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  1. Adam here. I'm just not a big fan of Bolt on Bobbies. Most of the time they look the same standing up or laying down and I just don't like the way they feel. I would pick natural anytime, no matter what shape they are in. I love the way they look, the way they feel, and the way they move.....especially the way they move. Save your money. Hey, I'm just saying.
  2. F/44, M/48 We have been swinging for a year and a half. Talked about it for more then 6 months before we started.
  3. I guess that would be ideal but no matter how close of friends you think you may be and how trustworthy you feel the rest of the group is I am not sure that you can be 100% certain that people wouldn't stray from the group every now and then without the groups knowledge and I guess if there was a way to crunch those numbers they would equal the effectiveness of condom use.
  4. Oh sure Fuse, throw a wrench in the works!!! I understand exactly what you are saying though, as we feel the same way but I think this would safely put you in the "Rather use them but occasionally wont" category just because you stated you use them "most" of the time and because like us, in the grand scheme of things even though you would rather not, in regards to the lifestyle you still would rather use them because you may feel it is best thing to do, at least most of the time.
  5. Thanks for voting. OK, so it seems that the votes have basically stopped. We almost reached 100 so I guess it is time to recap with what I feel are some interesting but not surprising results. First of all, it seems like there is definitely an older group responding to this board. Second, the use of condoms seems to coincide with age. The older couples definitely seem more willing to go condomless at least occasionally. Total Votes by age: 21-30 11 votes 31-40 23 votes 41-up 57 votes It seems the older the age group, the more willing couples are to go condomless. 21-30 11 votes Always use condoms 63.6% Never or occasionally 36.3% 31-40 13 votes Always use condoms 52.2% Never or occasionally 47.8% 41-up 31 votes Always use condoms 24.6% Never or occasionally 75.4% Interestingly enough the total number of votes still suggest the majority of couples are willing to not use condoms at least occasionally. And by what I would consider a pretty good margin. Votes in Total: 91 Always use condoms 36.2% Never or occasionally 63.8% Any comments?
  6. Ok, With 50 people checking in I have compiled some numbers but I understand that with only 50 votes it is anything but scientific. I think you can see an interesting trend forming although it would always be nice to get more votes to reflect the data more accurately and as we do I will refigure the numbers. The first thing I have noticed which seem to substantiate my hypothesis is that at least in this forum we have a more older group checking in. Total Votes by age: 21-30 6 votes 31-40 13 votes 41-up 31 votes Also substantiating my hypothesis is that it seems the older the age the more willing people are to not use condoms at least occasionally. Although the 21-30 and 31-40 age brackets are very close it seems the 41 and up group are far more willing to go condomless. 21-30 6 votes Always use condoms 66.6% Never or occasionally 33.3% 31-40 13 votes Always use condoms 69.25% Never or occasionally 30.75% 41-up 31 votes Always use condoms 38.75% Never or occasionally 61.25% Lets hope for more votes so we can get a more accurate reflection of the data and I will keep it updated.
  7. If you are on SLS you can block them if they haven't already found your profile and they will not be able to view it. I don't think it would be a big deal for me if I had found or knew my siblings were swingers but I know Eve would be a little taken aback by it.
  8. OK, we know the condom threads have been done to death but now being a year into our swinging career we seem to have found, contrary to what we have read in these threads, that the vast majority of couples we have had dealings with, whether we have played with or just discussed our rules with, do not use condoms regardless of what they may say in their profiles. None has every refused to wear them but they have always made it a point to let us know they would rather not. If it were just one or two couples we met that didn't use them we could understand but we have been to clubs, house parties and conventions and without fail rarely has anyone ever broke out the condoms. Actually as we reflect deeper we should say, never has anyone broke out the condoms. When we discussed entering the lifestyle we just assumed that condom usage would be there norm but quickly found out different. There is no way that we are just by chance picking people that don't use them. It got us thinking that maybe it is just couples in our age range, (upper 40's) that feel they aren't necessary. Maybe the older people get, the safer they feel. All the threads we have read here have shown the majority of people on this board use them but since we don't normally play with younger couples we thought we would create a poll to break it down by age groups. We really have no other answers for this anomaly. We would like to hear other people's thoughts or experiences on this issue.
  9. We do frequent the two most popular clubs in our area and have found the demographics to be pretty much the same with what is online. It could very well be that socials and parties can be the place to find connections that match your specific demographic but the whole point of the thread was to examine the drastic drop off in numbers (which is a fact) when swingers do hit a certain age and to hypothesize why in fact that may be occurring. Nobody is questioning that swingers over 50 can be found, it's just that their numbers don't correspond to the amount of swingers that were available when they were in their 40's.
  10. So Alura....you were reading our minds. LOL Well, so far it seems like health issues and the economy, the latter of which that can most affect all age groups, that seem to be the most popular reasons. I can understand the health issues thinning some of the heard (so to speak) but if we were to hypothesize, we would have to guess it would be something other then that accounting for the drastic drop off. Although maybe it is a combination of all the reasons posted so far that when added up account for the loss in numbers. Hmmm I think we were looking for something just a little more concrete.
  11. It seems to us that the age range for swingers seems to average between the late 30's to mid 40's. Closing in on our 50's started us wondering. What happens to that large group of swingers once they hit their 50's? Do they drop out of the lifestyle? Have they had enough fun for one lifetime? Do they feel they are getting too old and just decide to give it up? Where has that group gone? Why don't they continue on in the lifestyle? Being newbies and perhaps getting a late start in this lifestyle makes us wonder if we will have any choice of playmates come the next few years. Does anyone have any theories, any first hand knowledge or any ideas as to this phenomenon?
  12. I had read in another thread a while back and I can't seem to find it right now, nor can I remember who wrote it, but it went something like, "No Kissing is usually the first rule a couple adopts. It's also usually the first rule to go out the window". It was certainly true for us.
  13. Like many others here we volunteer to approve pictures and profiles on SLS as well. As long as its legal and within SLS standards we approve it, all the while shaking our heads and saying to ourselves, "its your profile dude....good luck". As far as us, we prefer to see full body shots. Face pics aren't necessary. The faces can be blurred but a full body pic gives us some idea if your along the lines of what we are looking for. We have face pics that we have in our private folder that we will open up if there is an interest. We have no personal folder showing us doing the nasty because we feel they are just not necessary in order for you to make a judgement if you are interested in us or not. Its a dating site, not a porno site.
  14. Seinfeld did an episode where his dentist often swapped receptionists. It was a very overt reference to swinging. One of the best episode as well BTW
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