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  1. you made an agreement that "we clearly discussed" and " promised"... if thats the case.. wether you were drunk or not... he shouldn't have even asked.. he put you on the spot.. probably knowing full well before he entered into that agreement that he was going to bail on your deal.. I'm sorry this was a negative experience for you... but it may just be the clarity you need to decide where your future lies.
  2. Ironically we just faced this situation.. we went out of town overnight for my birthday... Some old lifestyle friends that we haven't seen in a very long time live in that area and asked to meet up for dinner. we have kids so it is a kick for us to go away and have loud sex...that was our plan ... The other couple ( with whom we never actually played with before) asked for more than dinner... We decided to sieze the opportunity.... Was fun... But their idea of fun wasn't like our idea of fun...just different styles I guess. Was a little disappointing... And we were so exhausted from traveling & partying that we just cuddled up & went to sleep when they left. We both agreed we would have had more fun if it was just us together in that room... but I guess that's coming from a couple that covets their alone time... So its official... All special occasions will be reserved for just us!
  3. I'm going the other way on this one guys... Don't you dare base your initial contact with me on a lie... It insults my intelligence. I never lie about my age on profiles and wish to be afforded the same courtesy. I'm 47, the product of excellent genes, in excellent shape and take care to present my very best appearance. I could easily lie about my age by 10 years due to my appearance and a fun loving nature. I'm proud of who I am and what I look like. I've been told people bypass my profile because I post my true age... Lol! How sad for the bypassers! I'd rather spend my time with people that respect the truth anyway.
  4. Don't be sad Syren.... I loved being a unicorn!!!!! Who dosent love a unicorn??!! Give this the positive spin it deserves. The world is now your oyster!!!
  5. I've responded in kind to a similar post, but I can't say enough about what finnally sharing our fantasies did for our relationship. It created more intimacy than we ever shared. .....leads to some pretty awesome ideas too! Hope things keep getting better and better for you guys....
  6. I'm going against what appears to be popular opinion on this one. My refusal to share my innermost fantasies was born of negativity and judgement in past relationships. Fast forward to the amazing relationship where we both had to stow our baggage and open up to each other like never before. We have always enjoyed exploring and expanding our sexual horizons, but we were really able to take that to another level when we learned to confide without fear of judgement. The trust and intimacy share between us now has improved our relationship tenfold. We discovered interests in areas we never considered before personally. We have tweaked current fantasies to include each other. The discussions have been unbelivably hot!(in the best way) It's so exciting to discover new areas of interest your partner has. I can't say enough about how amazing the journey of making our fantasies become our realities has been! There is noting like being able to give the one you love a fantasy...What an amazing gift!!! We learned it's easy to give this gift often when we share what it is we seek and the feeling of watching your partner respond to what turns them on. Knowledge is everything! My advice: SHARE AWAY!!!!
  7. If this helps in the future... we start off any new conversation with couples ...and it's written on every one of our profiles "NO EXPECTATIONS....NO DISAPPOINTMENTS" ....
  8. Given your past experience with your Ex....I'm surprised you encouraged this situation to begin with. Were you setting your current wife up to fall? were you testing her? Did she fail? I don't wish to be offensive. I simply don't understand why you would push a situation that led to a severe hurt in your past. On another note.... and I don't expect everyone to agree; but I feel that it's a partners responsibility to acknowledge the greatness of the gift of whatever sexy experience you share. I completely understand your hurt. I would take notice of the things she was doing for the other guy if your shoe were on my foot .My partner is foremost in my thoughts... If I were granted a night of "being the center of attention" A lovely breakfast would materialize for MY PARTNER...probably not the other guy unless it was rude to exclude; But i can assure you my partner would have no doubt that he was the one and I would acknowledge the gift of enjoyment he gave me. You got a lot of criticism on this post. Your feelings are not baseless ...they are your feelings. You guys have a lot of things to talk out... good luck to you both Eliza
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