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belgiumcoast

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About belgiumcoast

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  • Birthday 12/12/1969

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Belgium
  • Swinging Experience
    dec 2006

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    www.fun4two.nl

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  1. We have never done it at separate houses, but we have spent the night with play partners in the same house in separate rooms 2 or 3 times with one couple. They're one of our favorite swing-couples and it we just did it without discussing it with them or among ourselves. We just felt by te look in each others eyes that it was ok. And it was ok: we really had fun, playing at night, sleeping and playing again in the morning, hearing sounds from the other room from our partners. BUT the best thing that happened, the best sex ever between me and my wife was those mornings just after having sex with our play-partners and then the wives went back to their hubbies for another round. To clarify not the best sex physically we were to tired after all that play with the swing-partners, but emotionally the bonding between me and my wife was of an incredible level then.
  2. We once wrote a similar email, though not saying they where too old for us but 'we think age difference is too big'. (we're around 40, they were 65) They replied with a long rant on that they're not old and if we would stop swinging at 60, blah blah... quite aggressive I politely replied once more that the 'age' is not a problem but the 'age difference'. I told them we're looking for couples 10 years younger up to 10 years older (and we don't look at one or 2 years if there is a click), and that is clearly shown on our profile. And I also told them we probable won't stop swinging when we're 60 but our partners then will be between 50 and 70. Never got a reply back...
  3. I actually forgot nr 3: she booked a swinger-sailing vacation without me knowing;) and it proved to be SUPER (we went again the next year and are planning to go this year too.
  4. While I do agree that in 99% of the cases this is a very bad idea, it can be a stunning good one too... My wife surprised me 2x with this. The first time was my birthday, and due to 'not having time' she told me that she hadn't been able to arrange a birthday party. That night at 6pm my mother called me if we were at home because she had some free cinema tickets that would expire soon and she would take the kids with her. About an hour later our swinger friends arrived and I had a great birthday party (the kids slept at my mothers place). The second time was we were going to visit some relatives of her (very boring people), so I hated this trip. Actually we never arrived there (there was no visit planned) but we stopped at a club we never had visited before (she had her sexy outfit in the back of the car) and she had arranged to meet a few couples that we know.
  5. We don't have many rules and actually (except for the safe sex rule), never discussed any other rules actually We won't take one for the team, except at a party where we have ample choice of partners so one of us can have the partner with the click and the other can have someone else from another couple. So otherwise I really don't know about any rules besides the 3 big NOs: kids, pets, and excrement, and a reverse rule: if the other couple is a no-kissing couple we won't be dating them, kissing is too much part of the play for us We already did things I never would have imagined like separate rooms, even sleeping with the swing partner after the sex, having 'before breakfast sex' ending with seeing my own partner again and feel sooooooooooo happy, so lucky, so ... like walking on clouds If swinging has done anything to our relation it is that our love and trust has grown even more, and while we've never been really jealeaous, that is something that is not even possible anymore.
  6. Our story may be even more funny, but it was a hell of a situation... We are sometimes quite shy and find it difficult to make first contact in a swingersclub (loud music doesn't help either). So we searched for some swinger-dating sites and have been succesful with two of them. About 3 years ago we started meeting couple A from site one. The first time we met them in a club, later on we dated several times at our place as well. They're a bit older than we are and have teenagers at home (and one daughter already married), so we can't go over to their place (our kids are young enough to go to their grandparents). Last year Couple A asked us for a date, so we arranged to meet each other at our favourite club. That same favourite club is also a place where we have had some great times with couple B, which we know from the other site. Couple B asked us for a date that weekend too, but we already commited ourselves to Couple A. Couple B understood it perfectly but decided to go to the club anyway. We told them to come over and say hello. Maybe they might even like Couple A, but we doubted it a bit as they're quite a bit younger than we are, and hence much younger than couple B, but you never know... Our favorite club has a lot of facilities (hot tub, sauna, swimming pool,...) and that night my wife and mister A started in the hot tub, then sauna. Mrs A. (horny as ever) and I went directly over to the playrooms and had a great time. We went downstairs to the bar and met my wife an Mr. A coming up the stairs for some fun. We told them to come to the bar when they were ready so we could grab something to eat together. It was quite busy at the bar with only one seat left, so I offered Mrs A to sit down and I faced her (my back to the bar). We just started our drinks when I saw Mrs B coming into the bar. I excused myself to Mrs A, en hugged and kissed Mrs B. At that time neither of them had seen each other as Mrs A was facing the bar when Mrs B entered, and I was blocking her view when I kissed Mrs B. Mrs B had only seen briefly the back of Mrs A, and her look was focussed on me. I then took a step backwards to introduce Mrs A. to Mrs B. and I started saying : "Mrs A this is Mrs B" but as I spoke my words I say by the look of their faces that something was wrong... My first idea was that they have had a bad experience with each other but Mrs A said : I know Mrs B, she's my daughter... Luckily after the first seconds, they took it with a laugh and a few moments later when Mr. B when entered (he had gone to the bathroom) I saw the same look on his face, and Mrs A & Mrs B already had a big smile when they saw his expression. The whole scenario repeated it once again when Mr A came down with my wife, who didn't understand why the 4 of us where laughing like madmen . We wanted to excuse ourselves so they could discuss it among them, but they wanted us with them. We all went eating something in the restaurant and had some great talks about it. They almost immediately felt quite comfortable with the situation (I guess I wouldn't feel that comfortable when I met my mom at a club), and we sat in the bar until closing time (we didn't play anymore that evening). We still swing with both couples, even though it felt strange in the beginning. They now have a system so they don't go to the same place at the same time, even though even that wouldn't be a big problem (as long as they don't play in the same room).
  7. afaik nobody from our vanilla friend, though I wonder what my parents are thinking. We never went out for an evening, now we constantly ask them to babysit... and not only for the night but also for the next day (the club we go to is about 200 miles so we stay at a hotel there)... just wish we could tell some, it would be nice to talk to some... I would even want to try to convice my niece (she's such a cutie, hottie and very nice person, and definitely would be in for it, but her husband is more conservative than the pope)
  8. This put a big on our faces... I guess everyone in our family can't imagine WE are doing this. Not because we are conservative or religious (both a big no), but just because we are very shy people and well 'not the kind of people going to swing...' (hard to explain as English is not our native language). But I'm pretty sure that if we would ever tell our family we are swingers everyone would drop their jaws to the floor in surprise. But this may be the subject for a new topic : 'why do people think or don't think that we are swingers'
  9. Hers : 1,000% not. Very religious RC people who made a great fuss of us not getting married in church. They never allowed us to sleep together before she left home and we started living together. His: parents divorced : father small chance but 95% a no, mother is very liberal in ideas, but swinging hmmm, don't thinks so: once heard her talking about my nephew, who she thought was a swinger and from the tone of her voice...
  10. We're not on SLS but on a local (Belgium dating site) We have masked pics in our public profile, clothed people in our private section who we show to people in who we are interested and ask for them. We only send nude pics with couple we know in person or if we have been chatting with them for a very long time and trust them completely. About your wheelchair: if we we're you we would put it in our profile or at least in our private pics. For us it wouldn't be a turndown if we knew it upfront, we would have to swallow very hard if we had to find it out on a first date...
  11. My wife and I had several laughs about this one. I run a small company with 1 employee. He works off-site most of the time and we communicate via AIM. Even at the time when my wife and I didn't swing yet, he and I often made some sexually oriented jokes like when I had to leave early I would say: have to go to a swing party or when he had to go somewhere during office hours (like the dentist) I joked that he was going to his mistress house. We continued joking about this, at the time my wife and I started swinging, but NEVER ever told him or would we tell hem that those jokes about wife swapping, trio's now are actually true... It's even so more fun joking now eg. like: I won't be working today and tomorrow, we have to go to a swingers party 200 miles from here and are staying there overnight. Or last year in april (I'll never forget that day) when he came to my house because we had some things to discuss about work that we couldn't do over chat. That week a swingers couple who have become great friends were staying with us for a few days. She's 10 years younger than I am and very very pretty, he was away when my employee arrived but she was here, so he asked me: is that your new mistress ? I told yeah, she gave me a really great blow job yesterday night while my wife was fucking her husband (which was 100% true), and my employee had a good laugh but his face was telling me that he was thinking 'keep on dreaming buddy'. OMG this is so funny... : telling the truth for 100% and he was thinking I'm day-dreaming... Oh and one more thing, something happened in july last year: we went on a swingers trip with a boat for a week. After that we stayed in Greece for a few more days but one of the couples didn't and send us a mail to ask us if we enjoyed the boat trip and their email address was 2cuteswingers@xxx, the thing is that my mail at that time was forwarded to him so if clients would mail me he would get my mail (normally I don't give my work email to swingers friends but this time I made a mistake). He never said anything about the mail so I'm not sure if he has seen the email address or not... anyway we haven't been joking that much anymore about swinging...
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