Looking4uwithus

Hi everyone, Mr Looking writing this post here. (It's been really nice reading posts and the couples state who is talking right away) We have been dabbling about swinging on and off for the last 25 yrs. The good thing is we have been married for 20 yrs so there was talk of it before marriage so we both knew each others likes and dislikes before taking the marriage vows. We have been AFF members on and off for the last 4 yrs but never found anything we could agree on and we have also been to temptations cancun Feb 09. We found this one swinger couple who we both kinda liked when we were there too. His name was Dana and his wife Tracey (I think) she wore the sexiest two piece bright neon colored bikinis. (I honestly don't remember her name cause Mrs looking usually does that and shes not here to ask right now.) They also became temptation club members (and told us they frequented desire a lot too) while we were there but nothing ever did happen between us?? Maybe it's us? Maybe it's me? Maybe no one finds us or me attractive Anyway, we are at the place now in our life where we are going to some nice adult resorts for our winter getaways and IF something happens........... it happens. So hopefully we will see you all in Hedo or Desire soon.

Wow, this is a incredible story. I feel for the OP but it makes me wonder....... is this swinging thing such a good idea?

Exactly my point too. There's something fishy going on here or the whole story has not been told. The OP states they couldnt use a swinger site so they....... or should I say...... SHE picks "a guy friend who has wanted to screw her for ages." Then the GF apparantly got TIRED after an hour........ an hour of what? Full on intercourse? Just oral? The OP doesnt say so off they go to bed and only a few hrs later shes "riding HER MATE" without his knowledge???? Poor boyfriend in bed is getting screwed in more than one way.

Here's another vote for "NO WAY" does the thought of Mr looking4 with another guy even SLIGHTLY turn on Mrs Looking4. Any m/m action is just wrong in Mrs opinion.

yes and yes and by the way... yes. I, Mr looking4 would love to watch my wife with another woman and a strap-on. As a matter of a fact we bought a feeldoe and can't wait to use it. Here's a description of it. No links cause I don't want to get accused of selling stuff. LOL. The Feeldoe Double dildo combines the excitement of strap-on sex and the pleasures of mutual penetration without the hassles of a harness. Offering more control and now it VIBRATES! Harnessless Silicone Strap-On. This 100% silicone double penetration toy is a patented wonder.

For both of us its all about whats appealing. It is the thought of two muscle men with hairy bodies (chests, legs, etc) being intimate with each other in any way sounds so eeewwwww. But two long haired soft silky tanned curvy hairless women licking and kissing each other sounds like such a beautiful sight.

Wow, see if that happened to me....... I would have considered that cheating.