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topdog6

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  1. When I mentioned the kids finding out it was not a case of volunteering the information. It was when the wife in this situation was beaten and of course the kids were in the house. He beat on the kids bedroom door and continued to blab all the dirty details. Of course Mom was the slut. he was involved heavily and even was more likely to be found searching for partners than her but she was the SLUT. Regardless of where the finger was pointed it still lead to the children(whom she assumed would never be privy to THE LIFESTYLE she had chosen) now were given chapter and verse about it. So my point is you may have no intention of the children finding out but you can't control everything. Can you live with them finding out???
  2. Let me discuss why I have posted the questions I have. First off, I must admit i have been playing Devil's Advocate. I am really posting questions posed to me when I have discussed "swinging" innocently with others. Conversations that circle around to the definition of openminded etc. I find the whole swinging thing fascinating. Also, if you knew me you would know that I am one of the few people I know who is insulted by the double-standard applied to women. The answer that matches my true feelings most was where the person stated 'who's to say she was using the man to get off!'. Exactly, why shouldn't she? It is like men have cornered the market on the right to multiple partners. As I did mention, on porn sites a woman with 3 cocks is a slut. The man with three women is the "lucky " guy!! I felt that with some of your responses it was time to put your minds at ease. I have no problem with swinging. I was curious to see how you would answer. I also wonder if there were a few fence sitters who jumped ship after reading an opposing viewpoint. One point I would like to make...in regards to the kids. I mentioned it because an acquaintance of mine knew a couple in to swinging. That, however, went bad and lead to the wife taking quite a beating. All of the dirty laundry aired in front of the kids while the beating was taking place. Kids had to testify in court etc. So, while the "lifestyle" would never be voluntarily exposed to the kids,,,in this case it was.
  3. Have been reading a lot and trying to discover where I want to go with this. Several problems coming up. How do I look at my partner again after knowing she has serviced virtual strangers? If you have children how do you think they would feel knowing Mommy and Daddy get it on with other partners.? That their mother has had 3 cocks in her at the same time? I know that their is a lot of justification for this and I do say to each their own...but can you honestly say you are "In Love" with your partner and then watch a strange man do her? I guess I have realized that I can fantasize but love my partner too much to share her. She has also decided that as much as she can fool herself in to thinking that it is something else...in reality any 3rd male (especially male) will stick it in any willing hole. She is just the one opening it up to them. It is basically prostitution without money to show for it. Granted you can pick and choose more than if you were a hooker but still...some lucky guy just scored a woman who will blow him..fuck him and he never has to see her again. I think we can dress this up anyway we want but it still just means that your partner is not enough...and you are looking for guilt free cheating. I believe consenting adults can do anything they want but when they are finished they have to realize...I am a piece of ass for strangers. Like the girl at the frat house with guys lined up outside the room. A few orgasms and a cum bath later she realizes...I have no self respect. Topdog6..Devil's advocate
  4. I know women fantasize about two men and that is normal. If you want to fulfill the mfm thing with a single guy though don't fool yourself that he is there for any other reason except that you will DO him. I go crazy when I hear women say that they feel the men are there to please them. They are they because the women will spread..period! Frankly I worry about men who want to fuck everyone else's partner but never seem to have one of their own. Face it, your single male in the male-female-male combo is a lonely loser who can't believe some strange woman will let him go to town on her or that her husband will share in the first place. Unfortunately, one of the huge tests here and or in any relationship is would the person still associate with you if you weren't opening holes to him? I doubt it!
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