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dlflorida last won the day on September 29 2009

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About dlflorida

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  • Birthday 07/05/1974

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  1. My wife recently went 3500 miles to be with her favorite lover who had moved away. There was a vanilla event she participated in at his location unrelated to the LS. It was my idea for her to go. I emailed the guy and asked if he had any interest in her visiting. He of course was all for it so I got her the plane ticket. She left early on a Thursday and due to some airline issues, she didn't get in until the next day. She stayed with him for 4 nights and had a lot of fun. "Love" is not an issue so I had no problem with her going and having fun. He paid for everything during her visit (meals, camping and whatever else) which was a pleasant surprise. Of course when she got back it was an intense "Welcome home" session...lol I agree with most posters that the OP's friends are headed for major issues
  2. The wife is the decision maker in our relationship. Profiles with just a cock pic is a major turn off for her. She goes by face pics as her guide whether to proceed or not. Just her preference.
  3. That brings up a great point. We were at a club talking to a couple and the woman stated she had three different types of orgasms. Vaginal, clitorically (is that a word?) and anally. We would appreciate input As it were
  4. Our first experience with a SM went great. He completely satisfied my wife. The next day, we went to our usual pub for drinks. My wife was feeling sexy and was wearing a jean skirt sans undies. We had our eight year old with us at the time. She went to the bathroom at the pub and much to her chagrin, she found a used condom coming out. Our worse case scenario would have been her walking to the bathroom and that damn gravity taking hold. Our eight year old exclaims "Mommy! You dropped something!! I'll get it..." Not good
  5. Really enjoyed reading this thread. My wife and I are new to the LS and I would like to progress to her playing alone. Your perspective has been a lot of help Thanks
  6. The urban term for a woman wielding a strap on dildo for sex on a man is "pegging". Fascinating topic on many levels.. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pegging_%28sexual_practice%29
  7. We just played for the first time Friday night and it was with a couple who had only been with one other couple. We (my wife) had been with a SM with me watching but this was our first full swap. It was very fun but strange for me as it has been 18 years since I kissed / fondled / went down on etc. another woman. I know what my wife enjoys and am able to please her with ease but with a new woman there is a learning curve.
  8. Met my wife during a prison break...she gave my comfort and succor. The law was after me in a big manhunt. I sprinkled pepper on the ground to confound the dogs on my trail. I ate 50 hard boiled eggs on a bet. I went to pee in the bushes to get started. I was recaptured and nursed back to health by my wife to be...Nurse Ratched. So hot yet compassionate. My Indian friend picked up a 2000 lb. fixture and hurled it through the window to create an opening. OK...I am mixing genres and movies... Guilty The truth is mundane..met my lovely at the bank Her smile melted my heart
  9. We were at an OP club last Sat. night. We had been talking to a couple for a couple of visits. The man was obviously attracted to my wife and she to him (but then who isn't!) but I didn't feel a connection to his partner as she was a smoker - deal breaker. He came up from behind my wife and grabbed her around the waist. He asked her if she was "ready to go back" to the private rooms. While she felt complimented on his advance, she knew how I felt about his partner so she politely declined. She doesn't like to hurt peoples' feelings but it was what it was. It was an awkward situation to say the least.
  10. Bbarnsworth is spot on, as usual. We had our first experience three days ago and I was conflicted afterwards for a period of eight hours but I got some rest and perspective and realized my "green monster" was a figment of my imagination, I relaxed. Barnsworth has been "mentoring" us and has been a huge help. HUGE help. Use the site as a resource. Have your GF read posts / threads. Many situations will be covered, especially in the new section. Our journey has just started and we are excited. Patience is a virtue! Good luck
  11. Just in the past few weeks...my wife was out with friends; a couple of the girls suggested going to a club for swingers. Most said no but when my wife retold the story, I asked her what she thought. I saw thw wheels start to turn but did not pursue it. She retold the story to her sister and found out that her sister and boyfriend (now husband) had been to clubs and liked them. My wife was shocked yet intrigued. The idea of seeing her fuck another guy is driving me crazy; I can't wait but she has to work up to it in her mind. No pressure from me.
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