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    Shy exhibitionists
  • Birthday 05/01/1963

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    Pittsburgh
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    3 years

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  1. Well this story sort of fits...It could have been an ER trip A guy I had been dating, finally talked me into having anal sex. We were both active duty military at the time, stationed a 2 hour plane ride away from each other. He is well endowed, so I had worked on stretching myself out in order to accommodate him. All that anticipation of what it would be like when we finally had anal sex must have got me uber excited because my ass clamped down on his cock like a vice grip and refused to let go. He almost passed out and I tried to ease him out but that just made me get more excited and clamp even harder. Then we realized, OMG his cock was stuck in my ass!! We both started to panic, completely freaking out at how much trouble we were going to be in and OMG the phone is way over there and what the hell are we going to do! After a few frantic minutes, we realized there was nothing we could do, one of us started to giggling at how we were like two dogs stuck together. We both laughed our asses off until he slid out of me. We both a bit sore from the episode but it could have gone much, much worse if we weren't able to laugh at the situation. I wonder how long we would have been stuck if we hadn't started to laugh!
  2. If his personality is a match to mine and he wants to try it again, I will give him another try. So many guys get performance anxiety or are used to how she does it versus how I do things. When it comes to teachable or not, there have been several that I realize are not 'teachable'. I'd rather call it workable. I can't work with the bump on the log type that is the male equivalent to the lady that just lays there. Luckily, I've never had a guy curl up in fetal position and just give up.
  3. When we go to a night club or local hot spot, the men are better looking than most husbands that swing. Husbands that swing haven't gone through the transformation that the vanilla guys out at the clubs have. The transformation I'm referring to is the divorce transformation. They've gone through hell and back, often losing a ton of weight, perhaps going to the gym, reclaiming themselves and reinventing themselves, often getting a new clothes and a new hairstyle. The guys out at the vanilla nightclubs and hot spots are not the typical cross section of guys, they are guys looking for that special someone or to just get laid, and they are working hard at it. They aren't the typical cross section of men. The corner bar or dive bar may have more of a typical cross section but the hot spots will have the men and women looking. That's my theory on why the guys look better...
  4. Now my three bedroom house seems so sexy... Our best fun has been with five or six people groups. With that many people, someone can take a break and their are enough other people to keep the action going. With two couples swapping, it is awkward to keep things going at times. My second favorite are threesome where one of us is spoiled, I'd like to say OUR second favorite but it is so hard to set up an FMF or FFM in the lifestyle. It almost seems easier to do in the vanilla world!
  5. Originally Posted by Coupleerotic22 For us there was a lot of reconnecting the first few times we played with others. I needed to make love to MrGPH to cap off the night. Also, I often just needed more after our first few encounters. On the way home, I'd ask MrGPH,"Do you have anymore left for me?" Lately though, its more often a continuation, or as we talk with each other about the our experience, we get so turned on....and ....ya know...
  6. Whew, thanks for explaining that. It would be nice to see some numbers on the higher end, so I'll throw mine out there. Mine is a guess, I'd say about 170 prior to swinging and around 200 now I guess. Yes, I'm a Samantha and I love to fuck. I think Samantha's numbers are much higher though. I was active duty military and I moved around a lot, plus the guys I met where often moving around a lot too. It was hard to find someone to have a relationship with that was going to be around long enough to get serious with. I also had a lot of opportunities living in areas where the ratio of men to women was very much in my favor. Many of my former military partners had some higher numbers too. The highest I ever heard was a former FB whose number was about 345. He was in his early 30s at the time. MrGPH says he doesn't keep track of how many, but I think his numbers are slightly higher than mine.
  7. Oh yes and I complain about AFF too! I can't complain too loudly though, I met MrGPH through it so some good has come out of there for me. When I was a single gal, I used AFF for FWB/FB hook ups. It worked good for that. Hopefully the clubs will work out for you. Especially if you can find a club that has a nonplay area where she can hang out and socialize. I'm sure that would help you get started.
  8. Regarding surfaces, I was blessed with already owning a leather sofa before I started squirting. It was one of the first surfaces I discovered that were squirt proof. I love how the water just rolls off. It doesn't seem to affect the 'finish' of the leather at all. I've heard some leather can't handle it though, I have dark colored leather and I never notice any color change or anything. One place we stayed at (condo) had one leather chair, so we played in that and we horrified to see the leather change color when wet. It did seem a tad better the next morning but it was still damp, I don't know if it left a mark or not. We didn't get slapped with any extra fees so we just don't know. I like the disposable ideas 'pads' idea. I might have to look into that for travel. I had wanted to buy the kind of pads they use for patient care when I first discovered the throw. I just found some bed pads listed online but I worry about them having enough capacity. They'd probably be fine for most of the time though.
  9. We use liberator fascinator throws (throes alternate spelling that they often listed under). One side is plush the other side is satiny and it has a vinyl layer between. They are not cheap, about $90 each, but my first one survived about three to five washings a week for three years before it developed a slow leak through (slow leak though). If we pick it up right way not too much get's through so it must be pin whole size of something. It seems to be dead in the middle, so it could be from years of folding. Our second one is a year old and get's washed about twice a week and is like brand new. It has been a great investment in our sex life. I don't let myself go as freely as I can with the throw. It has greatly enhanced my enjoyment because I don't worry about the bed, the blankets, the furniture and etc. We can rent a motel room and our bed stays dry! I've read that some folks use those picnic type blankets. They are cheaper but I think they are disposable.
  10. Well my kids and my sisters know. I don't have a relationship with my mother, I would not want her to know because she would viciously use that against me to no end. My dad is unable to communicate, if he was able to communicate I wouldn't purposely tell him. If I was outed we'd be able to talk about it (tactfully and carefully). I had a very close relationship with my father, we could talk about nearly anything. Same with my kids, except they told me more than I would ever dream of telling my dad. In a span of about six months each of my kids told me they were on swinging. At the time one child was living near me, and suspected that I was swinging too, so I confessed (first person I told). Kids talk, and a few months later the other one had to confess to me too about swinging and wanted advice. Now, both my kids live far enough away that we don't have to worry about crossing paths with them or their playmates. I've been told that they have stopped, but that its a life's too busy or timing isn't right for them to swing type of thing. I'm with it that they swing, it tells me that they can have grown up discussions about sex and have great communication with their spouse. My sisters can't quite handle discussing the topic about my swinging at all. I didn't purposely tell them but they are nosey and dug it out. I think they got more than they bargained for. They believed that I needed to be a 'good girl' and change my ways to find love. They didn't get it, at all and said hurtful things to me about it. Recently though, they seem more accepting of it and they seem to have done their homework and talked to others about it. MrGPH's family, doesn't know at all. A couple of his friends know but they don't handle the concept well. The ones that know, he works with but we have dirt on them that is worse than swinging. One time when drinking though, my friends kept trying to get me to go on a camping trip and were insistent that we can't be doing anything more fun than...so finally I told them about our plans to go to the swing club and invited them to join us. Both of them about fell over in shock, then laughed and smiled. They quit bugging me about the camping trip. They seem to have handled the concept that we swing better than his friends and my sisters have.
  11. As a single girl, oh absofrickinglutely loved a good one night stand. Most guys seemed to like having one night stands too but could not date a woman who could. When the question about one night stands being honest about liking to have them became a relationship killer. MrGPH is one of the few men in my life that hasn't given me grief about it. Perhaps because he was already a swinger when he met me. I never thought of one night stands as stranger sex though. I had to think it through, get a feel for the person before I feel comfortable being alone and naked with them. Sometimes I'd see a guy and pursue just for the sex with him. He'd be much younger or just in town visiting and I'd let them persuade me into it. I had some one night stands that completely surprised me. I'd be at a club, angry at some guy who stood me up or I had just broken up with. I'd just wanting to drink and be by myself, some men would find that the challenge to make me stop hating men. I'm a lucky girl, I can go into a bar, a few hours after kicking one to the curb and have another one wanting to help me forget about that dirtbag. Some women would see it as men preying on them at their point of weakness, not me, I always thought of it as a pleasant turn of events. Now as part of a couple that swings, we have played with couples we talked with briefly. It surprises me the ease that MrGPH can play but then again he had some experience before he met me. So as a couple we can have sex with strangers (protection is a must). I don't need quite as much lead time leading up to play as I did with one night stands because I have MrGPH with me. I know I can count on him if something starts to go awry. Having sex with people we get to know over time is also very workable for us too. Its different for me, and I couldn't put my finger on why until now. I like the excitement of someone completely new to me when it comes to sex.
  12. If you two could go to a swing club together that would be great I think. It sounds like firefly and you should trade some notes. I think many of the swinger sites that have mostly couples aren't going to be your best bet. When I read what you were looking for I immediately thought of AFF. You will still have to compete with a lot of other men, but there are more straight women just looking for FWB there vs mostly bi females looking for other females on other sites. AFF likes to think they are a swinger site, but I think the majority of folks on there are looking for sex hook ups (NSA/FB/FWB) and not swingers, yet. It might be different in your area, so perhaps looking around at the various sites for the best numbers will need to be part of your strategy too.
  13. Keep'emSeparated: A married couple that plays like two singles. They will only do separate rooms with another couple. If you happen to accidentally get both halves of the couple in the play area, one half will need to leave the play area. When out at the club they rarely talk to each other, and when they do, they are usually fighting about something. AfraidofCooties: You've played with them before and establish a good relationship but if you play with a couple or person they don't like, they drop you like a rock like you're now contaminated with cooties. JackSpratandWife or JillSpratandHusband: Similar to the mismatched couples but just the weight mismatch version. You can't help but hear the nursery rhyme in your head when you see them together (wife or hubby is 3 to 4 times the size of spouse).
  14. Well my problem was with existing albums. I think I found something to make it only our friends. I wish they would send us info on the changes they made or are going to make a head of time. I'll have to ask a friend if it worked and a nonfriend if it is restricted now. Such a pain in the butt!
  15. AFF went through a change on how they set their galleries so that everyone with a gold membership can see ALL your pictures and people with silver membership can see first five. Prior to this, your pictures in your album remained private and were not subject to AFF's we will use and abuse your picture policy if we decide to. Now that they have changed the pictures to all be on the picture tab does it mean that the private property rules are gone too? You used to be able to upload and attach pictures via email and that option is still there but it never works anymore. When I was a free member from 2002 through 2006, that feature worked fine. So now we are forced to sent three emails, exchange a private email address then we can send face pics or post them where nearly everyone can see them. How do you deal with your pics on AFF now?
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