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  1. Ok here is our story, not only was it embarrassing but also outed the four of us. We had been in a somewhat long term relationship with this couple, after a really hot night of sex we decided that they should just spend the night. I got out of bed early and let our dogs out and opened the garage door. Not long after I returned to bed all were awake and the morning play began. My wife and the other husband finished and went to the kitchen to make breakfast, wearing only robes. Myself and the other wife still "working it out" rather loudly in the master bedroom. A knock, followed by 3 other couples walk into the kitchen via the back door, to find my wife and the other husband cooking and the obvious sounds of sex from the bedroom. the other couples had come to ask us to go for a ride on our motorcycles with them, so now all our friends know about our swinging... we all still laugh at it.
  2. Great Thread; My wife and i have a couple we play with 2 to 3 times a month after one rather very hot night we returned to my mother-n-laws house to pick up our 16 month old, at around 2 am or so. and were asked by my mother-n-law what do you two do there all day and night, swap wives... to which my wife and i only smiled with that special look in our eye and replied no just spread the good cheer!!!! Not long after my mom says its good you kids have a couple your age to get into trouble with, and drink, and talk dirty to.... we just smiled and said you know it mom.. If they only knew.....
  3. Lots of good advice. I think I would go the most diplomatic way. I'm the male here, but if my wife was to notice it I would think it would sound like this... In conversation, my wife would say: "I have noticed that I had a very strong odor a while back, not sure exactly what it was, but I think it has gone back to normal" and the conversation would and could go from there or be dropped. Maybe just drop a hint is all that it needs.
  4. My wife and I are 35 and 31 three kids, married 13 years. We have a regular play couple he 44 she 42. two kids married 22 years. My wife and I are somewhat "wild" in bed i.e. a gentle night of love making means the neighbors didn't hear us. Our playmates are much more "calm" then we are, The other wife is very passive, her husband is well about half as aggressive as my wife and about a third as me. On the other hand the other wife is very passionate very much into kissing, touching, and sex is at a much slower pace than we are used to. Over the last few weeks I have found myself being much slower with much longer foreplay with my wife, I feel that the things we have shared, and learned from our playmates have made my wife and i better lovers when we are together. I always knew that foreplay could be very erotic but never knew that it could be so very powerful. I thought I'd share this with everyone, and if anyone else feels that they too have become better lovers with their spouse or SO, we would love to hear about it. Thanks for reading this long post.
  5. Intuition; we feel for you this wouold be terrible to have happen, First off she sounds as if she is a true friend and if that is the case life and your friendship will go on however she may pray for you often. I think there have been lots of great ideas as how to handle this situation but i personall don't think trying to cover it up is a good idea, If she feels you are being untruthful that will end your friendship. Personally i would just act normal and if it comes up then sit down and talk it out. My life long best friend came out of the closet to her parents with me sitting there and although it wasn't what they wanted to hear it was the facts, your friend will understand no matter how wrong she may feel you are. "judge not least you be judged" and i feel that she will do you right it may just take some time for her to recover. After all its just talk and nothing more..
  6. I only want to say that unlike some of the points made i do understand that we as men do communicate a little different than women. I understand all points and didn't take it that anyone was attacking anyone else. I did read in a couple post about hitting on someone who doesn't feel the same ie. bi-women on straight women and bi-men on straight men. I am a Straight male who in fact doesn't get upset in the least if i'm hit on by a bi-male or a gay male, and wouldn't understand why anyone male or female would get upset, I myself am flattered makes me feel good, makes MrsT feel good that her husband is attractive. I've listened to "straight" men respond to these advances as "Do I Look Gay" to which i wish someone would say does the guy hitting on you look gay? or even better "Yes you do" why else would i hit on you.. To each their own
  7. First off relax im in no way a doctor so i won't give you stats on the chances but a condom is a very good form of birth control, Even if you take the pill there is still a chance that it might happen. I think you just need to relax, sounds as if you had fun, and your hubby is ok with it as well. You are only letting thoughts run crazy in your head. The chance of you being pregnant are very slim.. RELAX and have fun if you choose to not play again till after you are fixed that's fine but condoms have been used for years as birth control.. just my two cents
  8. This relationship from the one side that i have read is over, it has went far past trust and respect, You my lady are now the "cake" that he can eat too. I assure you that he is not going to tell any one about you, or involve you in any situation that he finds himself into. The truth is in his words the "its my fetish and i'm doing it" Cut the rope and move on he soon enough will because you are not what he is interested in anymore. I know this sounds a bit harsh but i'm only calling it hte way i see it
  9. Did the same conversation and rules get talked over with the other husband? If not he could not understand that he was crossing the line. Your wife may not have thought a kiss was anything more than a kiss. My advice to you is step back and clear your head, you can't have any viable conversation with your friend let alone your wife if you are on the verge of a melt down. If you don't keep a cool head you might just destroy two families yours and theirs, Its not worth it i assure you, These are people who are inportant to you and your wife talk them out don't make accusations that may be totally unfounded. They may not know that you feel betrayed. Talk it out with your wife first, then as a group if you decide that its over than figure out where that takes you, but ouly after you have the truth on the table You have to deal with your insecurity problems and soon.
  10. I know this is an old post but had to share. 1st Naked twister and message oil don't mix and i have the denture work to prove it. 2nd when mrs tjomc and i were first together we had a powerful night of sex to which i stayed inside till i was completely soft, Later that night i could find the condom and thought she threw it away, next day we are in my room with me trying to remove it from her vagina with my fingers, this was truly not the way i wanted to get my fingers in her again.....
  11. Here is my (male half) fantasy, "as we have only soft swing" under our belt to this point. My wife on her knees with the other lady on her back at the edge of the bed, My wife is eating her while jerking me off, Then my wife pulls me over and lines my cock up to the other woman and slowly pushes me into her, at which point my wife takes turns licking my shaft balls and her clit until we cum together and my wife licks us clean. Wow I love that thought and hope it will come true this weekend....Wish me luck
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