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slevin last won the day on June 16 2013

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About slevin

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  • Birthday 09/09/1976

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    Couple
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    Toronto
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    A year

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    sk_forfun
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    Wicked

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  1. Calm before the storm. He isn't done yet, the crazy will ratchet back up soon enough. Get everything wrapped up as quickly as you can to hopefully be done before the crazy returns
  2. You already know you should probably skip this. Just to add; absolutely don't do this if the husband isn't aware and ok with it. If he doesn't know, and approve, you are getting involved with cheating. To us, that is always a bad idea.
  3. I think if both parties make their relationship more important than swinging or swinging relationships then they're on the right track. By that I mean things like respecting the others veto of someone, pulling away voluntarily if they start to develop feelings for a swing partner, and taking a break when one or both get jealous or self conscious. That goes a long way I think.
  4. I didn't even know it was something women found unattractive until recently (and only on the internet). Thankfully we've never run into someone in person. I won't be putting it up in our profile because I don't find it to be a big deal. If it turns someone off in the moment, I sure won't be embarrassed about it.
  5. I agree that the way she responded to taking a break isn't the best, but it's a start. I really recommend that you both find a relationship counselor or therapist that you can talk with. You need to find a way to get back to communicating, and sometimes having that third party there can help facilitate that.
  6. Here in Canada? I thought that was mostly a US thing (other than politicians). Thankfully I wouldn't lose my job for something like this.
  7. It sounds like you got some great advice. My thoughts here are: You're a relationship coach. It would be interesting for you to read through your own post pretending that you're reading someone elses story. What would you advice your patients (clients?) to do?
  8. X-Art and PassionHD also make more erotic type of porn movies. Still porn, but not the typical crap you get from most videos.
  9. We've found that often if they list what they're looking for as "women, and couples" that more often than not they're really just looking for a single bi-woman. They list couples as an afterthought. It's a bit picky and we don't automatically discount them just because of that, but it makes me pay close attention for any other cues that they're really just looking for a single bi-woman. The big one for us is when their profile is all about what they don't want. Just a wall of negatives, defining what they want by describing everything they don't want.
  10. Couldn't agree more. I'm not really interested in the chase, I am interested in enjoying time with people. I think even if I was single I wouldn't be too interested in the kind of chase that Chicup described, even if that is likely what works. I'd rather show my interest, have it reciprocated and enjoy the build up together from there. Far more fun IMO
  11. Yeah I think creepy vs. turn-on is down to your interest level. It's hot until you're not interested anymore, then it's creepy. Just like those jokes about sexual harassment; the good looking guy she is interested in can grab her ass and that's ok. The guy she isn't interested in says hi and it's sexual harassment
  12. We got together with a couple that we shouldn't have. They were nice, but we didn't really click with them sexually. We tried to talk ourselves into it since they were a couple we got along really great with socially. When we got together to play for the first time things went well until we all went into the bedroom and things just didn't go well. The other girl ended up freaking out about seeing her boyfriend with another girl and ran off crying to the bathroom. He was a bit of a meathead and we had to force him to go after her. Not a fun way to end a swinging night; we talked it over a bit before they finally left for the night. That turned us off swinging for a bit. We definitely listen to our gut now when we meet others though.
  13. Despite all that, springing it on her is the worst possible approach.
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