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athenagirl last won the day on November 22 2008

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  • Birthday 12/09/1953

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  1. My Type INTP Introverted 11 Intuitive 50 Thinking 62 Perceiving 22 It said I am: * slightly expressed introvert * moderately expressed intuitive personality * distinctively expressed thinking personality * slightly expressed perceiving personality But what does it all mean? head bang From what I recall about the Myer's Briggs' test: here's what it means: I -- Introverted (This means the ways in which you are energized. For example, if you are truly introverted, you enjoy your times alone. It doesn't mean that you don't enjoy socializing or talking with people, it means that being in large groups of people or spending a lot of time talking can be fairly draining, and that you need time alone to recharge your batteries. If you're Extroverted, then you are engergized by being with people.) I -- Intuitive (this means you think of things in more abstract ways, rather than concrete examples). T-- Thinking. If you're a thinker type, you tend to use logic and reason rather than rely on feelings. (The "Feeler" type of course, allows their feelings to sway them. P -- Perceiver. (If you're a perceiver type, you don't enjoy living by a strict schedule. You are more spontaneous. The opposite type, the Judger, tends to be very organized and likes to plan everything.)
  2. Thanks... I was curious about that... so do your non-lifestyle girlfriends ever consider joining the lifestyle?
  3. I'm wondering if the play partner is someone the male half of this couple is already seeing (or wants to have an affair with): either way, what he said to "unregistered" is unforgiveable. She needs to dump him!
  4. Magnum -- you mention you've been playing with friends/couple for several years now... do you ever have relationships with single women? Or fall in love? Or does being in the lifestyle preclude that? And if so, is that partly why you're in it? Athenagirl
  5. How does an organization proclaim it's "opposed to swinging?" I mean, what kind of organization (other than a government organization that may demand a security clearance) needs to know about your sex life? Just curious. Athenagirl
  6. Even with those who have found pleasure, most only indulge in anal sex on an infrequent basis. Understandable, since there is most usually prep time involved that is not always available. Oh thank God... I'm not the only one who thinks anal sex requires "prep" time. However, even without "prep" time, if I'm with an uninhibited and accepting lover, then even the fear of getting "something" on my lover isn't so bad. Anal sex: not for the squeamish!
  7. Dburton: many women do have trouble being able to easily separate love and sex: at least when they are actually in love with someone. (I know I tend to get a bad case of monogamy when I'm in love -- LOL!) However, what makes swinging intriguing to me, is that you don't have to separate sex and love. What I mean is, you're having sex with someone you love: your husband or boyfriend, and you're having sex with someone you're not emotionally bonded with. My concern is that you've apparently never fantasized about just sex, instead, you have the more typical female romantic fantasies. Not that there's anything wrong with that, it just makes me wonder how sexually charged you are. I think you'd be a better "candidate" for the lifestyle if you'd had some purely sexual adventures previously. That doesn't mean you couldn't enter and enjoy the lifestyle, just that it might not come as easily to you as someone else who'd experimented more in their youth. That said, best of luck! athenagirl
  8. Speaking of messes associated with anal sex: how do you prepare for anal sex? Do you fast? Take an enema? Both? Athenagirl
  9. Thanks! I hope you're having heat wave up in your slice of frozen heaven! Athenagirl
  10. LOL! Yes, you are right: what passes for normal in most of society would lead some to brand swingers as sex addicts, or at the very least, sexually deviant. And apparently, there's a "cure" for that! (I'm passing!)
  11. Thanks, Magnum... we'll see how that goes! I'm definitely a hopeless romantic and a sex maniac in search of someone who can satisfy both sides of me! Ha ha!
  12. Mr. Essex, tell your friend he can email me at my SLS account under my screen name: Athenagirl. (I have not been logging on much of late, though... taking a break).
  13. Hey Mr. Essex! The same goes for you... should you ever decide to drop in my neck of the woods, I'd be happy to show you around. Athenagirl
  14. Awww... you are so sweet. What a lucky woman who got to play with you. Athenagirl
  15. I'm a bit surprised to hear your take on single guys finding single women in the lifestyle... I've seen some swinger sites that seem to have jillions of young single women claiming to want just sex. If that's true, then it seems a single guy would have a great many women to choose from...
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