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jd512k

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About jd512k

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 03/20/1969

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    washington
  1. Hello all! I've been lurking on here for two or so years now and have learned quite a lot from this forum. This particular subject - How did you get started - is, and has been my #1 question for awhile now.. "It is only a fantasy..." Is exactly what my S.O. says as well.. She is incredibly turned on when we fantasize of another joining us.. I am very good at painting an imaginary sceneario for her.. She loves it and typically becomes "lost" or swept away in the fantasy.. Leading to wonderful and multiple orgasms.. She enjoys having me write her naughty stories as well.. Stories envolving others.. When we go out we "pick" people for each other and joke with one another about inviting them home with us.. We often cruise the internet looking for men and or women for one another.. Yet she continually says she could not go through with any of this in real life.. We have talked at length about it for 2+ years.. I would be quite interested in hearing from those of you who took the leap from fantasy to reality and how it finally took place for you.. Especially from you women out there who may have also once said "It is only a fantasy..." If my lovely S.O. and I never take the leap from fantasy to reality, so be it. I will be ok with that. We will continue to have an amazing sex life regardless. However, the mere idea of witnessing the love of my life give, and more importantly to me, receive, sexual pleasure, to and from another.. Wow! Being able to witness that third person.. Being able to give her such a gift.. I am at a complete loss of words as how to describe just how incredible that would be
  2. *1. I questioned myself and everything I did, thinking that I had tried every trick in the book......* Bunny.. it is NOT YOU. I am a man that unfortunately suffers from the same problem. There are times when I completely lose my erection during penetration.. sometimes I will lose it as soon as the clothes come off... It has NOTHING to do with you or anything you did... I assure you of this... There was nothing you could have done differently to have made him maintain an erection. He has ED. End of story. Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes the pills help. Sometimes they do not. This is a very sensitive subject for both myself and my SO. She feels very much as you are feeling now, when it happens to me. That is why I feel compelled to write.. There are times I get emotional about it. It is absolutely humiliating and results in feelings of inadequacy (in both of us)...but we have learned to work around it.. It appears there are already several replies with great suggestions to your other questions.. I just wanted you to hear from a man who happens to suffer from the exact same problem as the man you described.. I know it is difficult to believe, but, please do not blame yourself for this... it simply is not your fault in any way.. I can tell you from first hand experience that when it happens to me, there is not a single woman on the face of this planet that could bring it back to life for any meaningful length of time.. Usually, if I am having problems, my SO and I move on to something else and try again later.. doesn't always work though. Sometimes it's just not meant to be Anyway.. just wanted you to hear it from a guy.. IT'S NOT YOU K? I promise!!
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