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About WabashWilde

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  • Birthday 05/08/1966

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Indiana
  • Swinging Experience
    5 months

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  1. Married 29 years this year, together 31 years, since I was fourteen and he was seventeen. He literally robbed the cradle, or at least he THOUGHT he did. I told my friend I was going to marry him before we even went on our first date.
  2. At midnight in a snow bank during a raging snowstorm, while wearing nothing but a deliciously soft faux fur coat, silk stockings, and boots On the side of a dirt two-track on the still-warm hood of my FAST little red sports car, with a cool summer rain falling on my bare breasts. In said fast little sports car while hubby was driving down a deserted road in the wee hours of the morning with me astride. Wouldn't do that again. It was dangerous and stupid and we were young then, and obviously impulsive and reckless. But orgasm in the drivers seat at 60 mph WAS a wild experience! The summer we first got together, we went swimming, which led to others things. We were having a wonderful time in the middle of a river, when a bunch of canoes suddenly came floating around the bend. We had both forgotten there was a canoe marathon that weekend. Luckily it was some good natured guys in the lead who just gave a hoot and a thumbs up as they passed by, while I was floundering about tying up my top and looking for my misplaced bikini bottoms. During a family camping trip on a nice smooth driftwood log by the shore of Lake Superior, after we had gone without sex for four days.My mother-in-law rudely interrupted our privacy in our tent, so we took off for a "walk" on the beach.It was an unseasonably warm night, and the combination of unbridled lust, the crashing waves and the smell of the lake was just intoxicating! In the back of a van at a motocross track, while parked next to a motor home full of young men who, judging by the looks we got the next day, evidently weren't sleeping when we thought they were. On the shore of lake Huron in the light of a full moon, after going out to listen to my favorite local band. Unfortunately, the path to the beach was covered in poison oak, but it was worth it, lol. In the middle of a national forest,after dancing around the campfire in nothing but my hiking boots under a canopy of twinkling stars while the coyotes howled all around us.
  3. This is the female half of the couple. The male half brought up the topic of swinging very early on in our relationship, but I wasn't ready and he suggested the absolute WRONG person for piquing my interest (someone he was attracted to, but who I had a very bad long term personal relationship with, due that person's integrity issues). Later, we had some same-room sex experiences with some other couples, but there was no actual swapping involved.We have been asked outright on four separate occasions to swing with others, and have had another couple hint around the bush about it, but declined each time.It has remained a favorite fantasy topic for years, though. Recently, I developed the desire to move from fantasy to reality. At first he was for it, then the common fears arose and he told me he wouldn't even consider it and he wanted me to stay off of this site, which I did. Then he had a change of heart, so now we are reading and talking about it a lot, but haven't acted on it as of yet.
  4. Hi All, We didn't make it to the club. Hubby wasn't as ready as he thought to jump in. He actually decided for awhile he didn't want anything to do with swinging and asked me not to come to the board, so I didn't. But then he started having second thoughts. I think Newpants has described quite eloquently the battle that has been going on in his head for the past few weeks, and somewhat in my head. Beautifully said Newpants, and thanks for the advice. Thanks to all of the rest of you also! We are now back on the board reading a lot and talking a lot, but going at a slower pace, which is totally fine for me.
  5. Thanks everyone. It's encouraging to see this is totally normal to feel this way. We have been talking nonstop all week. This is our last weekend off at the same time for a long time, so we are going to try a club this weekend.Hubby is right-if I analyze this to death I will never getting around to the actual fun:) Gotta turn off that book nerd sometimes.
  6. I realize there is no hard and fast rule and that each couple/person is in a different situation unique to them, but I am interested in hearing experiences about how generally long it has taken.Is it an evolving thing? A cyclical thing? A little of both? Is it common, especially in the beginning, to be all for it one day, then wondering what the heck you think you're doing the next?For me right now this seems almost surreal. It's something I really would love to do, but a part of me really is questioning the ramifications of moving forward. I guess that's a good thing to do-to be somewhat sure and not just dive right in with all of the wrong expectations and motives. Yet I also know that one can be so cautiously examining things that one never moves beyond the safety of a spartan, vanilla life. My husband seems to be all for the lifestyle. He has a few reservations, but seems to be ready to forge ahead now.But I know he often forges ahead without thinking, then regrets and reverses his decision later.I don't want this to be the case with the lifestyle.On the other hand, I am often overly cautious, then unhappy with my decisions. My husband has noted this in me and pointed it out to me. One thing I definitely know, though, is that I don't want to end up as a Thoreau quote-"Most men lead lives of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them."
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