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About cpleply

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    Contributor
  • Birthday 04/10/1967

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Poway, Ca
  • Swinging Experience
    We lost and then found our swinger virginity...........sad

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    cupleplay
  • Kasidie Username
    cupleplay
  1. I'd like to hear more specifics about the group you went to. What happened that made you feel the organizers were not open to new people and that there were cliques? The meets we are talking about are at local bars / restaurants.........not a take over, the organizers usually let the bar know a group is coming. We can spot the couples coming in that are there because of the M&G, they then break off into their own groups. Its tough to break into a group already formed, like high school. I didnt say they were not interested in meeting new people, I am saying they need to be aware that new people are there and they organized the event. The last one we went to, we never saw the host and hostess......they were probably sitting at a table with friends. Again, we dont put all the blame on the host, we know we should do a better job of meeting people. We just think that if you want the title of "event host" on your profile, you should actually earn it.
  2. Wondering what others think about the role of a host at a meet and greet. It seems many of them are organized so people that already know each other can all get together again. It really starts to feel like high school all over again with the cliques. We are not newbies and we know it is on us to put ourselves out there but not everybody feels comfortable walking into a new social setting like that. In our opinion, if you have organized the event, you should know who the new people are beforehand and seek them out.
  3. Is cumming "on" a woman (with her asking of course) more personal than cumming "inside" her?
  4. We still prefer , at least starting, in the same room. If we are comfortable with the other couple and one of us would like to leave the room, we always ask "are you OK out here"? When one of us asks that, we know the other wants to leave the room. It does not interrupt play and lets the other know what is going on.
  5. If you have seen some of my other posts, I like to throw questions out there to see responses. This does not mean we have any issues, it means I like forums and discussing things. Have you ever been jealous while in the lifestyle? Why? Is there such a thing as good jealousy in the lifestyle? Perhaps it made your relationship stronger and opened communication more?
  6. She has reassured you a million times (I know you are exaggerating) more than once seems like the topic has been brought up one too many times. If something is happening that makes you uncomfortable, it needs to stop. You are not being a selfish jerk because you dont like something that is happening. A person that allows it to continue when it bothers someone else is. She should stop giving out her number, only yours.
  7. I (Mr Cuple) have the same problem. I am not assertive and have not had self confidence with women my entire life. Mrs Cuple and I have joked about it and it is part of our profile, she really does call me a box of rocks when it comes to women. Joking about it actually helps, we were talking about it with the last couple we met and the other woman leaned over and said "I am a sure thing" I was just fine from that point on....how bout that. There is nothing wrong with honesty, dont let male pride stand in the way of fun. In my opinion......you are in this as a couple. If she sees things are not starting well for you, she should make a move on you. If the other woman has any interest in you, she will jump in and take over at some point.
  8. We are both smokers and rude smokers piss US off. We get as far away from people as we can if we really need one. We are in the process of trying to cut back on the verge of quitting. We are able to go most of the night around non-smokers with out lighting up. We both carry breath spray and cologne/perfume just in case. As the male half of this couple, I wish just as many people (women) cared as much about other odors that might be found lol
  9. Mr Cuple only wears his ring when we go out as a couple, whether it is a swing or vanilla event. She likes him to wear it so he obliges. Since he finds rings uncomfortable, it fits looser than if he were to wear it everyday. At the last party we went to, he put it in his pocket and it landed up falling out on the floor when the pants flew off lol. Fortunately, he cares enough about it to check for it and we managed to find it pretty quick. We use one of her purses as a "goody" bag when we go out, condoms etc. It is also where we will leave sunglasses, cell phones and keys so we dont leave anything behind. That is where the ring will go from now on if he decides to take it off.
  10. Thanks for posting for profile review! I apologize in advance for bluntness. I hope these things help. I just look at the profile and give my reactions as if I were checking you out. That was incredibly blunt, thank you. We wanted people to read our profile as if they were checking us out. We have made some changes and we will see what happens.
  11. We would love some opinions on our profiles. We know we need to have better pictures, she went through breast cancer last year and appearances change quickly. We try to explain that in our profiles and the pictures are all less than 3 years old. Just when we were starting to get our feet wet in the lifestyle, life struck. Finding people has been difficult, we know smoking is huge turn off for many, we also know there are swingers out there for us. We are on SLS as cupleplay We are on Kasidie as coupleplay92064
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