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  1. Nujax, I'm in definite agreement with those who are concerned about the safety of their wives, so 'nuff said there. Although your wife may lust after her co-worker a little, you don't know him well enough to know if he's just some guy who's OK with screwing your wife or if he's some guy who might be potentially interested in having her as his girl. Your wife may know the score on this better, since she works with him. I'd almost be inclined to not bring it up for a little while just to see how interested she is. Based on several of her comments, I'm betting she's just as anxious to bring it up again as you are. Gotta love anticipation!! facelick Anyhow, if you and your wife discuss it further (and I'm betting it isn't far off), I'd mention your safety concern, and I think she'll think even more of you for it. I'd also ask her what she thinks the co-worker would think if things started to warm up a little and before they got too far along, she made it a point to let him know that you were OK with her exploring a little but that you ultimately wanted to be on site or an involved playmate. I'd think the MFM sounds delicious and I would think your wife would think so too after she feels comfortable having you around. But you never know what the co-worker will think. If he thinks you're kinky, that's cool as long as he likes it. But it is possible the idea of you being around would be a turnoff to him. If that's the case, I don't think he's ultimately where you or your wife want to be. Although I can understand her initial reluctance to have you watch (after all, it is a kind of strange concept), I would think based on her statement about possibly contacting a couple, that she wants it to be a team sport, and to that I say, good for her. You've got a good woman! I think someone else mentioned bringing your wife on board to let her read a few stories. There's a wealth of info and great advice on this place, and if nothing else, some of the situations couldn't help but keep the sexual flame stoked. Good luck, and be sure to let us know how the adventure pans out!
  2. I think LikeMinds just about says it all in her reply, but her closing comment struck me the most. If you've got a good marriage, this guy shouldn't be able to emotionally steal your wife. I totally agree that she's still on a high from the newness and another guy making her feel sexy, but she has to care about your concerns too. I didn't think your post was that long at all. You didn't mention what your wife's reaction was when you mentioned feeling a touch insecure. Was she vague, reassuring, or . . ? And I see LikeMinds had another reply pop in before I finished this one which addressed my next question. What was the guy's reaction when you told him you were having bad feelings? If he didn't give you some reassurance that he was happy just being the so called "stunt cock" and had no designs on your wife, perhaps you'd better say buh bye to this guy. But before doing that, talk to your wife and tell her why you think you need to say so long . . just to see what her reaction is too. I can understand her wanting to fuck the guy again, and if you can't, you should have never considered having a threesome. But you aren't unreasonable at all in wanting the emotional assurance from her that you're "still #1." I hope you can all have a happy ending. Good luck
  3. I too, like most members of the board, are saddened that it had to end that way. For some reason, I was afraid the Waterboy was perhaps in a serious relationship. However, when a guy has done something cool, the term "he was a complete stud" comes to mind. You are the woman equivalent of that, because you ROCKED in how you handled today! I agree with everything LikeMinds321 said, let's just hope she's right about you having planted a seed and Waterboy's wife getting all hot about the swing idea, which would surprise him pleasantly too, I'm betting. And for what it's worth, it sounds like he wanted you BAD, he was just a decent guy who wasn't a cheater. My wish for you is that somehow you'll maintain contact and invite him and his wife on a boat trip, that Mr. Naughty and you will both enjoy her as well, and that Mr. Waterboy and Mr. Naughty will take turns giving both of you women those fine MFM trips you've cum to enjoy so much!! Thanks so much for sharing this saga with us.
  4. LikeMinds, I don't think you should write her off just yet . . she could be on vacation, busy, or who knows what. But . . I'm also wondering if she was hoping that your conversation would delve a bit more deeply into sexual talk and since it didn't, maybe she might think you're a touch vanilla? Yikes! I'm wondering if you'll need to test the waters a bit more quickly next time you get together. I don't think another e-mail mentioning how you felt under the weather and weren't totally yourself would hurt a thing, and you might even make it a point to have a little evil laugh with her and bring up your sexy subject discussion when you initially met her. If you speak as well as you write, I see no problems for you whatsoever with her. On a related note, have you shared with your hubby the news about all the good looking guys at the coffee shop checking you out? Maybe you've found yourself a treasure trove here for lots of experiences! Either way, I'm sure the entire board speaks for me when I say we NEED to hear all the juicy details! Now if we can just get Mrs. Naughty to be a bit more brazen and direct with the Waterboy, we'll have two hot novels going at once! My karma is telling me you're in for something good here, Likeminds. Just can't tell you if it's with Vi or one (or more) of the guys in the coffeeshop.
  5. I guess I'd best be getting my wife one or more of those books! May your evening turn out as super as your plans, and may you and your wife have even greater times when she starts chewing up those young studs! I'm envious
  6. Mrs. Adventure, I'd try to put this behind me as quickly as possible. Without a doubt, you're all to blame, them for not having any more foresight than to think that anything goes, including the intimate things you and hubby reserve for each other, and you, for not saying something. However, see what happens with you and hubby. He says "you're the one", so let him prove it. But at the same time, verify things. See how the lovemaking between the two of you goes, but be sure to check the ol' computer every so often and keep tabs on the phone. You mentioned he wanted to work tonite rather than come home. I can tell you're suspicious, so why not stop by and see that all looks well. If it does, how about a little hot sex right there on his desk? I hope you can revitalize all between you. If you've been swinging for 5 years, I would hope so. A lot of trust had to have been there to be OK with swinging for that long. And, don't be so hard on yourself, it may be inflaming the situation as well.
  7. I'm with Ranch Couple's exact description. I wouldn't want to do it often, but if the wife were blown away by some guy and his wife didn't do much for me, as long as the little head could rise to the occasion, I'd let Mama have her way. As long as our little buddies in our pants will play, I think it's a lot easier for guys to do this than the girls. But, I'd never ask my wife to take one for the team if I sensed she had no interest, and I'd still expect her to appreciate me doing her the favor. But of course, I'd damn sure have to be watching!
  8. Don't worry, Naughties! None of us want this thread to go away . . at least not until there is a great cumclusion . . err that's conclusion, to the story! So when is the repair day scheduled? Inquiring minds want to know!
  9. I totally agree with the Naughtys response. Hopefully the other hubby and yours get along well enough anyway that they can go out golfing or drinking together. Hmm, maybe no golf in Saskatchewan for awhile longer though, huh? I hope it all works out. Next time I'm sure hubby will think with the big head before he lets the little head rule. Damn, that seems to happen lots with us guys!
  10. Babe, Don't be too hard on your self esteem. It sounds to me like you just ran into some extremely rude people, and the other wife was selfish. I also have a feeling that perhaps the other wife thought she might have wanted to try a MFM and perhaps her hubby thought he'd be OK with it initially, then changed his mind. I also kind of get the opinion the other hubby may have had small balls about his wishes too, or maybe he was just shy like you say. Either way, the whole thing seems to me like it was ONLY about her satisfaction, so I figure you're better off without them anyway. Again, be easy on your self esteem. I wish I could preach this to all BBW women. I'm sure Bear wouldn't have you any other way, right?
  11. You earned it, Mr. Alura! That was such a good suggestion that my mind is almost fantasizing in third person for what a lucky devil that other husband could be. Can't you almost put yourself in his shoes, having these two women plotting a surprise like that on you?!!! facelick
  12. Simba, Only a few things come to mind after reading what everyone else said. This is part of what you said. I don't condone affairs, but sometimes no good can come of a confession, as Mr. Alura said, and depending on the circumstances, occasionally you just take it to the grave with you. If anyone has any confessing, it had better come from the other wife to her husband first, and she probably feels it's better to take it to the grave also. Would be very dangerous to your friendship if either you or your hubby had a bout of remorse and had to cleanse your soul to him. And the other thing that could be VERY interesting comes from the old horndog Mr. Alura again, and you may run this one by your hubby and the other wife too: I think that's an OUTSTANDING idea, Mr. Alura!!! And, somehow I doubt that guys mind "surprises" like that as much as women do! facelick
  13. Perplexing questions of the day you all throw out there, and since I'm not seasoned or a female, some of you may have to correct me if my reply would be in bad form or bad manners if I were a straight female and the other female was straight also. It seems to me that if I were a woman watching two men give pleasure to another one, I'd either enjoy the voyeurism of it thinking to myself "Oh boy, I'm next" or I'd find a way to partially include myself, yet not distract the pleasure being given the other woman. For instance, assuming the other woman is sucking one guy and fucking the other, I'd be inclined to be brushing my hands over one or both of the other guys from time to time, planting kisses on them (assuming their mouths weren't occupied with the other woman's muff), and generally walking around to be a part of the action, yet again, not interfering with the other woman's pleasure. When it was my turn, I wouldn't be offended if she did the same. Or would I be considered a selfish little hussy who just couldn't wait her turn? What would your reaction be, you lucky women who've had the MFM routine done while perhaps another woman was present? I love this board, I learn something new every day!
  14. What, are you a gigolo or something? I can't imagine this being THAT healthy of an outlet if you're getting it as much as you claim though. Your article did humor me though. You definitely don't lack confidence, and I don't know you well enough to call you arrogant. But hey, if it works, who's knockin' it?
  15. I can't really add a helluva lot to that comment! I personally would hope that if my wife wants to do MFM, she'd be lucky enough to find a guy with a big 'un who knew how to use it. I WANT her to be pleasured, enjoying the eye candy and new sensation. And although I can imagine your wife wanting a big one, look for a quality guy and hope that he also the big one she wants!
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