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  1. We are Lifetime Members on SLS. I can tell you that most people like us that get contacted by free members find that 9/10 times they are fakes. Meaning that it's a single guy posing as couple.
  2. What you describe is exactly "taking one for the team". Basically, you are not really attracted to the other person... but you know you SO is attracted to the other person and you go along to get along.
  3. If I heard someone say that, we would be done. It's one thing to do it... it's quite another to make it a plan. I won't say that this hasn't happened to us. It happened twice that I can remember - in our first year. The first one was a couple where my wife was very attracted to the male half and unfortunately, I couldn't even get it up for the female half... so she had to settle for oral. I felt bad but she didn't seem to mind that much. My wife had one of the best orgasms I have ever seen her have with someone else... so, in my mind it was worth it. The second time was with a couple where the female was HOT HOT HOT and the guy had a big ol' beer belly. My wife chose to play with him so that she could play with her... and I received the benefit of her sacrifice.
  4. I got the same impression. I have just met to many. I don't think he is telling the whole story. His reaction to hearing his wife was to kiss "Sally". He wasn't objecting if this was his reaction. I think it's possible that he is one of those guys that play the guilt card to control their SO. I bet he is soaking it up right now.
  5. For us, we take the term "lifestyle" fairly literally. One of the things that we love about this is that we get to meet lots of people who have solid marriages and are genuinely good people. I wouldn't say it's the majority of people because there is a large turnover. That said, we have made wonderful friends with whom we share our life... they are people of discerning quality that recognize when something is appropriate and when it is not. We do have some vanilla friends... but they are mostly who we hold at arms length.
  6. It is imperative to be a mature individual to handle the lifestyle the way it should be, in my opinion. As a male, I find the notion that "being rejected is a huge deal" as somewhat amusing. It is a matter of course for most males trying to date. With that in mind, one of the things that Sharon and I discuss frequently is that people have issues. There are no escapees.
  7. Having some sort of orientation process for new people is also helpful. Our club provides orientation but we also register everyone who attends any event.
  8. He posted an update today: UPDATE: My wife and I had a foursome last night with another couple. I'm having a hard time dealing with it. : sex
  9. Our experience as well for a great many younger couples. That said, we have had a lot of hot, young playmates. My wife and I are in our 40s and have never really been rejected that much. However, we don't "go for the kill". We take our time and get to know them. Here is the funny part... the fantasy is always better than the experience. It's great to look at those pretty and young girls and guys... but they are usually just bad in bed. It is also why we have found over the years that younger couples that we have met in the lifestyle usually end up divorced later. At 44, a girl in her 20s will have sex that she never ever expected with me. The same goes for a guy with my wife. The guys are done in under 15 minutes. The girls tell me later that I blew their mind and they never had sex like that and blah blah blah. If you look back at my posts you will see that we had a 26 year old girlfriend for awhile... She was easily an 8-9 out of 10. A real girl next door hottie. It was great fun for about 6 weeks because she was enthusiastic and she could easily handle us both - she was a flat out nympho. I could literally give her 10-15 orgasms in an hour of sex. It was a great ego boost, lol. Then she started texting me all day long and telling me that she was falling in love with me. The idea from the beginning was that we would ALL be involved in this relationship... it didn't work out that way. While she was texting me... she would never text my wife. I was very clear with her from the beginning that it wasn't that kind of party. We were interested in sharing her as a girlfriend... but we were committed to each other and that was that.
  10. I saw this story on reddit and thought it was important to share. This is exactly why my wife and I don't play with vanilla couples. We actually had something similar happen once... and they ended up divorced. Vanilla couples do not have the same level of communication that swinging couples tend to have. This fact leads to situations like this one. My wife and I had a foursome last night with another couple. I'm having a hard time dealing with it. : sex I don't want to copy and paste the story here... so you will have to read it and then come back to comment here. Thoughts?
  11. We have a 6 year old daughter. We have played at our house but we have a 3 floor townhouse and the door to the third floor where the master bedroom is locks.
  12. We are in your age range (mid 40s). We have had a few playmate couples that were in their 20s over the last 8 years and all of them without exception have now divorced. That is just our experience. Generally, we have found that they don't have much sexual experience and are not that great in bed. The best playmates that we have had have been in their 30s and we have quite a few playmates that are hotties.
  13. So far things are going great. We have been "dating" for a couple of weeks now... We are going to our Club tonight again. She attended with us once and was very turned on. So far, she hasn't been interested in playing with anyone else but that's ok... we have talked about it but this is all new to her. We are fine with how things are going. Before us, she literally had only had a few lovers (4) and NONE of them had even ever given her an orgasm because they would all cum in less than a couple of minutes and be done. The only time she ever had an orgasm was by masturbating. She was just recently divorced after 5 years of marriage to a guy who was a virgin when they married and he was a very conservative guy who thought things like blowjobs were dirty. She has gotten a real education over the last few weeks... she has been with her first girl, had her first threesome had a minimum of 6-7 orgasms every time we had sex. I suspect that we gave ruined the poor girl... but she said that she has learned what awesome sex is like... and she doesn't think that's a bad thing at all. She is a big girl.
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