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  1. It seems to us that the point of swinging is to experience someone different from your spouse. A bigger penis, a different race, a younger or older person are all part of the equation. I doubt you wife is with you because of the size of your penis and chances are she's already had bigger before you came along and yet she is with you. So relax and enjoy her pleasure and your own as well.
  2. I enjoyed one with six men not including Michael. My question to everyone is when does your hubby take his turn? First, last or does he just watch?
  3. We don't watch generic porn finding it too crass and a turn-off. We do love watching amateur videos that at least appear to be homemade. Our favorites are those found on Cuckold Space or video hosting sites which have the added bonus of being free.
  4. We have the impression that the definition of cuckolding usually found on the web is is promoted by people who participate only in their fantasies. In contrast, the definition of swinging seems to be put forth by people who participate in real world activities.
  5. We have allowed a few men to take photos of me (female half) giving oral or showing penetration as long as my face is obscured. Together, we have enjoyed some of the wife posting sites and have thought about posting some of our own but haven't yet done it.
  6. I've had four such relationships over the years: First girlfriend: I brought it up and she said yes immediately. Second girlfriend: We met at a swing party. Third girlfriend/wife: I mentioned my swinging past and she offered up that she had done a MFM with her last boyfriend. Current girlfriend: I mentioned my swinging past and the idea went straight to her genitals in an involuntary reflex. She didn't want to be left out of the fun. Never did I try to convince or persuade. The idea of swinging and the fact that the choice was hers did all the work.
  7. Per the dictionary, a cuckold is a man whose wife has sex with another man, which means that all the men in the lifestyle are cuckolds. Cuckolding has the connotation of an inferior man being bested by another having sex with the wife. My own view is that I thrill to watching her with other men. What I enjoy best is one-sided swinging. With each of the previous four women who lived this lifestyle with me, we started by swinging and gradually moved towards MFM's or my just watching. My present relationship is the first that began as a cuckolding model. We decide to cut to the chase finding that she is more secure with my monogamy. A lot of what I read in cuckold groups on the 'net seem to be complete fantasy taken to ridiculous lengths. Perhaps some of it is reality. We don't get into the heavier aspects of S&M that can creep into web descriptions of cuckolding activities. We are simply a swinging couple whose husband decided to take the night off to enjoy his wife's pleasure. While I prefer watching, one really exciting memory was seeing her go off to a private area in a public nightclub to have a quickie with a man we met there and her returning to me with that familiar flush of contentment.
  8. As I first entered into the lifestyle with a girlfriend, it developed that she had a preference for black men. I never asked and she never explained why. It was enough that she was enjoying herself. Everyone has preferences and it serves no purpose to examine them for motive. What I observed is that they were all very taken with her. Perhaps that, more than ay other factor, brought about the preference. Could size have been an issue? Possibly. At one of the parties, she had sex with John Holmes, who set the standard for the day.
  9. For me, watching her is the most erotically compelling aspect of the lifestyle, which I've enjoyed with four different women over the years. With each, we would begin by swinging equally but would progress to my watching. The images of her with another make for the most potent memories.
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