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Sweet.Pea

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About Sweet.Pea

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  • Birthday 08/22/1960

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  • Relationship Status
    Divorced Female
  • Location
    Cranberry Township, PA
  • Occupation
    trade show hostess
  1. After my somewhat acrimonious divorce, I had a sling-shot reaction and went out of my way to find cheating males on SLS, hook up with them hoping that I could hurt them if they get caught. That's a long story that I will not relate right now except to say that I got over it and now enjoy a normal relationship with a good man. Anyway, I'm here to say that cheaters do have success at websites. My ex trolled websites and fooled around with several women, some who knew that he was cheating, some who did not.
  2. Big is good. But what do you have that can engage a woman's brain?
  3. I am now divorced from a cheating husband who used "swinging" as an excuse for his behavior. Just so you all know, at least one swing website is willing to surrender personal information, such as credit card information used to purchase a membership, to a legal entity. Ultimately none of these play partners were called for a deposition. But they could have been.
  4. If I had to answer the question a single word, ReadynSexy, it would be infidelity. But my adventure started differently. My ex-husband was unfaithful. But he called what he was doing swing. After I was rid of him, I became curious. I suspected swing was not what he had told me. I was correct. My path to my current situation started at this website. I went on to attend swinger clubs. I recently received an invitation to a private party and I have a man who will be there with me. I am now ready to call myself a swinger.
  5. I use scent or Eau de toilette strategically. I have unashamedly gone out on the town to attract men and I sometimes find a single man; sometimes a married man. If married, I secretly hope that the man's spouse will detect a scent that is not her own and wonder what he has been doing when he has told her he would be working late. I am considering entering into the swing scene. I will not be wearing Eau de Toilette or Eau de Parfum. I will have no intention of causing a stir with anybody's spouse if that is what I do.
  6. Swing is hysterical only in the view of those who have an interest in selling organized religion. Jesus had a message but this message is a little difficult to read though the layers that religion has laid over it. If Jesus is speaking to you in any way, what is he saying to you?
  7. Somebody put this book into my hands because she believed it would help with the healing I need from coming out of an abusive relationship. My former husband, I now realize, did treat me as property. The notion that men posessing women is not the natural state comes out very strongly in this book. I am finding courage in this idea as I was believing at one time that I would never again let anybody "posess" me sexually. I now see that posession does not have to be part of a relationship. I recommend this reading.
  8. My ex would become frustrated with me because he wrongly interpreted my quietness as an unspoken criticism of his technique. According to this pole, I am in the minority. But I am comforted to know that there are others.
  9. I was not signed up here when you first described your situation but I recognize almost everything you wrote into today's message. I too divorced a man who was after me for years to do the swing thing. I'm not the asexual creature he ultimately accused me of being. I've learned through counseling that his view of sex is distorted. It is an encouragement to me to read that you got through it. I'm still working though my situation. I thank you for telling this story.
  10. Sweet Pea is a name of endearment my Father spoke to me. Nobody else ever used it. My Mother is probably the only other who knows this name. Now you know.
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