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jid2008

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About jid2008

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  • Birthday 03/01/1985

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    Couple (married)
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    St. Louis, MO
  1. We've had no luck with single fems either. We don't have face pics on SwingLifestyle because we are extremely discreet about this - the only reason we are gutsy enough to even swing is because we live 100 miles from family!
  2. I have such a hard time turning people down. I once told someone "No, thank you - I appreciate your response but do not feel we would be a good match" to which he responded that he was better looking than me and his wife was a lot hotter than mine - HAH. My wife is fucking hot, and his wife was a disgusting creature - i would admit it if she was hot - she certainly wasn't. In one of the first emails they said they had to be discreet because of his job. In one of his pics, he's wearing a hat with the Volunteer Fire Department he worked for. I called him out on it and he swiftly shut the hell up.
  3. I am a guy. I've been friends with this girl for about 8 years, very close. I used to hang out at her house with her, alone, when she had a boyfriend and I had a girlfriend (who is now my wife). I was always faithful to my wife/girlfriend and never did anything sexually with her, and though the conversation about sex did come up, I tried my hardest not to cross any lines, especially after making friends with her boyfriend. One night her boyfriend went to bed drunk and we talked...a lot. She told me about being bored with her sex life and that he is very boring in bed, never wants to try anything new, and will come as soon as he's ready without getting her off. I finally admitted after a while that my wife and I had gotten bored and had been with another couple and it charged us up big time. The thing is, he is the last guy you would expect to be such a closed book when it comes to sexuality. She is a freak and he doesn't even want to talk about it on a fishing trip. Tonight, she has been sending picture messages to my wife (because my wife is very interested in having her way with her as well). She exchanged back and forth but we have to hide this big time from him. I don't know what he would do if he found out about any of this. He is the type that gets drunk and loses all of his inhibitions. We were hoping we could loosen him up and present it, because he won't even talk about sex otherwise, but she is about to explode...and after these pics, so are we. The whole reason for including him is that I don't want to do something like that to my friend. If we had went out and had a sexy time at a strip club and what not and got a few drinks in us, we feel like we could get it out of our system, and he would be a willing participant (although intoxicated) so he couldn't be mad at us. That, plus he'd get his way with my hot wife as well. I just don't know what to do. That last paragraph made me look very bad, and probably even a bit immature in our swinging. We are the same couple you will see denying girls if their husband doesn't know, or guys whose wives don't know...but we're talking about a very sexy girl who is turned on by my wife but has never done anything with a woman, and my sexy wife who really wants to be with this girl. Not only that, but I have always been attracted to her in a friendly way, and she's very easy on the eyes. She has a great personality and she is and always has been an open book with me. Do you think this guy would really turn us down if we were all in a room together, drinking or not, and my wife said "pull down your pants, I'm going to suck your cock" and his girlfriend was cool with it? I'm so confused, and bothered. Bothered because I've never wanted to be that guy sneaking around, being involved or knowing about text messages like this, etc. I have always been a loyal friend to all of my friends, and I have had some that have been really, really fucked over by their so called "good" friends. I'm in a quandry, and I wish it was as easy as just saying "No, we can't do this..." But I can't help myself. Every time we get with her and he walks out of the room she starts talking about it. When we separated at the mall last week, she was asking my wife about how it was eating a girl out, what it did to our sex lives, etc. I just don't know what to do.
  4. Thanks again everyone. The biggest problem, I think, is that my wife has actually become friends with this girl. We even have kids the same age so my wife and her get together and just hang out without any play. We have went out with them once that didn't result in play. The first 2 times it was only soft swap. The first time I was more into it because it was new and the excitement was there. Now I do it because if I hinted that I wasn't interested, my wife is going to be super pissed. She is really in to the girl. No, we haven't turned down any couples, we just haven't found any others that we have clicked with. This is the only couple we have played with. And no, I also don't think they are holding me back from pursuing new playmates. You're right, it shouldn't be a negotation point and it shouldn't be ammunition to be cashed in at a later date...but, we both like swinging, a lot, and it has made our sex life 10,000x better. There is a lot more affection between us. As far as the additional underlying problems, I'm not being sarcastic at all (seriously) when I say that I appreciate your analytical skills, but I don't really think that's it. I just think my wife really, really is turned on by this girl and I'm just simply not. As far as planning on cashing it in later, I guess that's exactly what I've been doing. I just figure that if I am going to continue seeing this couple with her for her pleasure, when I find a nice looking girl I am attracted to, if the guy isn't a spitting image of Brad Pitt, I don't want them to be discounted immediately.
  5. Thank you all for your replies!! It seems pretty unanimous...it should stop if we aren't both into it. To Alura, you shouldn't be offended by my comments. For my wife and me, swinging is about enjoying each other and enjoying having a new body in the bedroom, spicing things up. There is no emotional connection, it is strictly for fun, excitement, and pure sexuality. There are plenty of girls that have great personalities that I wouldn't want to hop in bed with. I guess my thinking is that if I continue "taking one for the team" that sometime when I find a girl that is to my liking, my wife will do the same if she finds the guy unattractive. But as another poster said, my wife isn't nearly worried about physical characteristics as I am. How am I supposed to stay hard with a girl that just doesn't do it for me?? Tonight if I didn't watch my wife's beautiful ass bouncing up and down on the other guy, I don't think I could have stayed hard. If she thinks someone is clean and finds the girl somewhat attractive, she is down to play. She gets in the mode and she is ready to go.
  6. My wife and I have gotten with a couple twice. The first time we got together, the other girl was wearing a summer dress, and all I could tell was "Wow, she has some big tits!" Well, then her clothes came off. She was so skinny, I never thought her face was that great, and she has NO ass (and I am an ass man, completely, 100%). Completely unattracted to her, but it felt good because it was the first time I was with another woman in 7 years and she looked decent in her summer dress. Well, the next time came along. This time we all went to a mall and she was wearing jeans. These especially accentuated her having NO ASS. By this time I am completely turned off. We all 4 played, and I barely touched her at all. For one, her husband goes down on her instantly and makes disgusting slurping sounds. I'm not cool with sucking some other dudes spit out of a girls vag, especially a girl that im not even attracted to's vag. Both men are both fully prepared to let our wives play together. They are into each other (my wife likes kissing women, and I think it turned her on that she is able to give this chick and orgasm). I have no problem with that. Well, rather than going f/f and leaving me out of it (I absolutely DREAD it all day if I know we are going out with this couple), the girls have decided they want to go....drumroll..FULL SWAP! Yay. Yuck. Any way, my wife blows up and decides I am a "jerk" and a "dickhead" and I "care about no one but myself" because I don't want to have sex with this girl. She brings up that she was willing to get with a couple of couples that had unattractive men "for me," but those never happened any way. I suggested, okay, maybe we should just get with couples that we are both attracted to...That's fine! But no, I'm still a dick and a jerk who cares about no one but himself. What do I do? Do I keep dreading DAYS AHEAD of the time I am to meet this couple because I have to try and "perform" with a girl that I find unattractive? Or do I tell the wife to get with the girl, leave me out of it, or move on? I'm sick of this!
  7. You are getting screwed, no pun intended. It would be completely unfair to tell my wife I want another woman in my bad, sucking and fucking me, but she can't have what she wants. The very fact that you allow him this with another woman, and he acts on it, is bullshit. Cut him off until you get some new dick. For me, watching my wife go down on another guy was one of the hottest things I have ever witnessed. In a world without STDs, I would absolutely love watching my wife take on about 5 guys at once (if she wanted). It would be like my own live porn!
  8. A couple that we fool around with is very quiet. We are all quiet except for the sound of porn playing in the background. There's usually not much more than some moaning and some whispers.
  9. We played a game with a couple (my wifes friend and her boyfriend). We touched, kissed, gave spankings, sucked nipples, rubbed packages, etc....then they decided they didn't want to do anything else. It was pretty disappointing, to say the least.
  10. I got nervous about it as we all laid on our king size (me, wife, other girl, other guy). The other 2 got naked immediately, so I dropped my boxers and coaxed my wife into getting naked. They started moving as though they were about to start fucking, but they read the sign pretty quickly that I was ready to get started...after all, its getting late and I have work early in the morning. The other girl immediately went down and started pleasing my wife orally. The guy then crawled up to my wife. My wife didn't hesitate to take his cock in her mouth and started going to town. I came up on the other side and she spent the next 10 minutes getting eaten and sucking us both off. It was sooooooo hot. I loved it. I think I liked watching her take on multiple cocks more than I liked messing with the other girl. The best part was, the next day I got home at 4:30 pm, went to bed at 10:30 pm, and had gotten oral and/or had sex 3 times! That was the most we had done it in one day, probably ever since we got together 7 years ago. We got with them again on Friday and I woke up to pussy on Saturday and Sunday as well. My wife's sex drive had pretty much dwindled to nothing over the years, but this new exciting time in our life has opened her up again. I don't regret it at all, but will admit that I don't want to live this lifestyle forever. It's fun for now!!
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