot of pre talk and post talk and of course writing to SwingersBoard and processing. I have learned there are no hard and fast rules but many GREAT suggestions from folks here. Pete and I are finally having mutual fun but it has been a lot of work.... which has brought us closer. I hope your husband has read your posts and replies you have discussed the input of others. Best wishes and keep us posted!
  13. We had our little bumps along the way and at times it was very difficult for me. From emails all of sudden not BBC to me, to solo swinging, then to attempting a solo poly relationship without me involved and presented as a surprise to me ... and other stuff with that issue too.... Now Pete gives me all of the control of contacting (although he is free to contact too) and meeting folks. Just recently he wanted to date an x gf. I said NO! (thank you SB!!!)-- but he responded with 'oh okay. no biggie' and i felt like we turned a big corner. I can say one thing. My boundaries have changed and developed over time but they did this on my own time line not pushed by Pete. I like what JOE said. And JAJ was succient in her message. Read it everyday. Best wishes.
  14. I don't think it is an 'answer' but i think it is great you are so opened minded as to look into it. Perhaps just being 'in the environment around like minded people' you will find some zip. the other thing is your libido may be just what and where it is at and there is nothing wrong with that if YOU are happy with it. pete's drive can be a bit higher than mine at times and if we go to a party and he wants to mess with someone it is cool with me because then i get some awful awesome off the hook sex afterwards and we consider it a win win situation (it has also go the other way too)... anyway, keep reading and welcome!
  15. When your gf actually meets this person she may not feel the chemistry to go any further than coffee. Just a thought. Let us know how it goes. And by having coffee with him and chatting is the time that may call up any red flags.
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