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    TN, USA
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    weight-lifting, body-building, rock and roll, and SEX, SEX, SEX!

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  1. we had a age problem but it was kinda weird with us..the young ones thought we were too old and the older ones thought we were too young. We are older people 48 and 52 with small children 9 and 11 so that made us a little out of the norm both ways I guess.
  2. Just for the record...all Fit people are not assholes.. Connie
  3. I love dirty talk during sex. I would talk dirty to the man first then that would usually fire him up more.
  4. I appreciate the discussion going on here. I agree that the internet provides us with a fast, far-reaching tool of contact. With it we find many people that normally we'd never know even exist. I was never into the swinger magazines either. We felt that this wasn't real anyhow, just some means of selling porn at the time, LOL. Also we find game players galore on the internet, who use the net as a means of picture collecting and a way of possibly boosting egos by getting others interested in a meeting... which never happens. I guess it makes some of them feel really big because they talked someone into something that will never happen. They are in control and they like that feeling. Of course the ones on the OTHER end of this deal feel quite differently. I often wonder how many COUPLES on these sites are actually a MAN posing as a couple??? We still play with acquaintances we've made, those who are really friends and not just your average garden variety of players. We still are amazed at so many who click on a profile, look at the female's pictures, and send messages to meet for get-togethers without so much as even reading our profiles. When on every blank it states that we're not swinging at present, yet they write anyhow, you KNOW they haven't read the first damn word. I guess they think they'll be the ones who change our lives for the better or something. Speaking of those friends we've actually made in the lifestyle, these are true friends. Sometimes we get together without any sex involved. We go to movies and barbecue together, watch TV and many other things. Our children play together while the adults visit. Friends do what friends do, you know. If playing comes up, then we play. For us, it isn't a mandatory thing to have sex in order to get together with someone. We met one couple that grew rather edgy because we'd been at a party with them for over an hour without sex. He said that if he wanted a DATE he would go back to high school. He is strictly a bedpost-notcher. This was the last couple we tried to swing with. Swinging these days has become just that, though. Everyone is more interested in the sex and the thrill, but then quickly move on to their next conquest. Never a worry about remaining friends, never a second thought. After all, it's strictly about THEM... I won't even begin to mention the "B" problem. There was a huge thread concerning it awhile back so our feelings are quite well expressed there. Yes, swinging has changed. Some good changes, many bad. We will take it as it comes, but we are exhausted at the work involved. We have had many memorable times that will live in our minds forever, and have changed our future thoughts concerning sex. Our lives are much better and we're more committed to each other than we ever were before, thanks to the lifestyle. But we are also more dead-set in our beliefs and ideals.
  5. Even Better!!! Now if it had some Glutamine too it would be the perfect meal.
  6. Now, Dan.... you're not admitting to any "shortcomings" here, we hope... LOL We have been interested in a gang bang ourselves, and it may happen some time. But I will be right there, making sure everything goes smoothly. So far, though, only foursomes here also. One problem I have figured out, though, and I hope some of you others will comment as well.... but the use of condoms, while absolutely necessary, are really a problem. They tend to rub the woman raw. They have a different characteristic about them, as opposed to real skin. Skin stays soft, smooth, and lubricated. Latex gets dry, bunches up sometimes, and many ladies are allergic to it. This might not be a problem whatever if you engage in regular one-on-one sex, but in a gang bang situation where there will be numerous guys, some of who will get in line several times (as I would), then we have a problem. Do you just keep on applying an outside lubricant, like KY, or are there other ideas?? Ron, Husband of Stratecpl [ 03-03-2002: Message edited by: Stratecpl ]
  7. As far as my opinion goes, I am cut and that's that, been that way all my life. I really wouldn't want it put back, either! Sensitive vs. insensitive?? Well, everyone needs to make their minds up here. It's all with preferences anyway. Some religions banned circumcision, so that may account for the lack of circumcised foreigners. But too sensitive equals less intercourse time before ejaculation.... insensitive equals LONGER intercourse time before ejaculation. I don't have a problem with cumming vs. not cumming, so maybe my insensitive head is plenty sensitive enough. Personally I opt for more intercourse time!! Ron, Husband of Stratecpl
  8. Which is exactly why Ron and I don't ever do group sex!
  9. Makes no differance to me.....One of my regular boys is from Germany and is uncut...and I have been with a couple others that were uncut. As long as the guy is clean and healthy it makes no differance one way or another......one thing I did notice about the uncut guys..they seem to be easier to get off with a blowjob??? Wonder if the little extra skin has anything to do with that???
  10. Alura, These same blue men tried to send my ancestors there too... luckily, they "jumped ship" and escaped. That was a long hard time ago! They were sending them to a very bad place, but then they realized there was coal and oil there, so they began taking it back... Go figure! There's plenty room here still, if you can get them to believe you're not a tourist. Otherwise, the price is jacked up sky-high! And there ARE some swingers here, too. Getting more and more, all the time. Dan, It sure would be a good idea to get some warmth going there. I had a friend on the high plains in Saskatchewan. He lived way out in the boondocks, in a settlement of 12 small cabins. There were 2 women in the entire place, and he described them both as "sour grapes." Poor guy! That would have been even worse than where you live!! Now, if there were a few other women AND if they were lookers, too....WooHoo!! Ron, Husband of Stratecpl
  11. You too huh Alura?? LOL The blue suits left my grandfathers and grandmothers in Central Mississippi....(Choctaws)even though the majority ended up in Oklahoma. My family is still in Mississippi on the rez (I was born on the rez in Philidelphia, Ms.) But I still ended up in Cherokee country!?...hummm... Connie
  12. Hey, AN, There are people out there that are definitely compatible. Maybe it takes time and patience but they are there! We certainly understand the venting, though, and this is the place to do it. I think I've raised the roofs for several days myself, so join the club! You say y'all are moving? Maybe the new locale will have a different bunch of folks, and more fun will happen without the aforementioned BS. Wouldn't it be nice! We really were outdone with the entire scene, but then found some good compatible couples and a couple of single men that were trustworthy. Nowadays, we have fun on occaision (weather permitting, of course!) We thought seriously of moving back to Louisiana, but now we are having too much fun and will stay put!! Thanks for your input, An!! Ron, Husband of Stratecpl
  13. Dan, Why on Earth would you live in such a cold, forbidding place!! LOL My blood gets chills just reading about -27 degrees and 2 feet of snow!! But I tell you what, you'd come closer to those tube tops and perky nipples here than up there!! You sure you and Janette don't have igloos there?? LOL Let's see.... you're 2000, maybe 3000 miles from here, almost due Northeast??? Man, that's SERIOUS north. No wonder there are so few swingers!! Ron, Husband of Stratecpl
  14. don't you just love those types! The ones that call you fakes just becuase you can't do things THEIR way! grrrrr.... We have that happen a lot too...we get couples our age that have adult children and they seem to forget what it was like having small children I guess...That is why the couples we have become close friends with are several years younger than us..they have kids in the same age range as ours and UNDESTAND...LOL Connie
  15. Dan, I remember that. I recall the frustration you voiced at such things, too. It's just a conquest of sorts for these types, I guess. Once they have gotten your vote of approval, they move on to the next conquest. They have absolutely no interest in actually getting together for playing, they just want to make you feel like they do.... then POOF!!! They're gone. They will play out that same scenario, countless other times to so many other unsuspecting couples. They really could care less about putting you out, monetarily and time-wise, not to mention the spent emotions.... It's people like them who give us all the bad taste in our mouths for it all. I agree, the club scene at least puts you all face to face, where you meet more couples (SOME of which are serious!) And if you're lucky enough to meet friends at these clubs, they might even point out the headgame players to you, so you can avoid them. That "word of mouth" will eventually take care of some of their shenanigans! Is it cold up there in Canuck?? I'll bet it's so cold the politicians are keeping their hands in their own pockets!! Ron, Husband of Stratecpl
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