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About monkeycouple

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  • Birthday 04/10/1965

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Morganton, NC
  • Interests
    Computers, Karaoke, Writing, Sex Therapy, Music
  • Occupation
    Author & Lifestyle Club Owner
  • Swinging Experience
    8 years

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    monkeycouple
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Monkey Couples

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  1. I have literally researched this till I am blue in the face by actually joining AND bookmarking over 1,500+ adult & Swingers' profile sites; and even published that list, called THE BIG LIST, at our Yahoo forum. To date, only Plenty of Fish and eHarmony host a adequate and working matchup questionnaire engine. To be honest, I don't think this will work initially due the fact that there at over 100+ swingers profile sites to compete with and the database of new subscribers is slowing down due to a tighter economy and those electronics social media devices such as cell phones and tablets with people spending more time on Facebook, often more often than on a swingers site. Unless you spend an amass of finances on advertising your business venture, new swinger profile site launches and growth is slow by just word of mouth. The selection of adult profile sites is so sparse and dispersed across the Cyberspace Galaxy, that each profile is just a grain of sand and you literally need thousands and thousands of couples and singles to join to help create that needed atmosphere for "stickability" and to obtain and keep achieving that word-of-mouth success.
  2. There is really something to the 7 year itch. If develop our mindsets into that which we were created to do, we actually have 4 levels of salvation at around a period of 7 years each totalling 28 years. Remember the verse, "become a new creature?" Well the levels of personality that we grow through, in order, are: Lamb, Dove, Lion and Eagle. If you know the first three, you know the Father = Eagle. So your theory of what you call "the seven year itch" is true. We learn Compersion at the Dove stage, and Sacrifice at the first stage and listen to the voice of one teacher. At stage 3, we learn to create new cubs/employees and make product and services as the Lion is a master of his trade, "The King." And finally, the Eagle is see all, and knows all that is going on around the whole community. Of course the previous applies to Salvation, but in the world of Swingerdom, and that is, has the same parallels! Enjoy the above wisdom of the New Doctrine that "causes revival!"
  3. Great insight into what is the domain of the term, "Compersion!" With being open to "Polyamory", and all the while going through life's experiences within this Lifestyle of "Swinging," is the beginnings of the mindset of the fine balance and mindset of finding the difference between recreational sex and friendships. Swinging is primarily about the recreation of sex, and "Polyamory" is primarily about the friendships. Mixing the two together is a term coined by Ken Haslem of the Kinsley Sexual Institute, is his word that you write about and that word is, "Swolly" (which is the mixture of both Swinging and Polyamory combined). Some swingers become polyamory, that is, stay withing their group or lover only until they feel the need to experiment/play again in discovering what they truly want out of a partner. In reality, most relationships last 4 to 7 years in deep emotional bonding until it tapers off, so do keep your mind open to future lovers. Once compersion sets in, and as you stated, "If he finds something better or is more happier, then why wouldn't I want him to go for that if I still loved him?" then why live in jealousy? Simply move on and trust in what makes everyone happy equally! Ken Haslem wrote a fantastic and famous paper called, "The 12 Pillars of Polyamory" and is the definiative defining article that describes exactly what you write about with the underlying theme of "equality for all!" His article is in pdf form and is free online if you google it and download it. MonkeyCouple
  4. Hello and greetings from a 35 years experienced computer guru and 8 years as a swinger and 4 years as a swingers club owner. Also a Lifestyle DJ and writer. Anyways, can help with your computer issues. Dont trash your old Dell, there a a few tricks to keep her current and speedy.
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