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Ellyanne77

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Ellyanne77 last won the day on January 16 2008

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About Ellyanne77

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  • Birthday 05/06/1977

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    TN

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    ellyanne77
  1. I truly feel for the couples afflicted with this. On that note let me respond to the poster above that does not tell people they have herpes. If a couple who knowingly had an incurable STD infected my wife or myself, I don't know what I would do, but I can assure you I would bring the wrath of God down on you. What you are doing is selfish and I think is borderline criminal.
  2. I (the wife) have always been bi in my opinion (had my first experience with a woman in my teens and loved it). I have been with both Bi and Bi Curious in this LS and I have to say Bi is so much better for me. Before getting into the LS I didn't understand bi curious at all!! An example: We played with one couple where during one of the times we were together and I was giving it seemed more like a show for the guys than anything...when I was through...we the females were through...no giving on her end. Fine with me I moved on to the sex. I can understand a woman who isn't fully bi and appreciate it as her choice. I most likely will not do it again though b/c its just like sex I want something out of it too. Another situation with a fully bi woman: We get into the room and before she even speaks to my hubby she pulls out her nexus dildo and goes to town...1/2 an hour or more later we had fully satisfied each other and made sure our spouses were happy and then picked back up with each other again. I have to say it was the best bi experience of my life...and I look forward to more just like it! Basically I know I'm bi and if you don't thats fine I'll help you put on a show or I'll see what you like but most likely I'm going to chose the fully bi woman over the bi curious any day of the week b/c then I know we both are having a good time!!
  3. This thread envoked some good conversation between my wife and I last night. She was talking about how when we play out of town it is always more exciting than playing in town. Don't know why it just is. She said when we started she felt she needed to have some sort of friendship with a couple prior to anything sexual. However as we have gotten deeper into this, she said she is really leaning more towards a "fuck em and forget em" type policy, as she finds it more exciting. If I had had a medal for greatest wife ever, I would have pinned it on her right there. Everyonce in awhile she really surprises me and I love that about her.
  4. First thought. Eat more yogurt. 2nd thought. Change doctors and get a second opionion.
  5. We just blocked them. Not becuase we have an aversion to single guys, but there messages just tended to be so crass.
  6. You know we kind of had that "stay away from people that have a bajillion certs" kind of attitude. Then we got pounced on by a "multiple cert" couple at a party and it was the sexual experience of a lifetime for both of us. Now we look at couples that have a lot of experience totally different. They tend to be extremely sexually confident and very open to anything you have in mind. So in closing, we have a special place in our heart for bednotchers.
  7. I wondered why were not getting a lot of 2nd dates. I guess the other couples were not as interested in the photo albums and ribbons from field day that we always carry with us as we thought. Hmmm good to know.... Note to self: Stop wearing #1 dad shirt to the clubs. J/K Julie we have kids and really don't much care to have a lot of chat about the ins and outs of our family life.
  8. I did the chantix a while back and it worked great as I didn't crave the cigs but I did have horrible dreams and per the hubby I was horrible to live with...he said my temper was really bad (I didn't notice) and I had pretty bad thoughts but stayed really positive. I quit for 3 whole weeks but just couldn't take the thoughts and dreams and decided to get off the pills. Within two days I was back to normal. I really think I'll try something else and may try the chantix again but you never know. I hope things are going good for you though I'd love to hear you r progress now that you have been on it for a while!
  9. Okay I'm completely understanding this one today. We have this couple we have met a few times and really like them but again its about their day to day lives everytime they email us like what they did today etc etc. I can barely keep up with my own friends so although I think they are really nice and we really like them its just too much. We haven't emailed them in over a week just to hopefully slow down the emails a little. For instance last week when they emailed us we really didn't think they were asking for immediate responses on anything they said so we just deleted and went on our way. But then I get on today and its again hey cuties how was your week etc etc etc...I just responded and said doing great just busy with work and spending time with friends and hope you have a good week...that was it. I didn't leave anything open for discussion. I figure we will see them again but just not anytime soon so no need to email what our plans are.
  10. I could not imagine not kissing my wife during sex or at just anytime the mood struck me. I also do not think I would enjoy being with any other woman and not being able to kiss. To me it would be like trying to play tennis, but your not aloud to use your hands..it just doesn't work.
  11. I'm so glad it ended up being a good thing. Most of the time we have found that those grainy photos or even some of the ones that are clear are incorrect representations of the actual couple. We had a couple that we just thought the female of the couple was gorgeous but the guy not so much the wifes type so we did the sorry we don't feel we would be compatible email....weeks later we saw them at the club...we can only assume the pictures on their profile were taken before they hit up the buffet 5 years ago. (yep totally a misrepresentation of what they both look like today). Hubby really takes good care of his body he works out all the time I the wife try but never to the extent he is able to (most likely b/c I love french fries)....he doesn't mind curves but its hard for me to be with anyone who is too far off from what I've already got! He has spoiled me what can I say lol.
  12. We are same room only and the wife enjoys it that way. Our first couple actually split us up before we could figure out what was happening lol but eventually got back into the same room we just feel it works much better for us not as many questions. Plus part of the fun for us is watching each other. There is something extremely sexy about arms and legs and everything and just falling all over each other in a pile of sex lol.
  13. I am thinking you are talking about a full room of people like a play room at a club. Its very distracting and we have never actually played fully in a group setting like that and not sure if we ever will just something about it that I (the wife) don't enjoy. I love playing around just not full play in a group room.
  14. You know when did having your own opinion become a bad thing? I'm sorry but I think that its rude for anyone to give someone a hard time b/c they aren't as satisfied with a particular place. You went you tried it but it just wasn't for you. The thing that I'm sure bothers them all is why you don't like it and why they do. I'm sorry but you have the right to have your OWN opinion! One reason we will most likely never go to TSC is b/c of the negative feedback we have received from those who have been to both clubs. I know for a fact that alot of people have said that TSC has a better club layout but not a better club overall. We also prefer Menages..but this is not even about that its about being able to speak your mind. I don't know you personally but we feel like we know you both from our emails and this board. I don't think you are negative at all. You actually sent us a really great detailed email about your trip to both clubs and the restaurant and I felt like you gave an honest review of everything. Just b/c you had a bad time and voiced that honestly doesn't mean you are negative just honest. Sorry that you are getting a hard time from those in your group I think that is rude and insensitive. Next time you come to town just let us know we will take you to a real "non chain"/friendly server restaurant and the club you enjoy!!
  15. Wow this just seems to be a hard situation all around. So from what I'm reading you have forgiven your girlfriend for cheating but not her friend for being a part of it? I can see how you could not want to spend time with the friend but I'm a little confused on why you would spend time with the girlfriend if you can't hang out with her newly attached friend? From everything you have written it seems you are not over what she did to you so I really think you need to work on that first. Maybe tell your girlfriend that you prefer to work on your relationship with her and rebuild that trust before you start hanging out with other friends and couples together.... During this time you should also reconsider forgiving one but not the other. Your girlfriend's friend was not attached and did not cheat...your girlfriend on the other hand did....
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