I too have a problem with the size that I am but you only have what you're blessed with. My wife says that as long as I satisfy her thats all that matters. She also says that if I were any larger it would hurt , something I never want to do to her. I have always said to other women that what I lack on manhood I make up on tongue size and thus far I haven't had any complaint's . I guess it's time that I practice what I preach.