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dnmnms last won the day on January 3 2009

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About dnmnms

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  • Birthday 05/06/1967

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    Mississippi
  • Swinging Experience
    1 1/2 yrs

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    dnmnms

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  1. I would like to be the first man in that GB while your blindfolded, but then I'd love to watch you while your taking all my cock, I love the smileon your face and in your eyes as I was enjoying sliding a hard 9" cock into you...John

  2. Lots of great ideas here already....But here are a few of mine. Hubby arrange a controlled GB and me blindfolded the entire time. Love the dark room idea. House party with selected ppl then have a all out wild weekend. Melody
  3. I am going to keep my reply on this short... If what you are doing is not affecting HER then it is none of her business. Who is she (or anyone) to judge something that doesnt directly affect them. Melody PS...And for that matter...if she is so hotty totty why in the heck is she looking at your profile on any site that is for lifestyles that is not her cup of tea.
  4. Hmmm great question. For me (female half here) I have never experienced any jealousy during or after. In fact its a huge turn on for me to see my hubby in action. And afterwards discussing it always gets me turned on big time. Maybe once or twice I had a twinge of jealousy when we are in the beginning stage...Just starting the "talk" part and thats only if I am sitting there not engaged in conversation. And that has only came into play once or twice in the 2 1/2 yrs we have been in the LS. Heck, if we are in play mode and my "partner" for the night is taking a break...gone to get something to drink....cig break...or whatever I will watch hubby with the female. Never any jealousy to see that. Melody
  5. This has been one of my biggest worries in the LS. Having lost over 100 pounds to get healthy I am very insecure when it comes time to shed the clothes. But, I have found that others are alot less judgemental than I am on myself. As others have said....there are all kinds of shapes out there. Just be confident and have fun. Melody
  6. Initially we first began our talks with considering an open marriage. After alot of talk, we decided we both are more into sharing the experience with each other rather than apart. But each person/couple is different. Also, I know I have set the pace on our play as I tend to take things at a slower pace than hubby does. But that is okay. Time and getting comfortable with myself has helped me. But, I do have one teeny negative I gotta get off my chest. Sorry, I am a female and am very opinionated. Not sure why you feel that being with home while she goes out is considered "babysitting". Unless they are not your children, you staying home with them is being a dad not a babysitter. Seems that usually its men (not saying all men) who term it babysitting. OK, whew I feel better now. I will get down off my soapbox. But, I also agree that I would be upset if my hubby made plans without discussing it with me. Before either of us will commit we sit down and talk about it. If either of us decide its a no-go then thats the way it is. No questions asked and we both know that there will be no anger regarding any decision. Melody
  7. I absolutely agree with you on this. Sounds like the next career is in the works LOL. Melody
  8. Gotta add my name to the list too LOL. I know I am always trying to locate adult movies where it looks like us real folks...I really get into watching us normal a lot more than those movie star kind. Melody
  9. I rarely ever drink (hubby doesnt either) but when we go out clubbing generally I will initially get one down to loosen up. Not because of nerves of swinging just to relax/dance. Then after the 1st one, I will usually sip 1 maybe 2 the rest of the night. So usually its 2 to 3 coronas in about 6 hour time span. Melody
  10. I know we each have our own preferences and please understand that I am NOT being crude in what I am trying to say....But comments like this really make us "non porn star normal people who are also good wholesome people, who look good but are not Barbies" feel a little intimidated. Speaking as female here who is somewhat average in the looks dept, has had 3 kids and whose body could never make it into a porn movie anymore. Not bashing you, just when we "normal" ladies are reminded of our flaws it can hurt a little. I am sure your wife is all you wrote and probably then some. I am sure you will locate those in the LS that have the same thoughts and feelings as you 2 do....They are definantly those out there who will only play with model material. I wish you luck in whatever your searching for. Melody
  11. Oh man.....I love watching hubby masturbate..while he is watching porn and I am just kicked back relaxing (but wont be for long)...OMG.... M
  12. I responded to the men...Jeans and a button down polo...think that was the choice. I think personally it's much sexier. Unless its a "formal" event I much rather see a guy in a good pair of fitted jeans! Actually, that was one of the deciding factors on where to go NYE for us. Hubby is a better dresser as far as formal...He is as comfortable in a suit as he is in jeans but personally I am not. Now, I will wear the little slinky dresses however "after 5 formal required" isn't something I could be totally comfortable in. Probably could for a couple hours but not for an extended night out. Melody
  13. I am 41.....Hubby is 36...We have been together 10 yrs and in the LS almost 2 years. We however have taken things pretty slow whether due to health (I have had 3 surgeries in the last 2 yrs), work or lack of opportunity. Melody
  14. Hubby and I have been together 10 yrs. Honestly I dont think he has came inside me over 10 to 15 times in all the yrs. Its not a fear of getting pregnant...Heck I had a hystrectomy years before we ever met. We both like the visual aspect. Depending on position we are in where its going LOL. Mostly the tummy or boobs but tongue out and waiting gets rewarded too. Crazy but if we are in the regular ole missionary position, that seems to be where we have the most laughable OOPS moments. Up the nose or a direct eye shot has happened a few times. I get so tickled by the look on his face when he realizes what happened LMAO. I try to tell him its fine and I am too but he feels like hell while I am laughing my ass off. Ya know, we tried the facial thing a few times in the 10 yrs together but not that exciting to us but never had it up my nose or eye when we did that....Only happens from the good ole missionary. Strange LOL. Melody
  15. Well yes but on that note OMG the things I would do to KID ROCK while that song played in the back ground would probably be illegal in most states! Melody
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