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NYCTeamOfOne

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About NYCTeamOfOne

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  • Birthday 09/24/1970

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  1. English isn't my first language and Chicup definitely says it better than I do. I don't want to hijack the thread with any further debate. All I am trying to say is those who are browsing the thread, do not feel guilty or get scared off to say things in your mind and there really is no need to feel apologetic nor sugarcoat it.
  2. I understand what they are saying here but to the OP it doesn't really matter whether you think hot should or shouldn't solely based on physicality. What matters is he does and he'd like his question answered base solely on physicality. This is the OP's thread and I may be talking too much as is but I'd like to see people able to speak their true mind without feeling guilty or corrected.
  3. I completely understand that you do not think BP and TC are hot but I'd bet everything I own that the vast majority of females on this planet would think that they are hotter than Rob Schneider. I think people often take questions like this too personally or try to be politically correct which is ironic since the lifestyle itself isn't. I am speaking out because I am interested in this question and I want the true answers, not sugar coated one.
  4. I have noticed when someone mentions "hot" people'd jump on the person asking the question giving him a speech on how the definition of "hot" is different for everyone or that he shouldn't look for just hot women. I personally know what OP means when he says "Hot women" and I suspect everyone here knows what he means as well. I also know for sure when he asked his question he was only asking about the physical attribute. You may not agree with what he means by hot but you know what it means to him and probably majority of the population. I think many of us know he'd like his question answered with "HIS" definition of "more attractive" vs "less attractive", not yours. Why can't we simply answer his question without trying to correct him? In you accusing him being judgmental you yourself is being judgmental. P.S. I am not addressing this to any one specific person
  5. We are kind of in similar situation except I am trying to avoid getting myself in your situation where she may say "don't bring it up". IMO women say it for two reasons. 1) She is grossed out by it. I barely mentioned it to my ex-fwb that I think it'd be hot if I can see her kissing a girl and she freaked out and say I only want some bi-sexual slut and never want to see me again. She goes to church every weekend so I should have known..but then again she was my fwb 2) She feels pressure. Perhaps you can mention it in a none serious, joking kind of way. just my $.02
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