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bill_n_lana

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About bill_n_lana

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 09/29/1971

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    NY
  1. Wow there are so many responses!! It was open group sex not set up play areas for certain people here and there. Really I do feel better now. I think JustaskJuia was spot on about the situation. The single gal that was there has already gotten back in touch with us. She was perhaps just as confused as we were. It water under the bridge and a learning experience. I don't think I want to go to house parties anymore or at least for a while. As someone else said here they like the sex with strangers better no phone calls or emails or personal connections and I think that would probably work best for us for a bit. Thanks for all you input
  2. The club we've been going to charges 30-40 per couple a night to attend. Sometimes if its a theme party or they have hired a live band it costs 10 dollars more. We've been toying with the idea of flying to Denver to spend a week at an adult resort and attend a club there and it seems 100 per couple a night is about average.
  3. Thanks for all the responses. It was a small party 3 couples and a single female. The single female was someone no one had played with before but we all knew her a little bit from a previous meet and greet we attended. I think thats where the problems started. The host had sort of thought the single gal was just for him but forgot to tell anyone that part. That chick was really in to my hubby not the host and they had a great time and they played for hours. He hadn't played with anyone that whole evening except me and the single gal. And you are correct I was offering the hostess to finish off my hubby. The hostess then really said some mean shit. It wasn't just a I'm not interested sort of rejection she said things about how my husband was not respecting boundaries and how it was a problem before and then she went in to how he was hogging up the single gal. Thats what pissed me off if this was some sort of previous problem I don't understand why you'd invite someone and not tell them. We haven't played with them in a few months but I have talked to her tons of times and really if there was a problem with boundaries or anything else there were plenty of previous opportunities to bring it up. These people are much older than us and have been swinging together for more than ten years its not like this is new to them like it is to us. And yep guess I'll just have to chalk that one up as a learning experience. Biloxicouple we actually had originally intended not to get to personally involved with people so I guess thats where we probably should have stayed. We just live somewhere fairly rural so traveling to m&g's to meet new strangers can be a little rough but I've learned the drama just isn't worth it. thanks everyone and glad I found this site looks there is some great information on it.
  4. Thanks for the response. It was the second sort of party with just a few couples. All of whom we had played with before more than once. Not wanting to have sex isn't the problem. My problem was based on the not telling me ahead of time there was an issue. It was a really long drive for us. These are people we talk to quite a bit. I can't see any reason for them to invite us like that and never say one word about only liking me and not my husband until 2am. None of drink or anything either so it wasn't a case of getting liquored up and having something slip out. I'm glad thats not the norm because thats going to leave a bad taste in my mouth for a while.
  5. Yes I would go BUT I would be ok with quarterly testing. I was tested a few months ago and just the Chlamydia test/lab was 250$. Plus the costs of the other tests. I couldn't afford monthly testing.
  6. I absolutely LOVED it! We had great sex for weeks and weeks after it because I just couldn't stop cumming when I would think about the mister with another woman. And it still does the same thing to me!
  7. I must be a perv ! haha! I the female half like the cock pictures. I like to have an idea what I am getting in to. Full body shots even with a blurred face are nice as well. My husband just likes to see a full body shot even if they have clothes on. He doesn't like the naked pictures nearly as much as I do.
  8. Hi there Thanks in advance for the help and/or suggestions. We are relatively new to the swinging experience. So far we have had a great time BUT we did finally have a not so good experience. It wasn't bad enough to stop playing but I'd like some input from people with a little more experience. A couple we've known a while and played with many times invited us to their house party this weekend. We'd never been to one and it sounded like fun. We were having a great time playing and...well you guys should know... About two a.m. me and the party hostess were outside and I said something about my hubby who hadn't came yet. And the hostess then told me something really not nice about my husband. I won't list out all the details but it really came down to she had a problem with my husband and didn't want to play with him at all anymore which is fine but why in the heck would these people invite us over to spend the weekend if they had a problem with us? We weren't pushy, we didn't ask for an invite and we almost didn't go but that same hostess called us for days begging us to go. It wasn't bad begging really I thought they were our friends. I am a pretty straight shooter and if I am not interested in people or don't like a situation I tell people immediately. It really hurt my feelings that she invited us like that and failed to tell us about her problem before we arrived. We talk on the phone quite a bit and hang out as often as we can so it wasn't like the situation couldn't have been brought up before. She tried to be nice and just pass it off as nothing but I am so in love with husband I can't bring myself to hang out with people that don't like him. We live in a very rural area so we drove 2 hours each way to spend the weekend with these people. Granted I packed up our stuff and left as soon as it got light. We didn't cause any drama either we just slipped out the back door and left without anyone noticing and told just the man half of the host we were going to take off. Obviously this bothered me. Is this the norm for house parties? Do people normally tell you they have a problem before inviting you? Should we just expect this sort of stuff from the lifestyle? I'm quite a bit younger and more attractive than this couple. I'm not hung up on looks but I get this weird feeling they have been inviting us cause it makes other people that are vacillating want to come and hang out with them when their cute younger couple friends come to. Were these people rude or am I just over reacting. We were rude just to leave like that? I just didn't want to cause a scene or make problems for the hosts or the other people that were there.
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